-01-There will always be people who say that unforgettable love does not exist. But there is always some love in life. When you lose it, you find that the person has been engraved in your heart; when you find it, you realize that what you hold in your hands is the real happiness.

-01-

Some people will always say that unforgettable love does not exist.

But in life, there is always some love. When you lose it, you find that that person has already been engraved in your heart; when you find it again, you realize that what you hold in your hands is the real happiness.

Some encounters are fate destined by God.

Even if the contact is broken, the "connection" cannot be broken; even if each other is silent, there will always be some past that invisibly involves each other, and they cannot let go or forget.

There will always be couples who say the most painful words when they are angry, but then turn around and shed tears; there will always be people who say "I never want to see you again", but when they dream back at midnight, they still turn on each other. I looked through my circle of friends again and again, unable to fall asleep for a long time.

Some people say: Just love.

Maybe, if you meet once, as long as you can be safe for the rest of your life, it doesn't matter whether you contact us again or not.

But how can someone who has truly loved be willing to forget so easily?

Time flies by, forcing a smile is just happiness on the surface, but the pain in the heart requires endless time to make up for it bit by bit.

-02-

It is said that women are affectionate and men are "thin".

But if a man cannot accept the fact that you have separated after the disconnection, he will uncontrollably want to maintain some contact with you through various methods.

He will have expectations in his heart and a desire for "reconciliation". Even if you no longer talk on the phone or exchange words on WeChat, he will acquiesce that you are still wandering in his world and does not want you to leave just now. he.

After all, giving up someone you still like is a practice in life, and most people can't do it.

However, his "tacit approval" to you is a sign that he is still in love with you. Therefore, if you can't forget him, you might as well let all the unhappy things be in the past and start this relationship over again.

acquiesces that you can also use his "account"

Love is to be deeply in love without any reason.

If a man loves someone deeply, even if she leaves him, he will still retain traces of her.

The WeChat password is still her birthday; unlocking the phone is still the anniversary of two people; the door lock is still the string of numbers she set... Everything, it seems, she is no longer in this room, but she is everywhere. There is her presence.

I once saw a woman leave a message on Weibo saying that we have been separated for three months and we have no contact. But when I logged into his account skillfully, I found that the password was still the same familiar string of numbers, and there were also I kept all the photos of us together, and in an instant, tears flowed down unsatisfactorily.

people always believe that if they leave a person, there will be no scars in their souls from now on, and they think that they can treat the past as if nothing happened and let everything be in the past.

But it is very likely that in your subconscious, there is an expectation, that is: He can't forget me, how can he forget me?

So, late at night, I would still find some connections with each other and log in to some familiar accounts.

However, everyone knows that in the background of all accounts, you will see information that others have logged in. Everyone knows that when you see the person you still love has been here, a bitter smile will definitely appear on the corner of your mouth.

Therefore, the only reason why he still acquiesces to you being able to log in to his account is that he is still in love with you and still has you in his heart.

tacitly allows you to continue to use his "things"

has some feelings. After really saying "goodbye", he really will never see you again.

Therefore, many people are very decisive at the moment when they say "break up", and how regretful they will be if they are still in love afterwards.

After all, when you fall in love, you are together with sincerity. If you break up after the slightest friction, then the person you meet in the future may not be as good as the person you loved in the first place.

When two people are together, there will always be some things that they have used together, such as cars, computers, etc. If he will acquiesce in your continued use, even if his life will not be as convenient as before, he will not want to ask you at all. To come back, he only hopes that there is still contact between you, and he only hopes that there will be an excuse in the future to make you change your mind.

Occasionally, if you go to his residence and retrieve your things, you will find that your clothes are still in the closet where they used to be, and nothing has changed; the flowers you raised are still blooming on the windowsill, and even he is more beautiful than him. The flowers and plants you tend to should bloom well; the refrigerator still retains the style of when you were together, and is full of your favorite food... It seems that everything indicates that the hostess is only on a short business trip.

In fact, these behaviors of a man mean that he can’t let go of you.

He is embarrassed to ask you to come back, but everything remains the same as before. He does not want you to disappear from his life. He longs for a suitable time to pursue you back.

In relationships, the most beautiful part of a relationship is often a brief disconnection.

Because this time is the time when people's hearts can be most verified, and it is also the time when you can best see through this relationship and whether it has settled down between you.

Therefore, if you are also recalling the past and he will still be emotional for you, then the two of you should stop being frozen.

You must know that in love, a miss may last a lifetime.

tacitly allows his family and friends to "continuously contact" you

Some couples, after breaking off contact, their parents are actually satisfied with both of them.

In their opinion, it means that two people are at odds and don't want to talk to each other, so they will "mix it in" appropriately. They don't want you to miss each other because you are young and don't know how to cherish each other.

Therefore, even if neither of you want to talk to each other, his parents and friends will often contact you and ask you to have a meal at home, or his relatives and sisters will ask you to go shopping together and often look for you. Chat and more.

If his attitude towards this is acquiescence rather than opposition, and he hopes that you can agree happily, rather than fearing that you will have too much contact with his family, then he must still miss you deeply. Giving up.

People’s hearts are always nostalgic.

Especially, from heartbeat to love, during this period, many memories will leave an imprint in the heart of a person who has loved you deeply.

If a man doesn't want to break up, he will find various excuses after breaking off the relationship, so that the relationship between you and him can be relaxed, instead of being as cold as an iceberg and ignoring each other from now on.

Even if you encounter trouble, he will ask friends or family to help you even if he does not come forward personally.

He will be afraid that his excessive behavior will make you farther away from him, so he will choose to observe behind the scenes of his family. Once he finds out that you will "relent", he will turn this regret into the joy of "reconciliation".

Life is long, and it is not easy for two people to be together. Don't give up on each other just because of a small conflict.

If you want to maintain a long-term relationship, two people need to tolerate and understand each other. Only in this way can they get along harmoniously and make this "disconnection" more meaningful.

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There is a saying called: Great love is silent.

In love, the calmer the man's temperament, the more stable the relationship will be.

Many men are not good at words. Maybe he still loves you and cares about you in his heart, but he may disappoint women because he is not good at expressing. It may even cause deviations in the understanding between the two of you, causing conflicts between you. "Disconnection".

Therefore, a woman must truly understand his temperament and personality. If he is not a sweet-talking person, but he is down-to-earth and devoted to you and loves you sincerely, then you should not care too much about his words. lack of.

Especially when a man shows deep affection after disconnection, he may not necessarily use words to ask for reconciliation, but he will acquiesce in various ways that you are still involved in his life. Then, this kind of "condolence" means that he does not want to let go. Turn on your performance.

Emotions need to be managed carefully.

Love after disconnection requires two people to grasp it well. Therefore, if a man is still in love, say it loudly when he has the opportunity. If a woman is still in love, try to give him a chance.

Finally, I wish all lovers will eventually get married and depend on each other for life.

author, calm fox

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I hope you can find the deep affection in the ordinary years in my words! Thanks for attention!