The son is suffering from cancer, but his parents jumped into the river one after another overwhelmed, leaving his son alone to face the illness. What kind of parents made such a decisive choice? What has happened between this family that will fall apart overnight?
This man who has been crying is called Feng Xi'an (a pseudonym), and he was mainly engaged in design work before he fell ill.
A month ago, he went to the hospital for examination due to his physical discomfort and was diagnosed with a malignant tumor. His life was being seriously threatened. But at this time, "misfortunes never come singly" came another bad news, that was the cause of his father's suicide.
The tragedy began in the afternoon a few days ago when a woman named Ma Zhanglan (a pseudonym) jumped into a pond near her home and chose to end her life in this wild grassy place. This year, she was only 48 years old.
What everyone did not expect was that four hours after Ma Zhanglan jumped into the pond to commit suicide, her husband also chose to commit suicide in Shentang. In other words, within a day, Feng Xi'an's parents chose to jump into the pond to end their lives.
What motivated them to make them act like this? What have they experienced?
Feng Xi’an’s relatives said that they also saw Ma Zhanglan at about two o’clock that afternoon. At that time Ma Zhanglan’s mental state was the same as before, and there was no abnormal change or reaction. After that, Ma Zhanglan handed her grandson to his sister-in-law. He said that he was going to go up the mountain to mow the grass, and then walked out of the house with a scythe. Since then, the family has never been able to contact Ma Zhanglan again.
No one thought that it was the last time everyone saw her. Since she could not be contacted, the family members were particularly anxious. They mobilized someone who could mobilize and looked for signs of Ma Zhanglan everywhere.
Half an hour later, someone finally found her by the pond, but at that time Ma Zhanglan had changed from a living person to a corpse floating on the water, with no signs of life.
Everyone still remembers how she looked when she went out,Holding the wood-cutting tool in her hand, who knew it was gone forever, and her husband was still calling her on the phone, looking for her trace.
However, just after people found Ma Zhanglan's body, they found that Ma Zhanglan's husband Feng Xiangguo (a pseudonym) also disappeared, and he did not come back until the evening.
So the relatives in the family began to look for Feng Xiangguo again. Soon after, the relatives found her husband's body in the place where Ma Zhanglan dived, and the couple chose to commit suicide in the same place.
Before committing suicide, Feng Xiangguo also knew the news that his wife had passed away.
Why did they do such extreme behavior? Faced with this reason, looking at the photos of the husband and wife placed in the hall, the Feng family present unanimously chose to be silent.
No one speaks, no one cries to express regret, no one bows in front of their husband and wife, everyone is busy with their own affairs.
At this time, what about the children of Ma Zhanglan and Feng Xiangguo, who should have been in front of the photo, where did the others go?
Feng's family said that they only have one son named Feng Xi'an. He is not at home and has been hospitalized in the hospital. Feng Xi’an was diagnosed with a malignant tumor at the age of 26 and his body could not stand the stimulation. So at this time, in order to ensure Feng Xi’an’s safety, relatives chose to keep the news of Feng Xi’an’s parents’ death confidential, so as not to let Feng Xi’an. Have a feeling of great joy and compassion, cultivate well.
Up to now, these relatives are responsible for the funeral of Feng Xi'an's parents.
Everyone felt worried and sympathized for Feng Xi'an. He had already faced such a severe physical shock. At this time, his parents still chose to commit suicide.
From the current point of view, Feng Xi'an is unable to take care of his increasingly weakened body, neither in material nor financial resources.
Feng Xian hasn't seen his parents for a long time. He kept asking his relatives about his parents, but everyone still blocked the incident for his health.
However, I can't hide from the first day of the junior high school, but can't hide from the fifteenth.
I can hide it once, or twice, but can I hide it for a lifetime? Feng Xi’an is not a fool because he has been unable to contact his parents for a long time and his relatives have an unusual evasive attitude.He noticed the strangeness and started to worry. He kept calling his parents, but couldn't get through.
It’s a coincidence that at noon, he saw a message from someone in the circle of friends, and then learned the news that his parents had passed away. Feng Xi’an saw the situation and lost control of his emotions. To be discharged.
