Men, as long as their career is prosperous and their financial resources are smooth, all other problems, no matter how big they are, will not be a problem. This is what I said. Because in a man's life, he doesn't have to worry about emotions, marriage, and all kinds of trivial matters. He only needs to talk about one thing clearly, and that is career.
For men, career is as important as the reinforced concrete of a building. Only when the career is stable can everything else have a foundation to rely on.
Let’s take marriage as an example. Haven’t I often talked about how women marry high and how to choose a spouse recently? So it is inevitable that some male friends will ask how a man should choose his marriage?
When a man is broke and penniless, finding a wife is really a pure gambling act.
Because you have not stood at a high enough career level and have come into contact with enough high-quality women, you do not have the ability to distinguish which women can help you throughout your life and which women can share hardships but not wealth. You can't tell which women are potential wives and which are lazy prodigals.
When a man is in the lower class, there is more than 70% chance that he can only find a woman who can make do with it, and pay attention to the woman who can live a makeshift life. There is also a 20% chance that he can find a woman who can understand each other, and another 10% The best possibility is to find a woman who can truly support each other for a lifetime.
It’s not that there are no good women in the lower class, but the probability of a good woman is very low. If you do meet one, you are lucky.
Therefore, men should not spend time thinking about choosing a mate. When you can have two or three financial sources to provide income every year and have a certain worth, you will find that your whole world has "opened up".
The quality of the levels and people you come into contact with has improved dramatically. At this time, you only need to pay a little attention to the character of your spouse, because if you get married at this level, everyone will treat marriage as a very cautious matter and will respect each other. Cherish and maintain.
At this time, there is more than 70% probability that you can find a good wife.
Is this simple and crude enough?
I also know that some female compatriots will feel uncomfortable when it comes to this. After all, they feel that although they may be ordinary, they are also good wives?
Let’s just say this, it’s a matter of opinion.
Come on, let me ask you, of the following two types, who is more worthy of being called a good wife?
I know a little bit about all kinds of housework, and my character is good, but my financial level is not high, and my parents’ social status is also very ordinary. However, for really important family affairs, such as buying a house, raising children, and managing assets, they cannot provide strong wealth and wealth. A supportive woman.
I am still not good at housework, and my character is not bad, but my income level is very considerable, my parents have a very good background, and I know how to help the family develop a long-term and slowly profitable asset appreciation path, and I have the vision to identify good houses. And women who educate their children well and are well-educated?
Come on, tell me, on the premise that there is no basis for any relationship between the two parties, who is a good wife in the eyes of a good man?
Therefore, a man’s life creed is really to pursue the principle of simplifying complexity and not doing work, just focusing on his career.
As long as you move up the career ladder, all the details will be ignored and easily handled in the process.
Really, promotion and climbing, although it is a process, is the answer in itself.
