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In this era, many elderly people are looking for a wife, and they do not consider getting a certificate, but choose to live together.
The advantage of living together is that we can take care of each other in life, drive away loneliness together, and no longer feel alone. If we can't live together anymore, if we want to separate, there won't be much trouble and there won't be any involvement.
No, they had only been together for two months. The uncle's words brought their fate to an abrupt end.
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Uncle Jin was a corporate cadre. When he retired, his wife died of cerebral infarction .
He only had an only daughter. After getting married, he stayed in another city. He only wanted to take Uncle Jin over to take care of her in old age, but Uncle Jin refused to do anything.
Uncle Jin has always had a good habit of keeping fit. Although he is in his late sixties, he is healthy, energetic and looks particularly young.
Besides, Uncle Jin can also cook, lives in a large square meter elevator room, and has a off-road vehicle that has only been driven for a year. There are many friends around me, who get together from time to time to drink and play cards, and organize a self-driving trip every year. Life is rich and colorful. Therefore, he did not want to live in the home of his daughter, whom he was unfamiliar with.
Despite this, Uncle Jin is always alone at home. His daughter is worried and he himself feels particularly lonely.
After living alone for almost a year, Uncle Jin began to talk to the old guys around him. Although he lived a free life alone, he always felt that something was missing and he could not be happy.
In fact, Uncle Jin knew in his heart that he still wanted to find a wife again, but he didn't say it explicitly.
Not long after, his old friend introduced him to a wife, and Uncle Jin fell in love with her at first sight.
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Love is a wonderful thing, it can shine in people of different ages.
Uncle Jin’s chosen wife’s surname is Xiong, who is 5 years younger than him and is a retired teacher. Her wife also died of illness, and her only son was married and had children. She has a house, a car and a pension. Such conditions are really incredible.
Teacher Xiong has a gentle temperament and is well-dressed. Although she is no longer young, she is very temperamental and elegant. Uncle Jin is particularly satisfied with her.
Uncle Jin’s conditions are not bad in all aspects, and Teacher Xiong is not picky either.
During the relationship, the two talked about everything and had a lot of fun. They were like young lovers who were inseparable and wanted to become a family immediately.
When looking for a wife when you get older, you still have to deal with having children.
After hearing about it, Uncle Jin's daughter fully supported him, but Teacher Xiong's son was not very willing. The reason is that I don’t want Teacher Xiong to become someone else’s nanny.
It is not unnecessary for Teacher Xiong’s son to have such worries. In a family, most of the houseworkers are women. But Teacher Xiong didn't think so much. She had been single for almost 10 years and had suffered enough from loneliness. She wanted to have a companion so much.
Over the years, it’s not that no one has introduced her to a wife, it’s just that she hasn’t met anyone she likes. Uncle Jin's appearance made her very happy.
In the end, Teacher Xiong convinced his son and decided to start a family with Uncle Jin and finish life together.
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Uncle Jin brought Teacher Xiong here, and they became a family. Although they did not obtain a certificate and were not considered a legal couple, they were considered to be married again.
When you enter into marriage, you cannot do without daily necessities, and you must always be prepared to be like a feather in the land.
Speaking of which, Uncle Jin and Teacher Xiong both have pensions, and neither of them has any burdens. It is a magical life together.
On the first day the two of them were together, Uncle Jin offered to take 4,000 yuan a month as living expenses for the two of them, and asked Teacher Xiong to arrange their lives. If it was not enough, he would take more.
Teacher Xiong is also a person who is particular about life. The daily meals are specially catered to Uncle Jin's appetite, and the housework is also all-inclusive. Uncle Jin feels very happy.
According to common sense, what do people at this age have not experienced and what do they not understand? But Uncle Jin was confused.
The two of them had been living together happily for less than a month before Uncle Jin proposed to take over his mother, who lived in the country, to take care of her in her old age.
Aunt Xiong knew that Uncle Jin’s mother had suffered a stroke and could basically take care of herself. However, she needed help when walking. She was taken care of when she lived in the countryside, so why should she be taken in to live with her? What to do now? Put her in a dilemma.
Later, she thought that since she became a family and was also her mother-in-law, she had the obligation to honor the elderly, so she would take her in and live there for a while before seeing her. If she didn't nod, she would be afraid of resentment, so she had to reluctantly agree.
04
The arrival of Uncle Jin’s mother undoubtedly increased Teacher Xiong’s burden. Not to mention other things, she had to help the elderly man go out every day, and he no longer had free time.
And what about Uncle Jin? Nothing was said, and friends were often invited to the house to drink and play cards, and the party would not end until midnight.
Sometimes Teacher Xiong asked Uncle Jin to help with some housework. He promised with all his words, but actually did not take any action. Teacher Xiong was really tired and couldn't help but say a few words. Not only did Uncle Jin not understand, he even started arguing with her. What makes Teacher Xiong most uncomfortable is that her mother-in-law is still helping. In order to settle the matter, Teacher Xiong chose to be patient.
As the saying goes: A good horse will be ridden by others, and a good person will be bullied by others. A few days later, it was Teacher Xiong’s friend’s birthday, and she was going to have a dinner party. She prepared the food in advance and asked Uncle Jin to cook it at home. Unexpectedly, Uncle Jin firmly refused to allow her to go, and even said that if she wanted to go, she would take her mother with her.
Teacher Xiong couldn't bear it anymore, so he got angry with Uncle Jin. As they talked, Uncle Jin said that he paid 4,000 yuan a month, so Teacher Xiong had to listen to him.
For a moment, Teacher Xiong was so angry that she could not recover. She did not expect that this handsome man in front of her could be so kind-hearted, which made her feel very disappointed.
So, she didn't waste any more words, turned around and went into the house to pack her things, and left this so-called home without looking back.
Counting on the fingers of one hand, Uncle Jin and Teacher Xiong have only been together for two months. They are really destined to get together.
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No wonder some people say that when you are old, it is better to find someone to live with than live alone.
Teacher Xiong has such good conditions. It seems that he has found a satisfactory wife in Uncle Jin. Who would have thought that it would end like this? If you have a monthly pension, why go to such trouble?
Having said that, after all, people are still afraid of being alone as they get older, so it would be nice to have a companion by your side.
However, knowing people and their faces but not their hearts, people are unpredictable! It is really difficult to find a wife who can truly understand the cold and the hot and stay with you for a long time.
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