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Minander said that love should be planted with loyalty and friendship should be nursed with sincerity.
If a marriage loses its sincerity, there will be no good results.
Some people always don’t understand the true meaning of marriage in marriage. They obviously have a man who loves her very much, but they don’t know how to cherish, blindly act as a demon, think that the poor love the rich. I always feel that life can be different if I have money.
However, she ignored that feelings cannot be measured by money. If you have money but no affection, this marriage is also not long-lasting.
While you are greedy for other people’s money, have you ever wondered what kind of abilities you have in your own body and what kind of capital do you have to get everything you want?
There are many women who have been married for many years, and gradually lose their freshness to each other, start to envy everything around them, and even do things that violate the moral bottom line.
If this is the case, you are very wrong. Everyone has their own life to live. When you are envious of others, they are also envious of your quiet life.
You feel that if you leave the other party, you will be able to find someone better than him. That would be a big mistake.
If you can’t be yourself and always change your mind, then no matter what, you can’t get a better one.
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Reader's submission:
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You are married During the past five years, the relationship between us was very weak and there was not much passion in life. I also lost hope for such a marriage.
originally thought that our marriage would continue like this, but by chance, I met Mr. Wang.
After meeting him, I felt that my heart burned again. He brought me a lot of laughter and laughter, which my husband did not have.
For such a situation, I am also very embarrassed. On the one hand, it is a lifeless family, and on the other hand, it is true love that can bring me freshness. I don’t know how to do it. Choice.
After all, I am a married person and I cannot do such a thing, so after thinking about it, I decided to end the marriage with no love with my husband, and do it boldly Once to myself.
During the divorce, my ex-husband had begged me. He asked me to think about it and don’t do something that I regret.
But at that time I had already figured it out clearly, there is no love between us, if we are together again, it will be a torture for each other.
So, I don’t think we need to be together anymore, so I abandoned my family for the so-called true love.
When I divorced, I still had children. If I took the children, true love might not want me.
The husband also proposed: divorce is fine, but the children must stay in their home. This ex-husband’s request just solved my problem.
I thought that when I became free, I would have a good ending with that man.
But less than half a month after the divorce, he abandoned me, and even said this when he abandoned me, Don’t be stupid, how could I marry you? You are a divorced woman, we are just a game, just play, don't take it too seriously.
When I heard this, I was really very angry. I abandoned my husband and son for him and abandoned my family.
But he just abandoned me like this. I lost my family and lost my soldiers.
So I want to tell everyone that women must not betray the family. When you betray the family, you will pay everything for what you do.
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You think he really loves you, but I didn’t expect it to be just freshness cd
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In relationships, women will always make such mistakes, always feel that he treats you well and loves you, but you have neglected. A man is an emotional animal. His love comes fast and goes too fast fast.
He is just new, but you take it seriously. Under such circumstances, you paid a heavy price for your impulse, but he patted his butt and turned away. In the end, you will have to bear all the results.
If this is the case, then I think it is very unworthy.
Many women always have some illusions in marriage, feeling that two people have been married for many years and have no feelings.
Under such circumstances, she will pursue freshness and excitement, but forgets that when you pursue excitement, you will also lose the most important person in your life.
All feelings will change from fresh to plain. If you cannot accept this reality, then no matter how many times you experience feelings, the result will be the same.
This society has far more restrictions on women than on men. After a man betrays his marriage, there is a high probability that he will be forgiven by the woman. After his prodigal son turned back, many people will not blame him for the past.
But women are different, if you betray your family, then you will end up with a rat crossing the street, everyone shouting and fighting.
In this situation, I also hope that women can be strict with themselves and do not do things that betray marriage.
When you break the boat and give up your family, you will find that he is just a fresh picture. At that time, there was no way to look back.
Woman, don't be stupid, you expect him to come and marry you after your divorce, how is it possible?
A man is very realistic. He will not do things that are not beneficial to him. You must distinguish between ideal and reality.
Many women, I thought I met someone worthy of entrusting my life, and I wanted to be with him at all costs, but I didn't expect to be alone in an instant.
The world of love is very complicated, and there are many factors. You think it is enough to have love, but after you are really together, you will find that it is not that simple.
The deep love you thought at the beginning was just a momentary feeling. Really living together, after experiencing the test of firewood, rice, oil and salt, you will find that the original marriage is more worthy of relying on.
Two people are happy together. The more you care, the more tired you get. The best concept of love is that I love you, you are free, and being able to do this is not far from happiness.
today topic
Do you think there is true love outside marriage?
