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Because I posted a circle of friends, my life is no longer peaceful.
The past two days have been a lot of good things. First Qian Hao added my name to his real estate certificate, and yesterday he got his marriage certificate. When I was happy, I posted two pictures in the circle of friends at the same time: the real estate certificate and the marriage certificate.
Colleagues and friends all envy me step by step in this big city, with a lover, a house, and a car.
I also happened to be dizzy and blessed by them, so happy.
As the saying goes: sun happiness and die fast!
The prospective mother-in-law saw the picture of my circle of friends and immediately called me to meet. The prospective mother-in-law has never liked me very much and rarely meets alone.
At a traditional dessert shop near the company, I just sat down, and the prospective mother-in-law asked, your name was added on the real estate certificate. Without my consent, I don’t allow it. Go and remove the name. I will give you 80,000. The bride price, we will do your wedding.
The prospective mother-in-law said a lot in one breath, I was a little bit uncomfortable, and replied: "The name Qian Hao wants to add, not what I want!"
"Okay, I see, Qian Hao is not yet I'll listen to you! Deal with the real estate certificate, and then talk about marriage!" The prospective mother-in-law said the last sentence very hard, and then stood up and left.
I look angry and wronged, why don't you ask me indiscriminately! Call Qian Hao immediately to let him understand the matter.
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Qian Hao and I were former colleagues in the company. He entered the company earlier than me and taught me a lot of things, which helped me quickly gain a foothold in the company from a rookie who knew nothing about it. , And then we became lovers.
When Qian Hao took me home for the first time, his aunt and uncle and other relatives ate together at a large table. After eating, I brought the dishes into the kitchen, and his mother directly ordered: "The dishwashing liquid is here, and there is a dishcloth in the sink, please wash the dishes!" Qian Hao was a little embarrassed to see that I was washing the dishes. So he came to help, his mother said that there were no more than three people in the kitchen, so he drove him out. While washing the dishes, his mother seemed to ask me intentionally or unintentionally if I would send my younger siblings pocket money for tuition.
After washing the dishes, his mother ordered that the restaurant was dirty just now. Let me drag it.
Obviously, her mother doesn't like me very much. She dislikes me from the province. Qian Hao is a graduate student and I am only a specialist. There is also a younger brother and a younger sister in my hometown who are in school, which is a heavy burden.
Today, the prospective mother-in-law left a message that she didn't like me nakedly. I thought about breaking up, but Qian Hao was sincerely kind to me. When my brother's rebellious grades fell sharply in the second year of junior high, he called my brother every week, chatted with him, and even helped my brother chew questions on the phone. With his help, my brother successfully passed the senior high school entrance examination and went to a key high school.
My mother suffers from low back pain all the year round, and can't get up when the winter is severe. Qian Hao asked a friend who is a doctor to help. With his continuous help, my mother can now dance the square dance.
And thanks to his help, I can stand in this city. At first, I couldn't do a single form, Qian Hao laughed at me and taught me hand in hand.
It is not easy to meet someone who is really good to oneself, and I want to cherish it.
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On that day, I had dinner with Qian Hao and his mother called. On the phone, Qian Hao was still forced to remove my name from the real estate certificate before he could notify his relatives and friends to hold the wedding.
It turned out that the down payment for the house was 60%, all of which was paid by the prospective mother-in-law. The mother-in-law thought that buying a house later is worse than buying it early, and the price of the house in the city center will naturally increase, so she prepared Qian Hao in advance.
I only know that Qian Hao pays the mortgage every month, but how much I pay, I have never asked about it. I am embarrassed to ask about the house during the relationship, so I don't want to be speculated.
"What the hell do you like her, are you fighting against your mother like this? Isn't she just fancy that you have a car and a house! If a woman, try it! If you cheat someone, you can still eat it!"
Qian Hao's mother yelled on the other side of the phone.
I also had no intention of eating, and felt that my situation was particularly embarrassing, but Qian Hao repeatedly reminded me that his mother has asthma, so don't irritate her, just endure it.
Qian Hao carefully comforted me and asked me to make trouble for his mother for two days, and she would pass by after two days of trouble. After all, Qian Hao added his name on the real estate certificate and got his marriage certificate.I haven't discussed two major events with his mother, and it's normal to have anger in my belly.
During this period, it was Qian Hao meeting his mother.
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About a month later, the prospective mother-in-law invited me to dinner and asked me to meet my parents and discuss marriage. I thought it was time to let them meet, so I let my parents come by car.
The next day my parents came, the prospective mother-in-law invited dinner. In the restaurant, after being polite, the mother-in-law said directly to my parents: "A bride price of 80,000 will be prepared, but the lady in the wedding room must pay half of the down payment of 600,000, otherwise I can't pay anything and live in directly. It's not justified."
When I heard it, I was stunned and directly replied: "You want money, why didn't you say it earlier! Why have to wait until now!"
