A few days ago, I said, "I am 31 years old this year, and it is the first anniversary of my unemployment. This is what I did this year!" After the article was published, friends from all walks of life liked and saved it, and commented on their bitter experiences this year. Yep, i

A few days ago, I said, "I am 31 years old this year, and it is the first anniversary of my unemployment. This is what I did this year!" After the article was published, friends from all walks of life liked and saved it, and commented on their bitter experiences this year. . Yes, it can be seen from this that we may all be the same!

From July 2, 21 to now, I have experienced relaxation-morning exercise-night running-picking up the children-cooking-cleaning up housework- -Organize your thoughts--make money--anxiety!

Yes, I am currently feeling anxious. Although I have lived what others call "freedom" this year, apart from housework, work, and children, I really have nothing to look forward to every day. It's the same thing over and over again!

Family life has also begun to change from comfort - care - encouragement - support, to trivial matters - small things - living habits - small quarrels - big quarrels!

When I go out drinking with friends at night, I will always be asked: Are you fighting again?

I said: No, there is nothing to fight for!

In the past few days, I suddenly reflected on the changes in this year and found that: my family has not moved upwards, it has always been in the same place, and even this kind of stay can be said to be going backwards!

First, I think it may be that the relationship between husband and wife has changed this year. From the original one where I was the main one and she was the main one, to the current one where I am the main one and she is the main one. Maybe this subtle change has caused the relationship between the two parties to change. Something has changed inside!

I think the main reason why we have not moved up may be: the relationship between husband and wife

Secondly, the economic foundation. I really understand this. In previous years, in addition to daily expenses, my family was able to save a lot of spare money, ensuring that the funds in the book can continue to increase. To put it bluntly, if the family’s savings continue to grow, then the family must be particularly harmonious! But over the past year, although funds have been credited every month, it has been almost impossible to have a balance.

Therefore, the second point may be that the lack of improvement in the ability to make money affects the upward development of the family!

Third, the body. I have high blood pressure . I am 31 years old. The doctor said that there are many causes of high blood pressure and there is no need to check. I need to exercise every day and eat less oil and less salt. I listened. But it still happens occasionally, that feeling like a force is about to break through your scalp! Because I often feel unwell, I may not look good to my family members, so my own stress causes my blood pressure to rise, which in turn leads to a bad mood, destroying the warm environment at home.

So I think physical health will also affect the upward development of the family.

Fourth, during this year, we have a clear division of labor and we each do our own work. Do you think this will be perfect? That's wrong. There are many times when something happens at home about your family or my family. I want to reason with her, but women don't need to reason because we don't make sense. So every time we ended up breaking up because of this reasoning. Even if she is wrong, she thinks she is right!

Therefore, I think that in our family, we may not need reason, but love! In my future life, what I need to carry forward is to speak more about love than reason!

Husband and wife relationship, earning power, good health, love is too great!

Also, the funds on the books, no domestic violence, no cheating, no living with the elderly, being a good mediator in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, not quarreling in front of the children, not allowing the elderly to dictate to the family, etc., must be positive. Face it and believe that your future life will be positive!

When a person is born, there is nothing important except death. As the saying goes, a husband and wife are of the same mind, and their benefits are broken. The next step is to carefully study making money and supporting a family.

If you have finished reading, let me give you a word: as time goes by, we are slowly getting older, and a grain of sand in the era may cause our family to fall apart, so for a Families and couples must have the courage and determination to share hardships and enjoy blessings together. They must also have the responsibility and responsibility to protect the children and parents at home!

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