When I was young, I was sitting on the back seat of the bicycle my father was riding. At that time, what I naively wanted was the brilliant, thrilling, and responsive dream of a hero. When I grow up, I want to become a contributing scientist, a brave soldier, a galloping athlete on the field, and a stunned business elite...
When a teenager is urged to grow up by the years, I slowly feel that it is not easy to be an upright person who has the ability to control his own life. However, in the end, I often live into that kind of trivial, dispensable little person who hates myself. After I am an adult, I realize that my world does not belong to the heroic dream I want, but only a mess, then Kind of the way I hate myself.
When I was a child, it was the simplest time when everyone was in school. The campus is the first "small society" in life. Here, children don’t see poverty, wealth, high or low. In addition to sitting and listening during class time, after class, regardless of family background, they all played together in a swarm. At that time, they were naive, without the colored eyes of adults. They played together in gangs, and the game was over. Still gather together like ants and brag loudly, discussing the magical "Flying Over the Wall", "Fighting the Stars and Moving", "72 Changes", "The Great Shift of the Universe" in the TV series... Everyone is arguing with a red face, as if, It has a lot to do with myself. I am the person and the protagonist in the TV series. However, within a few minutes, a new "fight" and new bragging began!
At that time, there were no dandy rich men and noble ladies, everyone was the same. Every day I go to class, play games, and taste a few cents of delicacies on the side of the road, and one cent of popsicles. Later, as you grow up, graduate from school, and enter society, you will find that those children from good backgrounds have a better way of earning a living through relationships. By the time they become adults, those who used to be inferior to you. The rich kid will sit in a spacious office. If you want to find him, you have to get the consent of the security guard, register for inquiries, and you need to walk through a long corridor to see him.Standing in front of him, at that moment, you remembered the eternal truth, "It is better to have a good dad if you learn mathematics, physics and chemistry well."
After growing up and working, in the workplace, your leader is a person with lack of ethics, fight for relationships, fight for the background, climb up the leader, can not lead, is a mess, there is no correct and feasible plan , He asks you to implement it without hesitation. The results of the implementation are of course not good. The colleague was arrested and criticized at the meeting. He dared not say anything, because the bottom employees were the first to be attacked when they were held accountable. They were full of anger at the meeting. Nodding to admit mistakes. So why didn't he break out, because there are still family members who want to eat. When he was off work, he cursed unreasonable plans, unrealistic leadership, blind command, no one stood up to refute, and so on. At this time, no one rebutted. Everyone knows that more is better than less. After all, it is not easy for everyone. The worries in my heart vented out, and after slowly calming down, I was relieved to everyone that many of the helplessness of adults is like this, and it is vividly manifested. There are many injustices and grievances in this society, which exist in all corners of the world, and they are always caught off guard when they fall on a person.
Sometimes, in society and in the workplace, when faced with such helplessness and powerlessness, there must be a way of self-comfort. Those who will flatter, look at their faces, and please others People are all mixed up. In order to calm the inner conflicts, we must learn a set of spiritual victory methods. People have gradually realized that they cannot gain a foothold in society and the workplace without learning this spirit. From the good and the bad to the rare and confused, how many people have suffered so much from the stomach and the stomach! This kind of nameless fire tossed and turned people, as if only telling people over and over again could the pain in the heart slowly be relieved. People sometimes use spiritual victory to mourn the misfortunes of others, comfort their wounded hearts, anger their social injustices, and complain that their lives are not satisfactory.
when he grows up,Due to the constraints of the life economy, people are living a self-comforting life. On the major network platforms and social software, sellers shouted "perfect" various sales, including health products, cosmetics, clothes, insurance, etc. Household appliances and so on are madly launched. Netizens are either being promoted or become salesmen. They are consulting, accepting, rejecting, promoting, bargaining, and unaware of it. It is not important whether the perfect product of the salesperson is genuine or not. It is important. It is necessary to have familiar people around, and trustworthy people say it is "good", and the dependence on the heart and the victory over the self are very convincing at this time. Benefits drive people all the way, both buyers and sellers have their own minds, and both want to minimize their efforts and maximize their profits. Psychologist on the Internet.
When I grow up, I also know that there are even more chilling things in the world, that is, the various spectators today. Their ultimate pleasure is to use the misfortune of others as the capital condition for them to obtain happiness, and to sprinkle salt on the wounds of others. When they see someone jumping off the building, they hurt the jumper in the crowd; watching those who are beaten. Applaud; satirize the overseas students who were killed abroad, why they want to study abroad; confuse right and wrong on the online blog platform; they laugh at ordinary workers who work in a messy and tiring society... They are the best in the real society or on the Internet. The indifferent and cruelest words and deeds hurt the parties. However, there are still many such followers who do not know the truth of the matter. In order to gain the attention of others and attract the attention of others, they also joined this group of people vigorously.
Many times, I think of a lot of scenes from my childhood. At that time, the happiness was simple. I was full, dressed warmly, had sugar to eat. After I was ripened by the years, I did a lot of things against my intentions and comforted myself. After all, there are so many things in the adult world that are not easy! But now, like this kind of succumbing to the reality of fate, there are still a lot of you, me, and others. From the youthful spirits to the growing up, how many people have become the sad self.
How sorrowful, the people who wrestle in the society are branded with the shadow of this kind of person, and no one is spared. How lucky, this era is no longer feudal and decadent, leaving most of us with the opportunity to think about problems on our own. seems to be awakened and empowered in such a moment, and will suddenly realize that people who are so easily influenced by others now can get rid of the "binding" of colored eyes and move forward bravely. May the world of adults not be so many If you are unsatisfactory, be your own hero, and you don’t need to listen to other people’s gossip and live your own life, because in this world, you are unique, and you will always be the only scenery in this world.
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