My parents were embarrassed at the time, of course I couldn’t afford that much money. My parents don't have that much money.
I yelled at Qian Hao angrily: "What do you mean?"
Qian Hao didn't expect to put out the fire quickly. He said to me and my parents: "No, no, it's fine for Yueqing people to marry."
The prospective mother-in-law is unwilling: "Either give half of the down payment, or remove the name from the real estate certificate, and wait until they get married. Years later, it’s okay, and it’s not too late to add it back! Don’t put the elders in the eyes, and add the name without my consent. At a young age, it can be calculated!"
"Who calculated it? It’s not me Add it!" I couldn't help choking.
"Look, just a few words are noisy, and there is no elder in my eyes! Besides, I have seen a lot of young people who are divorced and divided the real estate after one or two years of marriage. "The prospective mother-in-law continued to stern and majestic angrily.
"Okay, I won't get married this time, let's do it! And we have got the marriage certificate, it is legal, so there is no need to listen to you here!" I was simply dizzy.
At this time, I suddenly understood that my mother-in-law did not invite my parents to talk about the wedding, but embarrassed me and gave me a complete showdown.
If you want money, you can say it early! Why must I embarrass my parents, hateful! I have a lot of grievances in my heart.
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After sending it back to my parents,I also don't want to deal with Qian Hao, the cold war.
However, I accidentally discovered that I would retching for a few days after getting up in the morning, dizzy and lose my appetite. At first I thought I was in a bad mood, but later I found out that I was pregnant.
To be honest, Qian Hao and I have obtained the certificate, so we don’t have to worry about what the prospective mother-in-law thinks, but the future is a family. How can we live under one roof like a thorn in my throat? Panic.
Qian Hao is a filial son, although he knows that his mother is doing something wrong, because he is worried about his mother's body, he is helpless.
A few days later, Qian Hao asked me to have a good chat. Maybe it's because a few days have passed, I have slowly stopped getting angry, and I'm pregnant again, so I have to be rational.
We talked a lot.
There is no way to separate, we did not have a wedding, and lived our little life quietly. Qian Hao took care of me who was pregnant, and was still very careful and warm. I never go to my mother-in-law's house, and Qian Hao doesn't mention it. He has to go to work and take care of my food, and he rarely goes back. There was a short holiday in the middle, and Qian Hao and I went back to my hometown. Although my parents were also angry at Qian Hao's mother's unreasonable demands, they didn't embarrass me when they saw Qian Hao treat me sincerely, just let me think about it.
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When I was eight months pregnant, one night, Qian Hao and I were having dinner in the living room. His father called and asked us to go to the hospital to see his mother. His mother is undergoing surgery because her lungs are getting worse.
On the hospital bed, Qian Hao's mother's face was yellow, and she was not in good spirits, and she was not as sharp as she had seen before. Seeing the prospective mother-in-law at that time and the current mother-in-law being ill, I suddenly no longer complained. Perhaps the grievances disappeared a long time ago during my little days with Qian Hao. Although there is still a hurdle between us, I have accepted this mother-in-law from my heart.
Later, I heard from Qian Hao’s father that because of our marriage and the house, the mother-in-law was very angry at first, mainly because we did not discuss with her. Later, after a dispute with me in the restaurant, Qian Hao did not go home for a long time. The mother-in-law was really sad for a long time, and she often didn't fall asleep at night. She had asthma. If she didn't rest well, her health worsened.
Later, under the persuasion of Aunt Qian Hao,She just wanted to open it, but because of face, she didn't want to take care of us first.
During my mother-in-law's hospitalization, Qian Hao and I went to the hospital to accompany her every day, giving her stew and food, and my mother-in-law recovered well after the operation. The aunt in the same ward, because of the same illness and about the same age, the two can chat, and often say to the mother-in-law: "Look at your son and daughter-in-law to visit you every day. Your daughter-in-law has a big belly. Blessed! Look at me, my son has only transferred money once and never showed up, but fortunately he has a daughter."
The day before the mother-in-law was discharged from the hospital, she suddenly asked Qian Hao and me: "You want to wait for the child to be a hundred days old. When should the wedding be held together? The two of you can discuss it well. As long as you have a good time, I will be happy with you. I used to be my mother who was not thinking about it!"
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Now I want to come, how can a mother-in-law not want a son-in-law and a beautiful woman! It is natural for her mother-in-law to worry about her son being deceived. After all, her mother-in-law had suffered a lot when she was young, and she had accumulated a lot of family business. Because it was hard-won, she cherished it very much. And Qian Hao's method of cutting first and playing later made her feel that she was not respected, so she naturally cast her anger on me. No, but due to human nature.
Fortunately, we can communicate well after calming down, instead of smashing up. In love, you should stick to your original intentions, because what comes together, if the initial warmth is still there, you might as well persevere more, push away the clouds, and smell the flowers.
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