Taiwan Author Long Yingtai said: The so -called father and daughter, mother and son, just mean that your fate is that this life is constantly watching his back. You are standing at the end of the path, watching him gradually disappear at a place where the path turns. Moreover, he told you silently with his back: you don't have to chase. The words of
are very classic, and the relationship between parents and children is revealed. Although it sounds a bit lost and sad, this is reality. Among all the love in the world, only the love of parents and children is gradually separated, and other love is gradually approaching. Since the
is gradually separated between the parents and the children, then at a certain time, the parents must learn to let go. Only when parents let go, can their children fly high and fly to his own life smoothly.
If the parents are reluctant to break up and drag their children, they will violate the rules. Things that violate the laws will be punished. Therefore, no matter how reluctant the parents are, they must learn to let go. This is also the love for the child, and the child is looking for freedom.
Son daughter -in -law is going to travel to a new wedding. When her mother -in -law had to follow
Aunt Lu when she was young, her husband did not tune, and she was always hurt. Aunt Lu was hurt. If it weren't for her son, she would have divorced her husband for a long time. Because her husband hurt her heart, she poured all her feelings on her son, and her son became her everything. When
was in college, he wanted to go to universities in the field. Like other young people, he wanted to see the outside world. But Aunt Lu resolutely disagrees. If her son is gone, how can she live alone? Although her husband could no longer go out to make flowers, Aunt Lu couldn't forgive him, so he was separated from him.
has no choice but to choose universities in the city. After his son was admitted to college, Aunt Lu was not allowed to live in school because Aunt Lu wanted to be with his son. His son often felt very depressed, because he was stuck by Aunt Lu, and he was almost free.
, for example, when his son goes home for a while, Aunt Lu will continue to call and urge his son to go home quickly; after his son's friend comes to play at home, Aunt Lu always mixes among them and does not let them be together alone; what the son wants to buy? Things, I have to agree with Aunt Lu to buy ...
's son also quarreled with Aunt Lu, suspected that Aunt Lu was too much, and Aunt Lu cried and made trouble again, saying how much she had eaten for her son, for the sake of her son, for her son She did not divorce, and was grievances in her marriage; for her son, she desperately worked to earn money, and she was reluctant to eat ...
, when she said this, the son felt like he owed a huge debt, and felt that he felt like he owed a huge debt, and felt that he felt like It's like a sinner. If it weren't for him, his mother would not live so hard; if it wasn't for him, the mother would have divorced it long ago and would have a new life. After
, her son was looking for a object, and Aunt Lu interfered thousands of interference. She kept urging her son to find an object, but after her son found the object, she felt that she was going to lose her son, so she could not help but destroy it, making her son and girlfriend have to break up.
was talked about several girlfriends because of the relationship between Aunt Lu, but they broke up. It wasn't until the age of 31 that he became a girlfriend. This was only after concealing the situation of Aunt Lu. After the girl knew the situation of their family, she sympathized with her son and understood him very much, and the two fell in love slowly.
's son received for a marriage certificate with his girlfriend, and then brought his girlfriend home. At this time, raw rice had been cooked with mature rice. Aunt Lu agreed to agree, and he had to agree. Aunt Lu was very unhappy, but there was no way. She could only get a marriage for her son and daughter -in -law. After the wedding of
, the couple decided to go to the wedding tour for a week. I did not expect Aunt Lu to go. Of course, the daughter -in -law was unwilling to take her mother -in -law as the electric bulb. The son did Aunt Lu's ideological work, but Aunt Lu cried and made trouble.
's son -in -law was driving a car to travel by car. At the time of departure, Aunt Lu stayed beside the car early. There is no way for the little couple to bring Aunt Lu.Aunt Lu was very happy that after she married her husband, her husband had never taken her out to travel. Now she borrowed the light of her son and daughter -in -law.
can be quarreled because the ticket is too expensive. Aunt Lu suspected that the ticket was too expensive, and said that it was enough to walk on the street outside the scenic area, but the daughter -in -law felt that Qianli was here, and she should always go in and see. Besides, this is their newlywed trip. Of course, you have to spend money, not too much.
then conflict for the first time. In the end, Aunt Lu pulled his son to enter the scenic spot, and his daughter -in -law went in alone. But what does it mean to play alone? Besides, she quarreled with her mother -in -law, and her daughter -in -law had no mood to visit, so she shook it in the scenic area and came out. Aunt Lu scolded her to waste money again. When
came to eat, her son -in -law was going to the hotel to eat, but Aunt Lu felt that the restaurant was too expensive. She brought dry food and everyone eats food! There was another contradiction between mother -in -law and daughter -in -law. This time, the daughter -in -law compromised, and accompanied Aunt Lu with her son to sit in the car to eat dry food, but the daughter -in -law's heart was very happy. When
stays at the hotel at night, it should always open two rooms, but Aunt Lu has to open a standard room. There are two beds in the standard room. He asked his son and daughter -in -law to sleep, and she slept with another one. The daughter -in -law asked her son to open two rooms. Aunt Lu scolded his son, and then grabbed his son's ID card and went to open the room herself.
Travel on the first day is very unpleasant. My son and daughter -in -law may be better the next day, but the situation the next day is even worse. Moreover, every son and daughter -in -law were sitting together, her mother -in -law had to sit with her son and put her daughter -in -law aside. The daughter -in -law was like an extra person.
's son was embarrassed in the middle. In fact, he also wanted to be with the newlywed wife, but his mother always sticked to him. He didn't follow his mother's heart, and his mother said how much suffering for him and how much grievance he had suffered. If it wasn't for him, his mother had lived a good life ...
on the third morning, his son and Aunt Lu still slept. When he was, his daughter -in -law quietly left the hotel and then went home with public transport. Later, when his son and mother -in -law woke up and found it, he could only return to the house. After
came home, Aunt Lu scolded her daughter -in -law again, saying that she went home alone without saying hello. When the daughter -in -law was unhappy, she quarreled with Aunt Lu, so she asked her son to choose, either moved out with her, or divorced. The son chose to move out, and the two planned to rent a house to live.
Aunt Lu was so anxious when she knew it. She cried and died, scolding her daughter -in -law as a fox, and had to abduct her heart and liver. The son ignored her, but just quietly told his wife that if Aunt Lu followed his house, they would go to work in a foreign country and stay away from Aunt Lu, and the wife agreed naturally. After
is married to her son, her mother -in -law has to learn to let go of
Aunt Lu because her marriage is unhappy, and she has poured all her feelings on her son. The son is like her life. She wants to grab her son firmly. So for the arrival of her daughter -in -law, she was full of hostility. She felt that her daughter -in -law was like a robber, and came to snatch her son's love. If
left Aunt Lu decisively, the son's marriage would not be kept. In fact, Aunt Lu's psychology has been distorted. She firmly grasped her son and not let go. This is to prevent her son from growing. The relationship between
is the core relationship of a family. Because there is a problem with this relationship, Aunt Lu is dislocated. She put her feelings about her husband mistakenly on her son. The young couple went to the wedding trip, and the mother -in -law had to follow, and also pointed to the hands. No little couple would welcome.
son is married to get married, and her mother -in -law has to learn to let go and let her son go to his own life. Son and daughter -in -law formed a small family. If they have their own lives, if the mother -in -law is always blended, there will be family contradictions.
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