I remembered playing with my partner when I was young, and when my partner went to eat in the middle of the journey, I put my partner's things in front of her house, and then I went home for dinner. When we got together again, the little friend suddenly told me angrily, what should you do if you leave something at the door? Why don't you put it in your hand first, or knock on the door and come back.
Another time, because everyone was playing together, when Xiao Li came over, he didn’t say hello to Xiao Wang, but when he greeted the rest of us, Xiao Wang became very angry, thinking that Xiao Li didn’t treat her as a friend and deliberately ignored her. she. Xiao Wang explained to her, but Xiao Li was still very angry, thinking that Xiao Wang didn't take her seriously.
Look, in childhood, we will be angry with friends or angry with friends because of various behaviors. So when we grow up, shouldn't we pay more attention to social etiquette?
I have a friend, Xiao Li, who thinks she can't take the initiative as a girl, and she told me that if you want to chat with others, don't always reply to others too much, or if you want others to value you, don't always be online. I think all these statements are somewhat inexplicable. Because if someone asks you to chat, you don't return. Or it is obviously very negligent, unless this person is your suitor, otherwise you will not continue to communicate with other people.
If you don’t reply to the message, you will not reply if you only reply a few sentences. Who will take the initiative to chat with you over time.
Xiao Wang is like this. Everyone talks to her. She always responds with one sentence or two and does not reply. At first, everyone thought that she might be busy, so she understood, but found that she didn’t reply on purpose. Maybe Xiao Wang What you enjoy is the feeling that everyone surrounds you, but everyone sees that she is always reluctant to reply to messages, and slowly loses the desire to chat with her, and the happiness that she wants to share with her. After a long time, everyone will Don't talk to her anymore.
But Xiao Wang began to feel that everyone had alienated her, and found that he still insisted on the principle that I will not take the initiative if you don’t take the initiative to behave in the world. The key is that others take the initiative, and Xiao Wang doesn’t take the initiative either. So Xiao Wang soon became a lonely man.
Moments of friends do not reply,Who will give you a comment next time.
Some people post some scenery in the circle of friends, some people post daily sharing in the circle of friends, and some people post some sentimental words in the circle of friends.
When you see it sometimes, you will comment and participate to express your concern. Those who are sentimental will also comment to express their concern. It’s a pity that some people just turn a blind eye to these comments. What is your purpose for posting in Moments? I can’t say that 100% is to share to let others see, but most of them want to be followed by others, otherwise You can make a trumpet and post it in the trumpet, or just write a memo.
So why don’t others respond to comments? Are you really so busy? If you don’t reply to comments, there will be no comments next time. Don’t think that everyone’s not giving you a thumbs up comment is envious, or No one in the sentimental circle of friends cares anymore.
Because adults also have adult social etiquette, not everyone will take the initiative to wait for you to reply. If you want a good relationship, you must also understand what courtesy is. If you neglect others, others will feel it, so you can stay away from this negligence. Over time, you will have no friends, because your friends have already become friends with other people in this neglect.
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