■ Author: Uncle Nanshan
■ Original work, plagiarism will be investigated
01, preface.
Some people say that family relationship is a very subtle relationship. In this regard, the ancients said: If you live for a long time, you will be annoying, and if you come frequently, you will be distant. In fact, this sentence still makes sense. The famous writer Lu Yao wrote in "The Ordinary World":
"When I was a child, I often regarded the word "relatives" as beautiful and important. When I grew up, I realized that the relationship between relatives is often vulgar. They try to take advantage of each other, but they don't. Just roll your eyes. Even the biggest difficulties in your life are often caused by relatives. "
Yes, it is undoubtedly a disaster for people to get too close, even between relatives. Know how to keep a certain distance. Elderly people often warn us: "Keep a window's distance between relatives." If we get too close, psychological imbalance will appear. If there are too many contradictions, they become "twisted ropes" that can never be untangled. Therefore, truly smart people know how to grasp this measure. For example, Song Yiming in the following article dealt with his brother's surrender, which seemed ruthless, but was actually very good. It is worthy of our study.
02, Song Yiming is a Phoenix man who entered the city through his own efforts.
There is a company in Jiangcheng City, which is a joint venture. There is an employee in charge of business in company named Song Yiming. Song Yiming came from a rural area. With his own efforts, he entered a second-tier college. After graduation, he found this job in Jiangcheng City. Song Yiming's family background was poor, and his parents were partial and often ignored him. For this reason, much of the tuition fees for college were earned by Song Yiming himself.
However, Song Yiming is a smart man. He knows: "The mountains will fall, and everyone will run. Only relying on oneself is the most reliable." After entering the city, Song Yiming worked harder. He just wanted to settle down in this beautiful city. Jiangcheng City. After get off work every day, he walked onto the streets and alleys of Jiangcheng City and looked at the red maple leaves falling on the ground, feeling filled with emotion.
03, in order to save thirty years of hard work, he married an older leftover daughter from a good family.
However, if you want to buy a house in Jiangcheng City, you need at least one million. One million for is a sky-high price for Song Yiming. Even if he has a house, getting married will cost a lot of money. After thinking about it, Song Yiming always felt that his marriage was very slim. I was joking with my colleagues when we talked about this topic. They all said jokingly: "Song Yiming, isn't this easy? If you become a door-to-door son-in-law in Jiangcheng City, or find an older leftover daughter, wouldn't you save thirty years of hard work?"
He does not mean that. After hearing these two methods mentioned by his colleagues, Song Yiming had reservations about becoming a son-in-law. However, he had his own ideas about marrying an older leftover daughter. He knows that in today's society, many girls are struggling with high status and low status, and some families have really good conditions. If he can find someone who is older than him and has a house in the city, he can have less. Have you been struggling for thirty years? Sure enough, by chance, someone introduced him to an older leftover girl, Li Xiaolian, who was 6 years older than him. The two of them liked each other very much, and they got their marriage certificate six months later.
04, the woman loves Song Yiming very much and always gives him face when she goes home.
Although Li Xiaolian is an older leftover girl, she is also a very cultivated woman. She married Song Yiming with a dowry house, and Song Yiming's father-in-law and mother-in-law only received a symbolic gift of 100,000 yuan. In other words, Song Yiming married Li Xiaolian for basically nothing. Song Yiming is still satisfied with this, even though he is only twenty-eight years old and his wife is already thirty-four years old.
After Song Yiming and Li Xiaolian got married, the couple had a good relationship. After get off work every day, they would go home on time, do housework together, and work hard for a better life together.A year later, Li Xiaolian gave birth to a beautiful and lovely child to Song Yiming, and the couple's life became happier and happier. Every time she brought her children home, Li Xiaolian was very considerate to Song Yiming and obeyed her husband's words. Moreover, she used her dowry money to buy her husband a Kendillac, which was very popular.
05, Song Yiming was living a good life in the city, so his parents asked his younger brother to find him.
Song Yiming married an older leftover woman and lived a happy life. In everyone's eyes, Song Yiming was a man who succeeded by his own ability. However, Song Yiming knew that he was a man who had bad luck. If Li Xiaolian hadn't been well-educated, and Li Xiaolian loved him very much and provided Li Xiaolian with a dowry room, how could he have such a well-fed life. For this reason, he is very grateful to his wife Li Xiaolian and knows that he must protect this hard-won home.
