briefly comments on 10 ways of thinking, and talks about my personal views on why people are different and there is such a big gap.
1. Tunnel thinking
If a person is in a tunnel, all you can see is the narrow tunnel. In the same way, if a person's vision is not broad, the road under his feet will become narrower and narrower.
If you are in a tunnel, it is still a tunnel no matter how you look at it
Most ordinary people should be limited by this kind of thinking. I often hear people say that you should just accept your fate. Your dad is just an ordinary person. Why do you still want to join politics? Maybe. Your parents have taught you since you were young that you should go to school well and find a good job in the future, and then be obedient and do your job well.
My father and second uncle both worked on construction sites when they were young. My father was a master craftsman and the salary was pretty good. My second uncle worked as a small laborer with low wages, but he was not satisfied with the status quo and always insisted on reading and studying. Later, through his own efforts, he became a private teacher, which completely changed his destiny. My father is now in his sixties and still working on the construction site.
So never limit yourself, never stop reading and learning, this is the easiest way to get out and get out of tunnel thinking.
2. Positive thinking
"People who live a happy life have a positive way of thinking." Even if others think it is a disaster-like situation, they are still optimistic and cheerful, and face it positively.
How you spend every day depends on your thoughts.
Excluding birth, old age, illness and death, how everyone and everything in this world develops and changes. In fact, most of it depends on your mentality. If you are positive, If you treat him, he will also give him love and help him. Thinking of the best in everything will get better gradually. On the contrary, it just looks like something is not going well, something is not working well, and things are getting worse and worse.
Some people are smiling every day, and some people are often frowning. Anyway, the smiling people around me generally live a pretty good life. Those who look bitter and resentful every day often have a not-so-good life. .
3. Crab Thinking
Put a crab into the basket and it will crawl out on its own; put several crabs in, but none of them will crawl out. The crab below will try hard to pull at the crab above.
step on each one, I can't get out, and you can't even try to escape.
My ten-year-old eldest daughter has a good friend. The two of them are inseparable every day and have a great time playing together. Recently I met a new friend, and the three of them started to work in pairs. One day when my daughter was playing with her new friend, her old friend kept saying bad things about the new friend. In short, it felt like if you don’t play with me, then You two should stop playing. I couldn't laugh or cry when I was listening. Sure enough, the three little girls put on a crab show. It was really human. When
came back, I asked her how to deal with this situation. She said that I could just find a new friend and get a couple together. Yes, children understand the truth. When you encounter someone with negative emotions, just give up decisively, otherwise you will be led astray further.
4. Transformation thinking
Sarast said: Everyone is the architect of his own destiny. It's entirely up to you who you want to be. Starlight does not care about travelers, and time pays off to those who are willing. If you keep working hard, you will eventually transform.
How painful it is to break out of the shell.
This society is very fair, and only when enough quantitative changes accumulate will lead to qualitative changes. Old employees will tell newcomers who have just started working that if they pay enough in the early stage, things will fall into place later on, because this is how everyone has been here. The more express delivery and takeout you make every day, the more online taxi rides you take, and you will gradually find a way to do it. Let's keep it simple.
5. Independent thinking
It is better to ask for others than to ask for oneself, and to strive for success is worse than being criticized. Some things can only be done by one person; some hurdles can only be passed by one person; some roads can only be walked by one person. Remember: No one can be trusted unless you are useful!
Glory can only rely on yourself
If you are not good enough, the so-called circles and connections are just a joke. All the help your parents and friends can give you is just a stepping stone or a master to bring you in. You have to rely on yourself for the rest of your spiritual path. You only have one life, if you want to live, you have to live by yourself.
Parents in rural areas spend their entire lives buying a homestead in the countryside to help you start a family and marry a wife. This is the limit of what they can do.
What others give you may not really belong to you. Only by working hard on your own can you break out of the shackles and create your own world.
6. Flexible thinking
Water follows the shape and shape, and people adapt according to the situation. Rather than rushing forward or standing still, it’s better to go around and make a turn. Many times, seemingly unsolvable problems can be solved by simply changing your thinking.
If a tree is moved, it will die, but if a person is moved, it will live.
Only by being flexible and thinking outside the box can everything go smoothly and the road is smooth. If you have done all the hard work you should do and still haven’t found a clue, you might as well turn a corner and try something else. There is no straight path in life that leads to the end. If you don’t make the right path and don’t look back when you hit the wall, you will definitely be defeated by life. The torment was so painful that my head was bleeding.
7. Silent thinking
Sit quietly and think about your own mistakes. Don’t talk about others’ faults in small talk. When dealing with people, it is a great wisdom to see things through without telling them. Not saying anything is a kind of cultivation that makes you and I feel comfortable.
Speak less and do more
It’s good that you know many things well. Don't gossip, don't argue with others, and don't talk about people behind their backs.
Think about it carefully, isn’t it true for everyone? You learn to speak in one or two years after birth, but it takes you a lifetime to learn how to shut up and be silent.
8, barrel thinking
How much water a barrel can hold depends on the shortest piece of wood. If you want the barrel to hold more water, then you need to make up for the shortcomings.
A foot has its own strengths and an inch has its shortcomings.
Everyone has strengths and weaknesses. The important thing is that smart people can clearly understand this and can use their strengths and avoid weaknesses. Take advantage of your strengths and you can become an expert in this field.
9. Collaborative thinking
When Liu Bang summed up his successful experience, he said: "In strategizing, I am not as good as Zhang Liang; in guarding the country, I am not as good as Xiao He; with millions of soldiers, I am not as good as Han Xin. These three people, They are all outstanding people, and my ability to appoint them is the reason why I have won the world.
Cooperation can lead to win-win results. Cooperation.
The division of labor in modern society is becoming more and more clear, and ordinary people are more like small particles in the huge social machine. Screws, no one is an island. If a person wants to achieve something, he must have a cooperative mindset. He must know how to leverage, integrate the connections and resources of all parties, and try his best to make things successful.
10, Detailed thinking
"The Doctrine of the Mean" has. Says: “To reach the vast and to the subtle. "People who can achieve great things have more details than ordinary people. Details are every word and deed, every sand and stone. The truth is found in the details, learn to think big and start small. Make the details the best. , we are not far from success.
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