one. Without a goal, it is the beginning of confusion. I realized this because I didn’t spend much time on work today. These days, my state seems to have become the norm, or it may be just an excuse for myself. I seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and pursue pleasure. Most

one. Without a goal, it is the beginning of confusion.

realized this because he didn't spend much time on work today. These days, my state seems to have become the norm, or it may be just an excuse for myself. I seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and pursue pleasure. Most ordinary people like me should not be able to escape these points. I will give myself chicken blood injections, but if I am excited every day, it seems that it is difficult for me to maintain it now. I attribute the reason to the fact that I have lost clear goals at work. In the past, I was sometimes quite lazy, but generally I would list my goals on paper, such as how many new stores I would open this year or how much sales I would achieve. Although there was no review or summary at the end, it seemed to have a relatively clear goal. What now? In addition to hoping that the partner's store will make a profit quickly, there is no effort on my side. Speaking of which, today the gold side can be regarded as getting the first amount of money. Although it is only more than 50,000 yuan, it is at least a good start.

two. Many times I waste time because I am looking forward to the future.

thought about it and found that he wasted a lot of time. I read novels in junior high school and high school and dreamed of going to college. At that time, I thought that it was certain that I would be admitted to college, and I never thought about how good a university I would get into (although I might not be able to get into it even if I thought about it at the time), so it was indeed a waste of a lot. Precious time is mainly wasted on computer games. After I got to college, I thought about working quickly to make a lot of money, so I kept wasting my time. At that time, I felt inexplicably confident and felt that I would do well in the future, so I looked forward to working quickly, entering society, living in a luxury house, and driving a nice car. And now, when I am wasting time, I am also thinking, time should pass faster, life will be better in the future. So I concluded that one of the biggest reasons for wasting my time is to look forward to the future and believe that the future will be better than today. But sometimes I may overlook a basic fact, everyone is mortal. Maybe when I get older, I won’t think that tomorrow will be better. Maybe then, I can be more proactive and motivated (I feel like I have "anxiety disorder if I don't make progress").

three. Spend more time with your parents, even if it means sending a few more messages.

took a photo of my mom’s dinner today, and I can clearly feel her happiness. She has always been worried about disturbing my work, thinking that I am usually very busy at work and have little time. In fact, the opposite is true. I actually have quite a lot of free time every day. Gradually I can understand some of the public service announcements I saw when I was a child. When parents grow older, what they think about is actually their own children. Especially parents who live far away, especially parents who feel lonely. Many parents may not express it, but if they are a little more attentive, it is actually not difficult to sympathize with them. So in the future, I'd better contact them more. Even if I send a few more messages, I believe it can make them happy.