After the elderly are old, their lives are generally boring, especially when they are alone. Many people may choose to obtain a certificate and find a person to live. There are also some who only work with partners without obtaining a certificate. In addition to these, they will also find a nanny. There are a variety of old-age care methods, such as those who go to nursing homes, etc. However, there is an uncle who chooses another new type of old-age care. I am more at ease.
What kind of unique new way of providing for the elderly does this uncle? Let us listen to the story of Uncle Li.
Self-reporter: 73-year-old Uncle Li
I am 73 years old this year, and I have always had a small pension after retirement. Compared to the elderly without a pension, I have lived I get very rich, and I will choose to go out and play when I have time to see the great rivers and mountains of the motherland. Today's life is also very happy. All of this is because I made the right choice once.
In our days, marriages were basically made by the parents. My wife and I also came together because of the matching of our parents. Fortunately, after we got married, our personalities and interests are very similar. , The relationship has always been good. From the initial lack of acquaintance, I slowly walked into love until the last family relationship, and have been in love with my wife for so many years.
We have gone through decades of wind and rain in this way, but just a few years ago, my wife left me forever due to a sudden serious illness, and she just left me During that period of time, I was very painful. After all, the people who had been with me for decades left suddenly, and no one could accept the change. The child saw me in this state.He also expressed that he wanted to take me to live with them, but I did not agree.
We are from the south here. After graduating from university, our son stayed in the local city and lived in the north. As the cultural and dietary habits of the south and the north are different in all aspects, I am afraid that I will not be able to stand there. Besides, I don’t want to cause trouble to the young couple. After thinking about it for a long time, I still didn’t agree to my son’s request. Although I know that the child is filial to me, I still have a lot of concerns. Did not agree.
Old people like me who don’t go to their children’s homes usually choose to go to nursing homes. They think that there are more people of the same age in nursing homes who can talk together and do some entertainment, but I’m right There is no good feeling in that kind of place. I don’t have a comfortable life at home there. Besides, I don’t want to make some new friends anymore. As for the old-age care method like asking a nanny, I am not optimistic about it. Now I am often online. I can see some babysitters, some bad attitudes towards the elderly, or some petty thefts, if it really makes me run into this kind of behavior, I really can't accept it.
I was still persuaded by someone to tell me that I am still relatively strong and lonely at home. Why not find a wife or someone to live with? I also feel that this method is not appropriate. I chose a new type of pension method called: friend-style mutual assistance pension.
This new type of old-age care: As the name suggests, two singles of the opposite sex can live together during the day and take care of each other, but they go to their homes at night, which is now the youth center. On top of the friends, the state of the lover's dissatisfaction. One advantage of this new type of old-age care is that the two of them are not involved in economic disputes, and they can hug each other to keep warm.
Once I met sister Zhou Da during morning exercises. She was a few years younger than me. We have common interests and hobbies together, and the sisters are docile and caring for people. At the beginning, she looked for I live together as a partner, but I did not agree with her idea, but introduced her to my new type of pension. She also agreed very much, and we were together like this.
We both have our own houses. During the daytime, I sometimes invite her to my house, and she sometimes invites me to her house. The two of us sit together and chat and drink tea. Do some things of interest, and do not interfere with each other's family affairs. If it is really a marriage certificate, there may be some disputes and differences due to family affairs, but this way we will not, the main children We also very much agree with our old-age care method.
Our lifestyle has also reduced a lot of conflicts and frictions. An old man Zhao downstairs found a partner to live with. The two people lived together for a long time and had frequent conflicts, sometimes in the middle of the night. I would hear all sorts of thundering and clamoring sounds from their family, and he would complain to me from time to time. Looking at their state, I feel that my new type of pension is a good choice.
Concluding remarks: After the elderly are old, no matter what kind of care they choose, as long as they live comfortably and happily. How do you think about this? Do you think this kind of friend-based mutual assistance is feasible? Welcome to write down your views and opinions under the comments, let us exchange and learn together~
