original Nanlu Beilu 2022-08-19 14:37 Published in Shaanxi
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To be honest, some time ago,
became popular as the "Second Uncle" , and I didn't feel it was very healing.
Looking at rural China, in the 1950s and 1960s, when it was cost-effective to have children, and the more children there were, the more hope they had, there was not one or two families who could not marry a wife, were physically disabled, and had a strong will. His second uncle, second uncle , the second uncle.
Most of them have physical disabilities. They are praised as kind, smart, studious, diligent, hard-working and uncomplaining, and have become the main labor force in the family.
While we sympathize with and praise his second uncle,
think about it carefully, aren’t his second aunt, second aunt, and second aunt who were born in that era not worthy of publicity?
They are women in traditional Chinese society and have inherited the submissive, obedient and perseverance qualities of Chinese women.
Most of them accept their fate and regard all misery as fate. This is their ultimate explanation for all life encounters.
His "second aunt" got married at the age of 18. Her parents-in-law had public offices and treated people well. They were considered a well-known family at that time, and their family background was relatively prosperous. His second uncle was a few years older than her. He was a talented person, but he was not good for his native family. It's a good place to stay for my aunt.
She is simple-minded, friendly to others, and cheerful every day. Although her husband has been playful since he was young and loves to make friends, so he often misses home, she has no complaints and silently does all the dirty and hard work at home.
html had her eldest son at the age of 120, and her second son at the age of 21.
With the changes of the times, the expenses for children's growth have deteriorated. The situation where you could originally rely on livestock breeding and the family's food processing factory to make a small living has become worse and worse.
Even as the family's financial burden increased, his second uncle still retained his youthful spirit. The favorable conditions since he was a child caused him to worry about not knowing what to eat, rice, oil and salt.
His second aunt saw that she could no longer rely on her husband to live a good life, and had to live her own life. She did not quarrel with his second uncle over these things, but asked her cousin, a capable and well-connected cousin in the family, to take her out and become a It describes the migrant workers in Guangdong in the 1990s.
She is diligent and down-to-earth. She has been suffering from high temperatures all year round in a simple factory building with no air conditioning in the assembly line of a Taiwan-funded electronics factory in Guangdong. She has worked there for more than ten years.
She lived frugally and used her meager salary to build her family's four-story house and raise her two children.
Although she is not rich, this is a true portrayal of a rural woman with only an elementary school education who rewrites her own destiny and the destiny of her family.
For so many years, she has never complained about her husband, her own fate, or complained to others. Instead, she has endured it silently. No matter how hard and tired she is, she still smiles at life all day long. A second aunt like
deserves our immense respect and admiration!
His other "second aunt" is petite and clever, but she married a simple and honest husband and gave birth to two daughters, leaving her family impoverished.
As the two daughters graduated from junior high school and went to high school and even college in the county, the tuition and living expenses cast a dark cloud over the family.
His second aunt, the farthest place she went to when she was middle-aged, was her hometown in the county.
For the sake of her daughter, she could no longer live like her. She bravely put on her backpack and followed an experienced fellow villager to make a living somewhere in the Yangtze River Delta.
During the many years she was away, some people scolded her for being unruly, and some said she abandoned the family and ran away. Her husband, who was not good at words, never defended her.
A rural woman with no culture and skills has been wandering for more than ten years.
She is able to send living expenses to her daughter every month and pay her daughter’s tuition on time every year. It is unimaginable how she can do this.
Many years later, she returned to her hometown after being away for many years after hearing that her two daughters had graduated from college and settled in Jiangsu and Zhejiang.
We can't imagine the hardships she has endured and the tears she has shed over the years. Whether it was wind and rain or the dark night, she must have tried her best.
Such a short and thin body has supported the whole family and drained his own blood and heat for ten years.
Such a selfless mother, such a great woman, what qualifications do we have to judge her.
His "second aunt" is just the epitome of Chinese rural women.
Women like them are still everywhere in rural areas today.
They are diligent, studious, tolerant, kind-hearted, hard-working, obedient to the four virtues, filial to their parents-in-law, simple-minded, and indifferent to the world.
They are the main labor force at home and do all the housework. When faced with incompetent husbands, they have to go out to work to earn money and bear the burden of the family.
Although they have no ambitions, they have no superpowers.
But they are all trying to live, carrying their bags, traveling to other places, doing their best for the family...
So, don't just focus on promoting his "second uncle"
Without such a group of simple and selfless "second aunts" who bear the burden and move forward, how many families would be separated from their wives and children, how many children would have no future, and the world would be eclipsed...
Please help them Applause, they are bearing the burden of life that is more difficult than the "second uncle".
