, we all have different identities. They are children, brothers and sisters, wives and husbands, daughters-in-law and sons-in-law, etc. Therefore, whether there is a blood relationship is not the key to defining a family.
I have seen too many people who obviously have a flesh-and-blood relationship that is thicker than water, but they still end up tearing themselves apart for the sake of material things. I have seen the affection between many friends, and they are still willing to do their best to help each other when they are in trouble. This is what many people often say, not relatives are better than relatives.
Why is there such a helpless situation? That is undoubtedly because of the human heart. Whether it's a friend, a relative, or a partner, no one is always nice to anyone as a matter of course. Therefore, when we ignore feelings because of interests, we will lose more important things unknowingly.
Li Qin Rui never expected that the man who held him in his hands when he was in love and felt so painful after getting married, how could he become so indifferent to him now. Tears welled up in her eyes as she recalled every bit of the past, and she even began to blame the man she married for being too ruthless and indifferent. Is it really the truth? Let's look back.
Li Qinrui and her husband Jiang Yu got to know each other from a small misunderstanding when they were in college. At that time, the introverted Li Qinrui did have an admiration for Jiang Yu, so she would often secretly look at him and smile stupidly. Later, such rumors slowly spread to Jiang Yu's ears.
At that moment, Li Qinrui could no longer sit still. No matter how her classmates commented, she could only pretend to be unaware.
As time went by, the students in the class began to talk about other interesting things. Li Qinrui secretly felt lucky that she could finally like him secretly again.
What surprised Li Qinrui was that Jiang Yu began to pay attention to this introverted and quiet girl because it was a rumor in the class. In the end, he even fell into it and took the initiative to express his feelings to Li Qinrui. The moment she heard her beloved boy confessing to her, her face turned red and she was so nervous that she didn't say a word for a long time.
Seeing Jiang Yu's face eager to get his answer, Li Qinrui nodded lightly, then turned around shyly and ran to the dormitory.
That was the first time they officially confirmed their relationship. Although their subsequent relationship was not as enthusiastic and free as other couples, the gradual expression of their relationship also made the relationship between the two people longer lasting. Before the graduation season, many couples who were passionately in love and had promised eachother gradually separated.
The two of them still insisted on each other without hesitation. Li Qinrui even took the initiative to chat with Jiang Yu about their life after getting married. This move once again caused ripples in Jiang Yu's heart. He suddenly had the intention to marry Li Qinrui, so he went back and had a formal talk with his parents.
Obviously, after Jiang’s father and Jiang’s mother learned about the girl’s family situation, they still tried to persuade her again and again. After all, Li Qinrui comes from an average family, has a younger brother who is a few years younger, and her parents are also older. Her older sister will probably help her younger brother again and again even if she gets married.
Parents' concerns are not unreasonable, Jiang Yu knows this very well. But compared to this reality, Jiang Yu is more willing to believe in Li Qinrui. He took the trouble to explain to his parents, "Mom and Dad, I understand your worries. But I hope that you believe in your son's vision of recognizing people. Rui Rui is the person I choose to live with for the rest of my life. What you consider will not become my relationship with you." The problem between her. "
Later, after Jiang Yu's tireless persuasion, his parents agreed to the marriage. After a year of planning and preparation, the two finally got married.
Because the Jiang family has good conditions and only has one precious son, even if they don't like this daughter-in-law very much, they still put a lot of effort and money into their son's marriage. It is precisely with such a foundation that couples who do not have any pressure or burden after marriage can live a sweet life.
Usually when they are too tired after get off work and don’t want to cook, they go downstairs to have a simple meal. During the weekend break, wake up naturally and then go to the countryside to relax. Not to mention how pleasant the days after marriage are.
In the third year after their marriage, the two still could not escape the influence of their parents. The father-in-law and mother-in-law even made this promise: "Rui, I know that you and your wife spend a lot of money on weekdays, so it is inevitable that you are a little worried that having a child will affect your life as a couple. Let's do this, you can rest assured to have the child. Your father and I will be responsible for all expenses. "
"Otherwise, it will be risky if you consider having children when you are older." Jiang Yu was also a little touched by this. After all, he did have this concern. .
After returning home, Jiang Yu had a serious talk with his wife Li Qinrui. "Daughter-in-law, I took the initiative to hand over my salary card after we got married because I wanted to make you feel more secure. Now, we have been together for so many years, and many of our friends who got married after us have several children. "I can't afford to delay this matter."
Faced with this situation, Li Qinrui could only take a slow approach. She said helplessly, "Okay, give me some more time and I will think about it."
Li Qinrui thought that he could delay it for a while, but who would have thought that not long after, the two of them would trigger an intensifying conflict. The origin is about money. The problem was still an issue that Jiang's father and Jiang's mother were worried about before they got married.
On the day of her mother-in-law's birthday, Li Qinrui was working overtime, so she asked her husband to go there first and then go after she finished what she was doing. But what she never expected was that what she and her husband had clearly discussed was "just buy a silk scarf as a gift." During the dinner, she watched her husband hand her mother-in-law a red envelope worth about 10,000 yuan, and then her expression turned ugly.
On the way home, she lost her temper with her husband for the first time. "I didn't expect you to be such a hypocritical man. You kept saying that you would hand over all your wages voluntarily. After all the money was paid, where did you get the money to give your mother a red envelope? Besides, the pensions of the two of them combined are more than Our salary is high, why do you pay so much? Have you considered our future? How can we have children?"
's complaint surprised Jiang Yu. He was a little surprised, but more disappointed. So, he told the truth of the matter without any concealment.
"Is it hypocritical for me to use the money I earn to give red envelopes to my mother for her birthday? Then what's the point of using the money from our small family to supplement your natal brother and pay off his mortgage?"
found out that the matter had been exposed, Li Qinrui wanted to explain her difficulties, but Jiang Yu didn't give her a chance. The subsequent interactions gradually became indifferent and indifferent. They used to be close lovers, but now they are more like roommates. Li Qinrui regretted this situation, but didn't know how to change it.
Finally, I would like to ask everyone: If you were Li Qinrui, what changes would you make in this matter? Welcome to leave a message and comment.
