Gentle, beautiful and lovely wife:
In accordance with your imperial edict, I immediately, immediately and promptly made a profound review of my wrong behavior. The following is my review of my various bad behaviors. Please review it! If there is anything inappropriate in the self-reflection letter, it can be negotiated and corrected based on the supreme principle of "the wife is always right."
On June 21, 2022, there was little warmth in the bright afternoon. What followed was a dizzying, dark and noisy family. In a word, I made my wife angry. Thinking about it now, I really regret it, but every time I get angry, I get dizzy. I don’t know what the so-called winning or losing is for. It can’t make you and this family warm and warm.
It is really not easy for two people to be together. You have suffered a lot with me these years and suffered a lot of losses. I didn't mean what I said last night, I just didn't expect you to be unhappy. I know that my family background is not good and I am not a good person. You are born with good conditions. By following me, you have made the biggest wrong choice in your life. But you still want to bet that I will win in the future. I feel the same way. I always have an inexplicable courage and confidence, always thinking how good the future will be, but I don’t know that I am a mediocre person after all. But even such a person wants to make you angry. According to common sense, if a person like me can have a wife, it will be smoke on the ancestral grave. If you don't cherish it, it is simply a waste of natural resources.
Thinking about it now, I am really ignorant, not even smart. At the very least, I am a man and should understand and tolerate all your little tempers. Moreover, your little tempers are all because of me. The source of your mistakes is also me. It is my problem that I cannot reflect deeply. I apologize to you here.
We went from school to marriage, and we experienced the best ten years of our lives. Although you think you may be happy following others, for me, you are everything to me. Over the years, without you, I might have returned to my hometown, back to that place, and would have spent the rest of my life in the mountains. Because of you, I chose Beijing and any industry that could make me rich, always thinking of giving you a future. But I was wrong. After ten years, I have no achievements, only temper, no handsomeness, only bloatedness. It only took ten years to grow from a teenager to an uncle, but the happiest thing in these ten years was that you were by my side. Even though we had many quarrels and broke up many times, we never left each other. Although we expose each other's scars, it seems that it is just to win the quarrel at that moment, and not to really hurt anyone, but words are so powerful, and the words spoken always hurt people's hearts. These seemingly insignificant words deeply hurt It hurts those around you.
It is said that the more incompetent a person is, the greater his temper. Maybe I am that one. I have also thought about my future daughter-in-law being intellectual, elegant, gentle, and generous. The moment I saw you, I knew that the phenomenon was just imagination, that person should look like you. In life, you are careful, frugal, organized, and planned, but I always look careless and look silly. In fact, what you don’t know is that behind these silly things is infinite love for you. I hope you can be independent and optimistic, not I can't, but you would be more suitable.
My appearance of being capable in front of others has not brought us substantial income. This has also become the reason for you to scold me, but it is difficult for everyone. The more two people are in this situation, the more We must strengthen each other and encourage each other instead of sarcastic. If cynicism is the norm in life, then we will never be happy.
I work overtime, I go on business trips, I endure the abuse from my boss, I endure the unfairness of the company. I just hope that there will be a future for this kind of dedication. God is fair. I believe that the arrival of that day is only a matter of time. I want it now. There is one result. I think it is impossible. After all, we are all ordinary people.
Before you met me, all you came into contact with were people from well-off families, so you looked down on us poor people, and you couldn’t even imagine that there were such poor places in China. But this can’t be changed. My parents have worked hard for me all their lives. I just want them to live healthy and old. I won't ask for anything more from them, otherwise I will be even more ashamed. At the age of thirty, it’s time for me to find my own life. I hope you do the same. I never want you to say anything about my parents. They are farmers, very different from you, but they love you. Although they cannot express it or give you money, you can see the smile on their faces. Such feelings cannot be measured by money.
Over the years, I have taken you to many places and seen many scenery. Maybe you will feel that you and others can see better and appreciate more, but this is all I can give. I also want to take you to see the mountains, meadows, plateau lakes, sea and stars. I want to be with you in everything. What I want is someone who always understands me and stays with me.
If you think about it carefully, we went from having nothing to settling down in Hainan. Everything is like a dream. These are all due to you. Without you, I don’t know what kind of life I would be in now. It might be even worse. I thank you and I am grateful to you. I hope we can all cherish each other. Understand and care for each other. Your personality is also fiery, and so is my temper. Two balls of fire can explode the earth, but I know that this is not what we want. What you want is my care and progress, and what I want is your understanding. Consideration, these can be found in life, but they are ignored in quarrels.
You are a good girl, a good wife, not perfect, at least excellent. It was my blessing to meet you, and it was my fault to make you cry. I apologize to you. I hope that in the long road of life in the future, we will have fewer stumbling blocks and more beautiful scenery. I love you sincerely, and I think you do too. No matter how good others are, the one who is willing to accompany you for life is still me. On the road ahead, we will go to many places, the beautiful grasslands of Xinjiang, the snow-capped mountains of Tibet, the wooden cattle and horses of Inner Mongolia, the sunset over the long river of Taklimakan , those scenery we have not seen, those stories we have not heard yet, I I think we should be holding hands, holding our little lives together, walking together, growing up together, and seeing the value of the world together.
I care about you and you know it. I will try my best to be perfect whenever you need me. Regarding my wife's opinions, I can only accept and implement them. There can be no reasoning process. There is no room for discussion, let alone objection and confrontation. I do this very poorly. I am angry, petty, and unwilling. I criticized your behavior and even made you cry. I was wrong!
I seriously ignored that my wife’s heart is very easily hurt, because she had been hurt before she met me, but I completely forgot that you are 2 years younger than me, and you are the person I love most. I should hold you in my hands and let you feel my love for you all the time, but I often yell at you, which seriously hurts my dear wife’s heart. My wife, I was wrong again! !
Wife, sometimes I always blindly ask you to be nice to me, ask you to change this for me, change that for me, but every time I say that I will change your bad habits, I make a mistake. Since I have no choice. If you do, what ability do I have to ask you to be like me? In fact, you have already given a lot for me, what else should I do? I can't leave you. I will be very sad and painful without you. I will regret losing you. What should I do if that time comes? I don't even dare to think about it. The only thing I can do now is The only thing is to change yourself! !
The life of ordinary people is always a mess. In these calm years, it should be the sunset, the sea, the stars and the mountains that adjust our past. We are all young people with infinite love for life. Those tempers and complaints should be resolved in a better way, such as a hot pot meal, a movie, or a romance between you and me.
I know that work has given us too much pressure recently, and we have not been able to find a suitable outlet. This is also the reason why I have not cared about you properly. I always thought that everyone would be very mature and face everything in life maturely. dissatisfaction, but I forgot that you are still a little girl, a struggling young man who does not need anyone's attention all the time and is tolerant. Choose me not because I am excellent, but because you know I will become excellent.
I did not cherish the past days. I believe that in the days to come, I will listen to you because you are the only one for me! Of course, I also hope that you can respect my choice and my friendship with my parents back home. That place and those people gave birth to me and raised me. There are too many stories there. I will tell you slowly in the years to come, and we will also create more stories to tell our children.
Dear, thank you for the noise this time, allowing us to calmly review the past and feel the future. We haven't talked for a long time. I ignored it. I'm sorry. I apologize to you.
Dear, I don’t have many advantages. The only thing I have is a sincere heart. I love you
