When people get old, they must live by their own efforts, only then can they have dignity. Children are very busy and have no time, we understand them. It’s up to us to straighten our backs, hold our wife’s hand and move forward. Don’t put too much hope in our children, as they will sometimes be disappointed. I think that with a wife and a certain amount of pension money, our life in old age will not be too difficult. A wife and money are indispensable, so you must cherish your wife. Your wife is the one who will accompany you until the end.
Ten thousand roads are only one road - rely on yourself one by one. How reliable? You have to have good health and lots of savings. Without this hardware, you have to rely on others. All plans for civilian pensions seem to be groundless, and people who suffer financial and physical losses are ultimately resigned to fate. Because by that time there are no cards left to play, family cards, parents cards, merit cards... are the smallest cards when others set the rules.
Of course, having a good body is fundamental, and having more money is secondary. The problem is that one day people will be so old that they can no longer take care of themselves. Don’t want to burden your children? The nanny is unreliable? The nursing home is not good? Then who will take care of your long, bloody and bloody final years? Investment requires a return, and many parents think so.
But think about it carefully, who can a person rely on in the end? Both parents? Sooner or later they will leave you. Brothers and sisters? After they have a significant other, you will be a redundant person. Wife and kids? As time goes by, the old couple will just hold each other's hands with their left hand, and once the child has a significant other, his heart will no longer be with you! Therefore, only you, and only you, are the truly reliable master! So: Treating yourself well is the last word in life!
You still have to rely on yourself in life. Even if we have children, a wife, relatives and friends, if we want to live a good retirement life, we have to rely on ourselves. People are lazy, we all know this. There are people waiting on you, and you gradually don't want to do anything. As a result, you will be eliminated by society, rejected by others, and your life will be shortened accordingly. People must learn to take care of themselves at any time. They cannot go out without their children, cannot pay for shopping on the street, and cannot eat without their wife. To live, you must keep learning and making progress, so that you can live a free and exciting life.
Birth, aging, sickness and death are natural laws. Old people should be as enthusiastic about life as they were when they were young! When you can support yourself, live as you please; when you can't take care of yourself, just let nature take its course and face it calmly!
Some netizens said: In real society, parents do not drag down their children, but children have to rely on their parents. For example, our village gives out red envelopes and pays for cold drinks in summer, which is a high-temperature subsidy. The elderly’s lives are already carefree. Many elderly people are busy with housework such as buying food and cooking for their children, and some also have to run stores for their children, that is, do business...
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