Uncle Qing Introduction:
Two people can enter into marriage, maybe because they are a perfect match, or they may be in love. It is really not certain which person has a happier life. Poor and humble couples suffer from everything. What the ancients said certainly makes sense. A marriage without material things is like a plate of loose sand, which will fall apart with just a gentle blow.
You can fall in love without money, but if you don't have money when you get married, you will inevitably have a big quarrel for three days and a small quarrel for two days. Two people get married to create brilliance together, rather than regressing together and resting on their laurels. Most happy families are the result of the hard work of the couple. Only with a hard-working husband and a considerate wife can the life become more prosperous as time goes by. Men marry these 4 types Women are destined to be poor all their lives, I hope I don’t have you.
Love to take advantage of others
Diligence and frugality are virtues, but liking to take advantage of others will make people despise you. When buying groceries, I have to bargain for a long time for only ten or twenty cents. I always like to borrow things from my neighbors if I don’t have them at home. Gradually, a person’s love for petty gains is spread among everyone. At this time, for men or families, They all have a very bad reputation. A generous and generous wife is what keeps a man working hard.
"Zuo"
A harmonious family can bring prosperity, and only a harmonious family can be happy. If there is a person who is very "Zuo" and likes to make trouble unreasonably, and will quarrel with you every three days, it will be very worrying to live such a life. . If you have a bad temper and often quarrel with your mother-in-law, it will be difficult for a man to be caught in the middle. Over time, a man will be distracted at work and think about how to deal with things at home. Behind a happy family, there must be a gentle and considerate wife.
will not educate children.
The role of mother has an irreplaceable position in the family. What kind of mother will educate what kind of children. A hard-working mother will definitely have children who are diligent and studious. A kind mother will have children who are willing to help others. . On the contrary, if the mother is lazy, the children will become playful; if the mother is greedy for petty gains, the children will become stingy. A mother who doesn't know how to educate her children or lead by example can easily bring chaos to the family. What's rare is that a woman is both a good wife and a good mother.
Likes to suppress her husband
When a family's economy is in recession, a pessimistic wife can easily vent her anger on her husband and compare herself with others: "Look at my best friend's husband, he is now a listed company Boss, even my ex-boyfriend who was extremely poor now You are a senior executive of a foreign company. Look at you, you have not made any progress over the years, and you have made me and my children suffer together."
Men also want to save face. After hearing these words, they will inevitably feel very depressed and depressed. It’s uncomfortable. If the people you love despise you, then a man will have even less confidence. The more you hit him, the less motivated he will be to make money. Therefore, you must marry a woman who appreciates you, so that even if life is a bit bitter, your heart will be sweet.
Uncle Qing's conclusion:
Getting married is to run towards happiness. What is happiness? It is that with the efforts of two people, life becomes more and more prosperous. Two people can go wherever they want to travel without having to worry about money and material things. , will be the foundation of a happy marriage.
