French writer Frans Yrigoyan once said: "Cold violence is a kind of hidden but real violence." In a family, the biggest invisible enemy is cold violence. It is silent, but it makes both parties feel sad. The distance is getting farther and farther.

French writer Frans Yrigoyan once said: "Cold violence is a kind of hidden but real violence."

The biggest invisible enemy in a family is cold violence. It is silent, but it makes people feel uncomfortable. The distance between the two sides is getting farther and farther.

Solving cold violence in marriage is a difficult thing. Whether the two finally get back together or part ways, the process is not easy. Marriage is a union of two people or even two families. If it can be maintained well, try your best to find a solution to overcome it. Cold violence, return to a happy family.

How to solve the problem of cold violence in marriage?

1. Face the problem squarely.

After cold violence occurs, don't think that these problems will slowly disappear over time, they will only accumulate more and more in your marriage.

You must sort out the problems in your marriage to see what causes cold violence, how you solved problems before, and what the origin of the problem is.

Only by clarifying the current problem and how it came about can we better solve this problem.

2. Don’t treat coldness with coldness.

Many people tend to fall into the mode of resenting women when they are subjected to cold violence by their significant other.

Don't be seduced by the other person's emotions. The most taboo thing is to compete to see who is more silent. If both of them are depressed, they will only suffer from internal injuries.

Learn to express your needs. Don't be too reserved or beat around the bush, just express your emotions honestly. Don't let the other person guess what you are thinking, or think that he should know even if I don't say it.

For example, tell the other person: "I feel lonely watching movies alone. If we watch movies together, I will be very happy."

In this way, he not only expresses his emotions directly, but also provides the other party with a solution.

3. Strengthen communication and exchanges with each other.

Many problems in marriage are ultimately due to the lack of necessary communication between husband and wife. In order to correctly deal with cold violence in marriage, it is very important to strengthen communication and exchanges with each other.

There are some small problems. If they are not solved in time and effectively, they will brew into big problems. These problems arise one after another, like a snowball, getting bigger and bigger, and eventually the marriage is completely swallowed up.

Any problem in marriage should be taken seriously. In fact, there is nothing that cannot be communicated well. Unless there is no love and affection between husband and wife. When the fate between husband and wife is still there, then everything is easy to say. Otherwise, in the face of cold violence in marriage, you can only choose to sit on the sidelines.

There is probably no need for a marriage without love. It's better to break up and break up as soon as possible to get relief as soon as possible. Of course, this is the last resort. Unless absolutely necessary, peace is the most important thing.