Opening sentence:
"Singing to wine, what is life like? It's like morning dew, the past days are more bitter."
In front of the wine, watching the singing and dancing, unfortunately, life time is limited.
This is a poem written by Cao Cao when he knew his destiny. It is completely different from the "Guan Cang Sea" he wrote when he climbed a mountain to look at the sea at Jieshi Mountain .
The heroic spirit of the past came to my face, with the world in mind, but now, it is desolate and tragic.
Life is only a few decades, as if a fleeting moment has passed, and every moment has quietly slipped through the fingers.
When people are young, they always want to have more, houses, cars, money, long for unlimited glory, and don’t want to be left behind by others.
When you go through one journey after another, you meet all kinds of people, experience all kinds of things, taste all the flavors of life, and experience the warmth and warmth of human relationships.
As I get older, I finally understand that whether you have money or not, life is all about living. Only by living yourself, staying open-minded, and having a rich soul can you live your life in vain.
Guangsha has tens of millions, after all, there is only three feet to sleep at night; thousands of money, after all, if you don’t bring it with you in life, you won’t take it with you in death.
A hundred years later, everyone will be a handful of loess, a glass of old wine, and a speck of dust.
People are getting old, and they live less and less every day. Don’t think so much about the rest of the days, be rich and nourish yourself, and let the rest go with the wind!
Live your own life
People live one life and know whether they are warm or cold.
What seems insignificant to you is probably what others are striving for; what seems hard to get to you may be what others take for granted.
So, don’t worry so much. Everyone has his or her own fate. Gains and losses are determined by fate. Only by letting nature take its course can you be content with the situation.
As you go on in life and experience more, you will find that this world is very fair.
You may not be able to enjoy family happiness if you have a high-rise courtyard; you may not be able to enjoy a healthy body if you have infinite wealth; you may not be able to eat a bowl of clear soup noodles made by your relatives even if you eat shark fins every day ; When you travel around the world, you may not always be able to "have free time with your family and be close to each other by the lights"...
People are alive like this, whether it is hard or tired, enjoy what you have and recognize what you want, then you can live. out of your own life.
When you are older, you must stop pursuing fame and status, and stop trying to make a lot of money.
Live well, take good care of your body, and make yourself healthier, which is the best way to nourish yourself. You know, if you get sick once, all your money may be lost.
When encountering people or problems, don’t panic or get confused. Life has its ups and downs, and they are all normal.
Don't worry so much about your life. Always regard your children's affairs as your own major matter. Children and grandchildren will have their own blessings. This is not a joke.
When your children grow up, open your mind and allow them to take charge of themselves, which is the wealth you will leave behind.
Maintain your own image, don’t be slovenly or slovenly, even if we are old and cannot be full of talents, we must still be clean.
To nourish yourself means to have a proper image, good health, decent speech, respect for life, and be responsible for yourself.
Stay open-minded
As you get older, you must be in a good mood.
There is a saying: Life is full of seas, mountains and rivers, but nothing.
Having experienced the world and traveled through thousands of rivers and mountains, everyone will experience some ups and downs and have many stories about their own past.
However, these things have passed by as they pass by, so don’t take them to heart anymore.
You must know that while we are alive, it is normal to experience some ups and downs, some ups and downs.
No one’s life will be smooth sailing. Most people are sailing on the sea and their future is unpredictable.
Therefore, when you get older, you should have an open-minded heart. Don't care so much, don't care about other people's gossip, and don't get involved in things that are not within your capabilities.
The past is just smoke and mirrors, don’t keep it in your mind.
The more calm a person lives, the calmer he can be. The more free and easy a person lives, the more he can know what he really wants.
I am too old to withstand so much trouble.
Even if you are not so happy right now, you must be open-minded and try to learn from Su Dongpo's life.
In the second half of his life, he was demoted all the way, said goodbye to his relatives and friends, and traveled far away from home. However, when the situation was helpless, he would still utter the heroic words of "Don't be afraid, just live your life in the mist and rain".
It can be seen that as long as your mood is good, nothing in this world can be difficult for you.
As people get older, this is even more important. Don't let your heart remain in a dark corner. You must step out into the sunshine, let your mind be at peace, and live out your own character.
makes "right and wrong, success or failure turn into nothing, and many things in ancient and modern times are all laughed at".
Soul-rich
In the community, there is an old man.
When he was young, he made a lot of money, but when he was middle-aged, his investment failed, and his father was ill, so he sold his house and car. Later, when the old man passed away, his money was gone.
In those years, when he was just over 40 years old, he looked like an old man, haggard and lonely, and didn't speak much to anyone. Fortunately, he had a reliable friend by his side who helped him through the difficulties. Later, the rumors started again.
Now that he is older, he has gradually given up his business to his children. In the past two years, it has been a special period, and life has not been easy.
However, looking at his expression, he no longer had the anxiety and uneasiness he had during his trough period. He was still happy and peaceful as usual, singing, painting, and farming every day.
In his words: What's the use of being anxious? Just have food and drink. Business is normal whether it's good or bad.
It can be seen that people have more experiences, and their souls will be richer.
will not be knocked down by any small setbacks. No matter how many disappointments there are, he will face them calmly with an indifferent attitude.
As people get older, they will understand that many things are beyond our control.
In this world, only our souls can be controlled by ourselves. The richer our souls are, the more we can find sustenance. Only when we have roots in our hearts can we live with pursuits.
has a rich soul, and it doesn’t matter how many books you read or how many words you know, but that you are not anxious or indulgent, you know what you can do, and you work hard to live a life with pursuits and goals.
When people get older, it’s time to enjoy their own life.
After all, you have enough time to do what you want to do, and you also have free time to do things that "waste time and energy".
Only in this way can the days of old age be more interesting and rich.
Mr. Yang Jiang once said: The most beautiful scenery in life is inner calmness and calmness.
When we come to this world, nine times out of ten we will encounter suffering.
So, don’t live so seriously, don’t take things so complicated, and don’t always long for others’ recognition of you.
After going through all the troubles, you will find that only by nourishing yourself well can you live your life.
Only by living your own life can you not be afraid of the vicissitudes of life and the warmth of human relationships;
Only by remaining open-minded can you travel through mountains and seas with a calm mind and no panic;
Only by having a rich soul can you make life interesting and have expectations for life.
So, when you are old, let the days slow down, let the life calm down, and let the mind calm down.
Therefore, when you are old, whether you have money or not, it all comes second. It is true to enrich yourself!
author, calm fox
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I hope you can find the deep affection in the ordinary years in my words! Thanks for your attention!
