People who cannot achieve anything have three habits
Whether a person can achieve something or achieve great things is clearly revealed by his daily habits. People who can achieve things have self-discipline, struggle, hard work, perseverance, etc., which are all positive things. On the contrary, the characteristics of people who achieve nothing are It is also very prominent, such as changing your mind when seeing different things, complaining, right and wrong, speaking without restraint, opportunism, etc., and the negative energy is overwhelming.
There is an old saying in China: You know how old you are when you are young. A person's future can also be known from his style. There is nothing trivial in life. A single brick is inconspicuous, but a building is made up of countless bricks. Can you say that one brick is not important? Small things done well become big things. Today, let’s look at three aspects of what it’s like to be a person who can’t achieve anything.
1. Provoking right and wrong, "Diamond Sutra" and "Zengguang Xianwen": Those who talk about right and wrong are right and wrong people. People with a lot of right and wrong behave unkindly and are full of negative energy. If you say bad things about others in front of you, they will naturally say bad things about you in front of others. Their willingness to talk about people's rights and wrongs is the reason for their excessive jealousy. In their hearts, they often wish that those who are stronger than them will become more and more unlucky and embarrassed. This kind of people always gloat about others' misfortunes, base their own happiness on the pain of others, and stir up trouble among others, fearing that the world will not be in chaos. This kind of person is a pest in the team, and over time, everyone will become disloyal and alienated.
2. Shirking responsibility. When something goes wrong, it is the quickest to shirk responsibility. When something happens, you are always the first to take credit. Their favorite thing to say is: I don’t know, it’s none of my business. This kind of person can't save the situation at all. When he needs to charge into battle, he can escape faster than anyone else. He is afraid that bad things will happen to him. Who dares to let this kind of person stand alone?
3. He loves to talk big words and empty words. Everyone knows him. Nothing is impossible with him. He can hold the moon from the sky and catch turtles from the sea. His friends are all prominent figures such as the secretary, bureau chief. Yesterday I had dinner with Secretary Zhang. Director Li is invited tomorrow. He said hello a few days ago. It’s really impossible not to go. He’s so eloquent that I’m sweating just listening to it. In fact, this kind of person is good at nothing. He is motivated by vanity and wants to attract others to take him seriously in this boring way.
People who can really achieve things only do things and don’t talk about them. They know how to let others talk more effectively than bragging themselves.
There are many wonders in the world. If you understand the existence of such people, their existence is reasonable. You should be grateful for their "contributions" and they are the ones who make successful people possible.
(one post per day, post No. 2387, all pictures and texts are original)
