Introduction: Things are unpredictable and accidents may happen at any time. Many times natural disasters and man-made disasters take away the lives of people around us. The one left behind is very lonely and miserable. So some people can't bear it and choose to remarry.
60-year-old Uncle Jin is also one of them. Uncle Jin's wife died of a cerebral hemorrhage five years ago. He felt very lonely, so he remarried a 48-year-old aunt. Unexpectedly, six months after remarrying, he would become dissatisfied with the marriage. He said: "Every night we sleep separately, can we still have such a marriage?"
What exactly is going on? Let’s listen together!
60-year-old Uncle Jin’s self-report
I was born into a medical family. My parents are both studying medicine and their monthly income is very generous. Therefore, I also have a lot of pocket money so I don’t have to worry about food and drink. I live a very moist life every day. It’s just that my grades were not good, so I started doing business with others very early. At first I kept failing and lost a lot of money, but gradually I made a lot of money. My parents were also really happy and praised me for my talent in business. In the process of doing business, I met a young and beautiful female college student. At that time, college students were very rare, and I particularly admired her.
So I launched a crazy pursuit of her. Soon she fell in love and agreed to marry me. My parents smiled from ear to ear and held a grand wedding for me and her. Life after marriage was as ordinary as water, and she was at home being a good wife and mother. It's just that I'm busy doing business every day and rarely go home. She and the kids always miss me. I comforted her that we could be together forever after we retire. She also looks forward to my retirement every day. In the blink of an eye, decades have passed and the children have grown up.
And I am retired. I already have countless assets in my name. She and I can finally enjoy life.
Let’s travel together across the country. I felt that the scenery outside was really picturesque, and I was greatly relaxed. My wife and I ate a lot of local specialties together. We were very happy during that time! Unexpectedly, one day she had unbearable abdominal pain, so I sent her to the hospital. After an examination, it was discovered that it was gastric cancer . I was in so much pain and wanted her to get better with everything I had. I didn't expect that she would eventually leave me.
After losing her, I found that I couldn't take care of myself in life. No one cooked me hot meals or took care of everything in the house. The food cooked by me, a grown man, is particularly unpalatable. Moreover, my good friend has his wife waiting for him when he comes home every day. And when I go home, I have to face an empty house. Good friend, you see how hard I am living. He suggested that I find another wife to live with.
I thought it made sense at the time. Find a wife who will not only care for you and take care of you, but also have someone who can help warm your bed. I participated in many blind date activities. Since my financial situation is very good, there are many aunts who like me. I picked and chose, and finally chose the 48-year-old Aunt Wang. Her facial features are particularly delicate and her speech is gentle. I had a real crush on her. Soon we got married and got married.
On our wedding night, I want to be intimate with Aunt Wang. Unexpectedly, Aunt Wang pushed me away. Aunt Wang said that she was not feeling well and she really couldn't be intimate with me. So I had to give up. Married life is pretty good. Aunt Wang will prepare an exquisite breakfast for me in advance. Sometimes I don’t want to get up. She would also take the initiative to feed me bite by bite. At this time, I feel very happy.
’s home is always kept spotless by her. I feel very comfortable looking at it. She also doesn't lose her temper and stir up trouble to make me unhappy.
There is just something about her that is hard for me to accept. I always feel that she doesn't love me. Because she has asked to sleep in separate rooms since she got married. She said: "The two of us sleep separately and don't disturb each other. Keep a proper distance, so that our relationship as husband and wife will be better."
I objected desperately at that time. But she said this was her personal wish and she hoped I could respect it. I was afraid of making her angry, so I agreed. Then we always slept in separate rooms.Sometimes I desperately want to share a room with her, but she will use various reasons to drive me away.
Friends, can we still have this marriage where everyone sleeps with each other? Does my wife not love me?