However, Song Yiming's life is so good in the city, but his younger brother Song Xiaoming's life is not so satisfactory. Because of his parents' doting, Song Xiaoming studied hard since he was a child. Although he went to a junior college when he grew up, he still accomplished nothing after graduation. After marrying his wife, life became even tighter. Parents see it in their eyes and are anxious about in their hearts. When it was time for Song Xiaoming's child to go to kindergarten, his parents asked Song Xiaoming to take the child to the city to seek help from Song Yiming, and to work and live in Jiangcheng City for the sake of the child's future.
06, my younger brother brought his family to the city to work and wanted to stay at his brother's house temporarily for half a year.
Song Xiaoming came to the city with his wife Afen and their children. When he brought his wife and children to the gate of Song Yiming's community, Afen saw such a beautiful community and couldn't help but said with envy: "Song Xiaoming, when will we also have a house like this? Let's go to you first Let’s live in my brother’s house for a while. Your brother is so rich, so you must find a way to help us with our children’s schooling.”
When Song Yiming heard that his brother was coming, he came from home. Come down. Seeing his younger brother dragging his family to the city, he asked strangely: "Brother, if you don't stay at your hometown in the country, why are you coming to the city?" Song Xiaoming said with a smile: "Brother, the child wants to study in the city. Kindergarten, please help find a kindergarten nearby. From now on, we will live in your house for half a year. When we have a stable job and have money, we will move out." Song Yiming couldn't help but be stunned when he heard his brother say this. .
07, Song Yiming thought about it carefully, but finally rejected his brother's request.
He did not speak, but returned home with his younger brother and his family of three. When Li Xiaolian came back with her children, it was already seven o'clock in the evening. When Li Xiaolian saw her brother-in-law and his family coming, she was naturally very polite. She asked Song Yiming to order more delicious food to be delivered, and the two families gathered together and had a delicious meal laughing and joking. While sleeping, Li Xiaolian asked her brother-in-law for information about his family of three coming to the city. The smart Song Yiming didn't say anything. He just told Li Xiaolian that his brother just came to the city to have fun and see if there was any work available. After hearing this, Li Xiaolian promised to help her brother-in-law and his wife find a job tomorrow.
At night, Song Yiming was still tossing and turning, unable to sleep. He knew that once his younger brother settled down in his home, under the same roof, he would inevitably have some conflicts with himself and Li Xiaolian. "I would rather offend the first grade of junior high school than the fifteenth grade of junior high school." Even though he is his own brother. But after all, they are two families. If they get too close, some unpleasantness will definitely happen. So it is better to decisively refuse the request of my brother's family to stay temporarily for half a year.
08, Song Yiming spent his own money to rent a small house for his younger brother to live in.
The next day, Song Yiming took his younger brother and his family of three to a nearby private kindergarten and went through the formalities for them to enroll in September. Then, he went to a nearby rental agency and helped his brother rent an 80-square-meter house. After taking the key, he called his brother aside, handed him the key to the house, and said decisively to his brother:
"Xiao Ming, sister-in-law, I have to explain my words today. You are going to stay in our house temporarily. For half a year, I couldn't do it! Because this house is your sister-in-law's dowry house, sometimes I feel like I am living in it, so I have been working hard to buy a house of my own. It is impossible to stay temporarily for half a year. In order to avoid any unpleasantness in the future, I will not allow you to move in. However, I have rented a house for you. You can move in for the first half of the year. Pay it, and you can pay the rent yourself after half a year."
After hearing his brother say this, and renting a house for them, they paid half a year's rent in advance. Although Song Xiaoming and his wife were a little unhappy, they could only accept it. . Just like that, they moved their luggage to Song Yiming's house, came to the house that Song Yiming helped them rent, and started their struggle in Jiangcheng City.
09, conclusion.
Friends, Song Xiaoming knew that his brother was living a good life, so he wanted to stay at his house temporarily for half a year. He also asked his brother to help solve his children's study problems and buy a house to live in in the future. Song Xiaoming thinks this way, is he overthinking? The elder brother Song Yiming decisively refused his younger brother's request and rented a house for him. Is Song Yiming's behavior ruthless or reasonable? As Song Yiming's wife, when she knows all this, what do you think she should do more appropriately? welcomes everyone to leave a message in the comment area for discussion. Thank you all.
[About the author]: Uncle Nanshan focuses on writing original emotional stories, folk tales and emotional beautiful articles. He has published 6 emotional , beautiful articles and story books. All major self-media platforms have original authors plus V. Each major platform has accumulated millions of fan authors, and the accumulated clicks on each major platform have exceeded 500 million times. Uncle Nanshan aims to give you more positive stories through simple words, tell you some principles of life, and realize some beautiful little blessings in life.
