The book I recommend to you today is also the book I recommend the most times like others. It is called "Self-disciplined Life is More Free", and the author is Xiaoycoco. This book is an inspirational type of chicken soup book, but it emphasizes self-discipline and changes from different dimensions such as spiritual thinking and material life to create a happy life belonging to the individual. Next, let us read the wonderful articles in the book together!
"A self-disciplined life is more free"
Any form of "low match" will lower the quality of your life
- Getting used to "low match" will only quickly lower your life The texture leads to your life path becoming more and more cramped, darker, and ultimately mediocre for a lifetime.
- The upward road is actually not crowded, but most people choose comfort. If a person always prevaricates himself with the attitude of being ready, he will only become more and more commonplace in the end. On the contrary, if a person is always diligent and strives for perfection, he will eventually rewrite his own destiny.
- Recently, there has been a saying in the circle of friends: "When you recite the word, the cod of Alaska is jumping out of the water; while you are doing the math, the seagull of the on the other side of the Pacific is fluttering over the city. ; When you go to study in the evening, the night sky on the polar circle is shining brightly. But, youth, don’t worry, when you work hard for your future, those scenery you thought you would never see, Those who you thought you would never meet in your life are coming to you step by step."
Enjoy the beauty of being alone
Such an effort
- Lazy people hug each other for warmth; excellent people promote each other.
- It is never too late to work hard! Step out of your comfort zone,Challenge your own potential so that you can no longer just go around mediocre. Many people have been looking for a shortcut to success all their lives, but they have forgotten that what kind of life they want, they must put in what kind of effort. Only those who are down-to-earth and never give up to improve themselves are worthy of a rich and fulfilling life. I suggest you give yourself a fight for your life!
Learn to learn for life
Don’t be an active planner, low-level executor
- People are together, you will not indulge arbitrarily. "Pengsheng Mazhong, do not support straight; Baisha is in Nirvana, and it will be black with it." Trying to get close to people with active self-discipline and strong execution ability, and constantly learning from them, is the luck of your life.
- With the salary of the general, they live an easy life, and they are called "reconciliation with oneself". In fact, such people have no courage to get rid of the status quo. Don't let the anxiety of doing nothing overwhelm you. From today onwards, be the helm of your life's voyage. You can live a more exciting life!
- When self-discipline becomes a habit and a way of life, a person's mind and personality will be more perfect. Just like " Wisdom Book" said: "Don't lose control and become a stupid thing."
Investing in yourself is a lifelong practice
- Some people say: "A person grows old." The sign is that he feels that life can be seen at a glance, and there will be no more changes, so he gave up studying and improving himself.” However, as a person, he makes himself more glamorous and confident every day than the day before. It is the most responsible performance for oneself.
- In fact, when you decide to change, the most difficult part is over. Investing in yourself is a lifelong practice. Don't let your money and time go to waste in your best years.
The best investment is yourself
Instead of pleasing others, it is better to please yourself
- to please others with low-level personality. They live with extreme fear and sensitivity, are very concerned about the feelings of others, and ignore their own needs. However, in interpersonal relationships, the lower you are in the dust, the less others will take you seriously; the more cautiously you are to please others, the more vulnerable the relationship will be.
- It is better to be lonely alone than to make do with two.
- "In this life, you have to grow up twice. One is when you find that life is not so good; the other is when you find that as long as your heart is strong and working hard, life will not be so bad."
In the loss of self
- , there is a word in psychology called " herd effect", which means that after staying in a group for a long time and getting used to the crowd, people will gradually lose their own judgment and become a collective Slave of the will. But as Maugham said: "Even if 50,000 people claim a stupid thing is right, this stupid thing will not become right because of it." You think you are in a group, but you are just being assimilated by the mediocrity.
- Le Pen’s psychology book "The Crowd" has a passage: "When a person enters a group, IQ will be severely reduced. In order to gain recognition, the individual is willing to abandon right and wrong, and exchange IQ for the share that makes people feel safer. A sense of belonging." How many people give up thinking for the sake of being in a group, not failing anyone in the group, but failing only the most important self.
- Yu Hua ’s " shouts in the drizzle " has this passage: "I no longer pretend to have many friends, but return to loneliness.I started my life alone with the real me. Sometimes I can't stand the torture of emptiness because of my loneliness, but I would rather maintain my self-esteem in this way than exchange shame for that kind of superficial friend. ”
Please find your true self, and don’t let the forced gregariousness consume your life.
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