The true king's mentality in relationships is "Be strong without desire".
The cruel reality is that the more you care about someone and the more you want to get the other person, the more you will worry about gains and losses and be ugly, and this is almost unattractive in the eyes of the other person, even if you are there at the beginning, It will also be consumed quickly.
When you have no concern for gain or loss, your actions will be natural and calm, and a confident person will be full of charm in the eyes of others.
However, you cannot pretend to have no desire. You must be strong enough in your heart.
That is to say, you have to really do a good job in psychological construction and understand whether you can get a relationship. It is up to you to do everything you can. What you can do is to improve yourself as much as possible and show yourself. As for whether the other party will like you, you can't Controlled.
I think there is a real freedom of emotion.
I take the initiative because I want to take the initiative. I don’t care whether the price of taking the initiative will drop, and I don’t worry about who takes the initiative more.
If you don't come to me, I don't want to think too much. If I miss you, I will express that I miss you. If I feel uncomfortable, I will express my feelings in time.
I can do whatever I want. When I am happy, I will lean on you enthusiastically. If this relationship gives me more negative emotions, then I will turn around and leave decisively.
I don’t know why, but “seriousness” in relationships seems to have become a word that is ridiculed nowadays.
Everyone is saying that whoever takes it seriously first will lose. There are even remarks like "Dating for the purpose of marriage is just a hooliganism".
But I will still choose to be "serious". If I like someone, I will think a lot about whether this person is suitable for being together and how to live a good life together.
I don't want to learn the so-called "walking among thousands of flowers without a single leaf touching me", because I know that if you don't give your sincerity, you won't get the true love.
I am not afraid of being rejected after being sincere, nor am I afraid of repeated defeats in relationships, because what I care about is happiness, not winning or losing.
I will never regret being nice to someone.
As long as I am willing, I don't care how much I pay.
I don't care even if I get a bad nose or a hot face but a cold butt.
Because I gradually understand that I am willing to be good to you, not because of how good you are, but because I am good.
Follow Mr. Waijuan and grow together for life.