Feng's relatives were in a hurry and kept persuading him.
After everyone talked, his emotions gradually returned to calm, but since then, Feng Xi'an hasn't spoken any more, just lay there all day long in silent tears.
Later, Feng Xian explained that at first he saw that everyone’s unusual attitude was a bit wrong, and then his parents’ phone calls were always busy, but he never thought that his parents would leave him in this way.
Father Feng Xiangguo is not in good health and suffers from high blood pressure, but his father had been taking care of himself for more than 20 days before the accident, but that day he suddenly went out in a hurry. It turned out that his mother was also in an accident. .
Finally, at Feng Xi'an's insistence, his relatives handled his discharge procedures for him. He said he had to see his parents when he wanted to go home.
But on the way to see his parents the next day, Feng Xi’an did not cry, his expression was sluggish, as if he had hidden all his pain overnight, although all this was a pain for him with a malignant tumor. A fatal blow.
Feng Xian, who finally returned home, could no longer support his body. He knelt down with a "plop" and refused to get up again. The people present did not know how to persuade Feng Xian.
With pale complexion and weak body, this young man seemed to have grown old overnight, and he didn't even have the strength to cry.
His parents named him Xi'an, with "Ann" in the name, hoping that he can grow up safe and healthy.
Feng Xi’an’s parents have had a hard time over the years. When Feng Xi’an was studying, his parents put in all their efforts to get their children a better education. Feng Xi’an is also very obedient, and his grades have always been among the best. Admitted to the university with honors. This year he is exactly twenty-six years old,Like many college students, they were children from the countryside, so Feng Xi'an worked harder to live and work. After graduating from college, he stayed in the city to work and start a family. He has been planning to wait for himself to stabilize and take his parents to enjoy happiness in the city.
But a month ago, he started to feel uncomfortable, but because he felt that he was young, just a common cold, he didn’t care too much, but his physical condition was getting worse and worse, Feng Xi’an could only go to the hospital for an examination, only to find out I have a malignant tumor.
Feng Xi'an also recalled that since he was hospitalized, his parents have been taking care of him, giving him great comfort and company, and asking him to be strong, but now the warm behavior of his parents seems to be still in sight.
He did not expect that his parents would leave him in this way. He was only twenty-six years old, young and vigorous, but suffering from malignant tumors and the unpredictable fate, how could Feng Xi'an be able to bear it alone?
But what everyone does not understand is why Ma Zhanglan and her husband chose to end their lives in this way and leave their son alive.
From Feng's relatives, 48-year-old Ma Zhanglan and 52-year-old Feng Xianguang are both rural residents. They have simple ideas and simple actions. The couple have been doing various housework and farming to make ends meet.
In the eyes of others, even if life is difficult, the couple always put their son first. In order for their son to go to college, they will save money and save the tuition fee each semester as scheduled Hand it over to the son.
In fact, Ma Zhanglan and her husband Feng Xiangguo are a hard-working couple. They had three children together when they were young, but the first two children died unfortunately. Only Feng Xian lived to be 26 years old, so they gave all their love After Feng Xi'an, this is their only flesh and blood.
Ma Zhanglan’s personality has been relatively strong since she was young, and has always been relatively strong, but when she learned that her son had the disease, plus they lost two children the first two times, she felt that this son could never be lost again. He couldn't bear the pain of losing his son anymore, so he was depressed for a while and chose to commit suicide.
And her husband Feng Xiangguo saw that his beloved family were leaving or about to leave one by one,I couldn't bear this kind of pain anymore, so I decided to end my life with my wife.
- As the only child, Feng Xi'an wanted to send his parents to the final journey, but as soon as he walked into the funeral home, his emotions lost control again.
For Feng Xi'an, what a painful experience this is, how strong is the experience of accepting this fact, how should he face this life alone? On the way to send his parents off was Feng Xi’an’s last time to see his parents. In the days to come, he must bear all the pain alone and convince himself that life must continue. I hope that his wife’s company will gradually help this man step out of the shadows and continue to move forward. Will walk very slowly, almost can not afford to fall to the ground, but it is better than just giving up and complaining.
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