I can particularly understand, what is the reason why Xu Ma is so steadfast and so stubborn to want the truth? Because the February 8th incident is not only a matter for her family, but also a matter of the whole society. This hurt is more cruel and intolerable than human traffickers stealing children.
is not human and can not make mistakes, the harm it brings to her:
① changed the destiny of her son Weiwei's life . She was pregnant in October and gave birth. In these 28 years, she has never seen her relatives and has missed the growth of her son in the 28 years. Not only does she have to endure the pain of separation, she also has to do her best to take care of a sickness. "Son", this sick son was forced to her by the nurse, but she was brought up as her own child. From kindergarten to university, from toddler to parenthood, Xu's mother devoted all her love and hard work. Finally, there is no money, no houses, no children...this is an unprecedented and inhuman tragedy.
② ruined the future of Yao's father . Originally, Dad Yao had a good job, but in order to facilitate the care of children with hepatitis B, he changed jobs early and became an ordinary employee. As a father, he sacrificed too much.
③ imposed 28 years of mental torture and financial expenditure on Xu Ma, which is an unforgivable injury. If the child is right, she shouldn’t have to bear all of this. She has no fixed home and debts. She has raised a sick child for 28 years and will not be allowed to see her at the end of her death. This is too vicious. Got it! Repaying the grievance, devaluing the mother who was so kind to herself and her family is worthless, and reporting Xu's mother online for more than a year, all kinds of slander and slander, what's wrong with Xu's mother? What's wrong? Even if you are not grateful, you still slander her everywhere, think in another way, who can do like her? Ask yourself.
④ deceives the relationship between the two big families of Yao and Xu. Grandma, who loves his grandson like life, pays her love by mistake. It is a shame that grandfather has not been able to see his grandson until his death! Originally, the family was happy and happy, and didn't need to endure mental and material torture.
Just these few points, Xu Ma wants the truth, is it too much? I don’t know how the child is holding the wrong one. As a parent, how can I feel at ease? How can I say forget it, forgive me...
Some people always say that Xu's mother wants the truth to be greedy for money. How useful is money for her? Can you return Ce's life? If she is because of the money, she can get compensation as long as she nods her head every minute.
But she didn't think that way. She wanted the truth, justice and argument, promoted the good and eliminated evil, wanted justice and kindness, how could the child be wrong? Who is wrong? Which link is wrong? Who is responsible? As parents, shouldn't you know?
In November 2020, Xu Ma is still contacting experts to hope that the child will be alive. In any case, she must save her life.
The most hateful thing is that no one donates the liver. Even if you go for a blood test and the final match is not matched, at least the sick child feels a little better, and he won’t have so many regrets, and he won’t keep his eyes open. Watching his life wither.
He wrote in his suicide note: Lying alone in the hospital bed, the air is filled with the breath of death... It's helpless!
Xu's mother has no blood relationship with the sick child, but she tried every means to save his life, asked for money, Xu Yao's family gave it unreservedly. He wanted the liver. Xu Mom was willing to donate it, and Yao Dad paid it back. Said that if Xu Ma is unsuccessful, he can top it up, or he can donate... What a great and kind parent! As a result, the blood type was not matched during the blood test.There is nothing he can do, because he is not his biological parents, so Xu Yao’s father has done his best and has a clear conscience.
And their biological parents even don’t have the chance to try such a blood test. They are not willing to pay for some life-saving money. I can imagine it, delaying the meeting time when acknowledging relatives, saying " " "Choose the right way for the child", "It's a big deal to go to another world", "It's over" and so on, these words are too normal, because they didn't have much hope of survival for that child at all. All were declared dead. See you 28 years later. How much affection can you have?
That's why she has to keep occupying the cake, reluctant to leave the cake, let the cake sign declare not to leave that place, and give her the end of her life, before she goes to meet with her relatives and children. Therefore, I believe everyone can see how forced and helpless the scene was. This is also her own self-declaration: After seeing the DNA, she was forced to know.
As a bystander, we support Xu’s mother to find the truth, not only to give herself justice, but also to maintain the public order and good customs of the society, so that all mothers in the world can have a safe and healthy reproductive environment. I don't want such a tragedy to happen again.
Some people are quite smart:
Silly daughters have son-in-laws
Sick sons are raised by Xu family
True and false grandchildren are raised by grandma
My husband and wife are raised by false sons
Money is good, is this a good deal?
What is your opinion on this matter?
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