! Yesterday I posted a headline, and some netizens commented that I had previously posted a headline saying that my child’s father passed away when he was six years old, and then I had no choice but to leave my youngest son behind to work as a nanny in Wenzhou .
He said that yesterday he said that a man fell ill and died after building a house. It was my fault for not telling the whole process.
First of all, I am very grateful to this netizen, which shows that you think highly of me and read my headlines seriously. As the saying goes, bystanders are clear and the authorities are confused.
I am a rural woman, and I am only a primary school graduate with limited writing skills. I hope fans will forgive me! And when I write headlines, I don’t draft them, I write them in one go!
Now that I have written my story, and some netizens have found that the two articles before and after are wrong, and the cow head is wrong, I have no intention of turning back. I must write out the process in between, so that I will not be in vain. Fans, please tell me!
Now let’s start talking about my life experience! But it’s hard to look back on the past, and it brings tears to my eyes when I talk about it. I was born in a village in Majin Town, Kaihua County, Zhejiang Province.
I am the fifth of six brothers and sisters in my family. I graduated from Wenhua Primary School. Later, when I grew up, I also made friends. Although I was not beautiful when I was young, there were still people who liked me and pursued me. But my character is that of being afraid of wolves and tigers later, which ultimately led to my end today. So it is true to say that choice is greater than effort.
Most of the rural people in the 1990s had poor family conditions, let alone buildings. I once had a relationship with my boyfriend, but my parents disliked being poor and loved being rich, because my mother made tofu and sold it, and the family conditions in the village were above average at that time.
In the end, the relationship didn't work out. Suddenly, I was twenty-five years old. At that time, I was considered a rural girl. If I didn't marry, people would say that no one would want her.
Let’s talk about how I am a civilized person who married in Anhui province. I was a guest at my second sister’s house in a mountain village ten miles away from the town. The house she lived in belonged to a wealthy family. There was a woman in the house that day. Master Tong was working, and he was joking with me to play matchmaker for me. I joked that it would be okay.
Who knew he took it seriously, and the person he introduced me to was his brother-in-law, who was also his apprentice. Later he became my uncle, and his apprentice became my husband.
Back then, he called his brother-in-law to my second sister’s house. Unexpectedly, he fell in love with me and wrote me letters in calligraphy. At that time, I thought that as long as someone treats me well, it doesn’t matter where he is, I will just marry him.
Later, my second-generation ID card was from Huangshan City, Anhui Province. In fact, my house is at the junction of and , Kaihua County, and I can see my house when I turn a corner.
Later, I gave birth to my son in the second year of my marriage. Who knew that my first marriage on the fifth day of leap May in 1998 would completely change my life.
My husband unfortunately had an accident that day, and I won’t go into detail about the process.
The first paragraph of my life story ends here and continues with the headline article I wrote later. In August 1998, I had no choice but to leave my son behind and go south to Wenzhou to work as a nanny.
When I was working in Wenzhou, one of my children went to my grandma's house to play. I took the children to play outside. I met a woman from Jiangxi in a store where she made curtain fabrics . She asked me about my situation, and I answered truthfully. , I had been living in Wenzhou for four or five years, and I said I no longer had a husband. She said she would introduce someone to me, and later she introduced someone to me who I liked, but because my mother-in-law was in good health at the time and she was very strong, we finally broke up after two years of dating.
Although I couldn't give my son a mother's love since he was a child, I have the responsibility to raise him, so I once posted a missing person notice, because although he and I broke up, we were still in contact at that time, and later he In my hometown, I was still working as a nanny. The last time I lost contact was because I changed my number, and he went to work in Shanghai. One day that year, there was a number in Shanghai. My caregiver at Hangzhou Hospital didn’t receive it. I don’t know what happened, so I went to change it that day. The number was lost because we couldn’t afford a smartphone at that time.
Let me talk about the second husband who has left now! He is from the same village as my child's father and is also of the same age. He says he is a classmate, but in fact we don't get along. He has a bad temper, but he has a good heart.My mother-in-law persuaded me to stay with him, saying that she would help me build a house together, so I made the wrong step again.
When we built the first house, he and I just lived together, because we couldn't get along, and we kept quarreling during the building of the house. After the house was built, we still quarreled, and I agreed that we would get along well and break up. I had been to the village of Yuyuan, and I promised him to use it. I paid 60,000 yuan for double the time spent with him, but when I wrote an IOU, he refused to leave.
I had no choice but to let others see it, so I went to work again. So the land for the second house is my family's farm. Because it was rented to build a highway and serve as a headquarters, it has been turned into concrete and the farmland cannot be restored.
Finally he said to build a foundation, and just like that he built the second building in a daze. Who knew that after the house was built, he fell ill, and his mother had just passed away from esophageal cancer for a year.
This is my experience for most of my life. My life is very miserable. Writing about it will only make people laugh at me. Today I shared my story and hope that some fans will not have any doubts.
In fact, everyone has a story, but the process is exciting or not. Life is not easy, but you have to live it and cherish it. I advise those couples who are at odds to talk it over, communicate more, and don’t be cold and violent. Indifference is a knife that kills people without blood. There is no regret in life. I have learned it through blood!
