For some men, chatting with women is very painful, because they don’t know how to chat, and they end up chatting away. If you have similar troubles, the Love Book for Men will teach you the most effective way to chat with a woman. You can establish attraction to her from the begi

For some men, chatting with women is very painful, because they don’t know how to chat, and they end up chatting away.

If you have similar troubles, the Men's Love Sutra will teach you the most effective way to chat with a woman. You can attract her from the very beginning and make her fall in love with chatting with you.

1. The opening statement should be to suit their liking

What attracts women is always what they are interested in.

Before a woman has a crush on you and likes you, when you chat with her, the opening remarks revolve around their preferences, which can arouse their desire to reply to you.

For example, if you see a woman updating a WeChat Moments about food, your opening line can be like this, "Hey, where did the foodies go to eat again?".

At this time, the woman may be worried about having nowhere to share the delicious food she has just eaten with others. She finally meets a food friend who comes to her door. How could she miss this opportunity so easily?

Only when she replies to you and develops the desire to chat with you, will you have the opportunity to lead the topic in the direction you want to chat.

Otherwise, just find an opening statement and throw it over. If she doesn't reply to you, it will be in vain no matter how much you hold in your words.

2. Use declarative sentences when chatting

Although you are very proactive and women are very willing to chat with you, sometimes you still chat to death.

When this happens, it's often because a woman doesn't want to, or doesn't know how to reply to your message.

To give a common example, you ask a woman "Have you eaten?" and she replies "You've finished eating." Then you ask "What did you eat?". At this time, the woman will get annoyed and will deal with you casually, or even I won't reply to you directly.

In fact, as long as we replace the question with a statement when chatting, we can effectively avoid this problem.

For example, replace "Have you eaten?" with "It's time to enjoy delicious food again."

Do you think that when women see this message, they will be more eager to reply than when they see "Have you eaten?", and will the diversity of reply content also increase?

It is not difficult to understand why a woman's attitude towards you is quite good at first, but then she gradually becomes cold towards you.

That's because after chatting for many times, you made her feel too boring, and she lost interest in chatting with you.

3. Try to mobilize her emotions

Chatting with a woman is actually about emotions. As long as her emotions are in place, her chatting experience will improve, and she will naturally be willing to chat with you in the future.

The easiest way to mobilize a woman's emotions is to add adjectives to her words.

When we chat with girls and are asked "What did you eat?", we usually tell the truth, for example, rice or noodles, without any emotion in it. After hearing this, the woman doesn't know how to reply, so she just replies to you. An "oh oh".

But if you add adjectives, the feeling will be different. For example, "I just ate a bowl of magical noodles." At this time, women will definitely ask you curiously, "Why is it so magical?"

You reply to her again, "This feeling cannot be described in words. How about I take you to try it next time and you will know."

Do you feel that chatting is not so stiff? The topic also expanded, and I even invited a bunch of people.

The most effective way to chat with women is , simple and easy to learn . There are three steps in total. After trying it a few times, I believe you will be able to master it and you will no longer have to worry about how to chat.