Writing articles every day is really not easy. It is easy for people to betray their relatives.
two days ago millet also told me: I’m squeezed out! She wrote about her family from the ancestors to the younger brother’s dating, marriage, and childbirth. She also wrote about how to educate and control her brother. His brother was not used to it, but now he is used to it.
She also wrote a series with her husband, showing her affection, complimenting her husband (comparation is the best management), and let his colleagues see her husband Xiao Liu , My colleague said: Hi, I heard that your wife bought a car for you!
Compared with her, I am considered conservative, but now I have basically written several old ones in my family for several rounds. Then the small ones also made various appearances. [Laughing] I used to think that I must remain mysterious and not reveal my marital status. Later, I really didn't have much to write about, and I finally appeared on the scene.
However, there is a benefit. When I was mistaken for single, no matter how good my reader’s emotional mailbox is, there will always be hysterical people who come to me: someone who has never been married and has no man. It's a joke to guide others' emotions!
has one who has been chasing after him for a long time,I replied: I don’t want to irritate you...
I was wrong... But everyone is ordinary, and I will be mean if I am not happy...
I also write about my friends, and I sometimes offend. Once, when I wrote a letter to the box, I quoted a friend's story. There were only two sentences without the name, and no one else knew it. But the person involved knew that she was quoted, and became unhappy, and had been cold to me for several years. This makes me feel uncomfortable, and feel that I am suffering from the writer's heart of facing the material wolf. Although I didn't name it, there should be some attitudes in these two paragraphs. This attitude constitutes an evaluation of other people's lives. I can understand people's unhappiness. Sitting together, you can evaluate, write in the article, imagine that everyone is reading it, and it must be unhappy.
Later, I will write about my friends, regardless of whether they are named or not, as a whole or in part, I will greet them in advance, and the passages that are suspected to be relevant have been reviewed.
Of course, Jiazhen Xiaofang is better. They have thick skins and live indifferent lives. They don’t care much about their personal settings, and I’m not a real material animal, basically I still dig out their shining points, so I am basically a more conscientious person in the writing industry.
I see a lot of female authors, the surrounding material is much deeper than me, and they are all deeply critical types, digging into other people’s careful eyes, pretending to be B, clinging, greedy,Green tea...I'm okay. One is because I am timid and afraid of offending people. The other is because of these shortcomings.
What is a last resort? I really can’t write it, there’s really no traffic. You have to curse people to get traffic. Conflict always attracts traffic...
As I get smaller and smaller, I am more and more able to figure out everything. , My traffic is getting less and less.
I didn't even think about how to transform this thing, because I don't know how to transform. I am someone who has to stay in my comfort zone. I don’t know about HFP Shengxuelan. These ads have stopped so many public accounts. Why do I have such a slack public account? They still vote for a bit. It must be my readers’ help. You are still buying, so they will vote. Bar. If you don't buy it, they won't vote.
What should we do then?
is it related to the public account, or is it to write about a few moles on my body, and something like "My roommate and I have to tell a story"?
Of course, you can also care about the facts. The first is to stir up conflicts with excitement. For example, regardless of the number of thirty-seven and twenty-one, they will punch and kick: people have been with you for 9 years ( Actually more than 7 years), why can't you give others 9 million?
Forget it,I can't do this kind of thing. A self-respecting person like me can't do things that reduce dimensionality. I'm also a person who wants to face and suffer.
Fortunately, I think there are some of the same kind. There is no old man, hahahaha, old man with a high spiritual and cultural level, he has always been so enthusiastic, and I will give a message for every article. I don't really think that my level can be in his eyes. I can only say that at most it is not disgusting with me plus all kindness.
If Lao Wan also gets the clearance, I will turn the public account.
Lao Wan said, the bad, I was on a false ha ha ha ha ......
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Author: Lu Jin radio host People/column authors
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