- Author: Mu Mu
- A cup of tea, a story, and a taste of the world
01． The new one is good
A-Lian is carefully washing the rice cooker at home. This rice cooker has been used for about five or six years. When I first bought it, it was the most expensive in the supermarket and the latest style. Chao’s rice cooker used more than 500 yuan at the time, but it made A-Lian feel distressed for a long time.
My husband Ahui said: buys new ones, they are more expensive, but easy to use, you look trendy and full of functions, and they also have an appointment function!
A-Lian can still remember how proud A-Hui was at that time, because if A-Lian was asked to pick it herself, she would have picked an ordinary one at a price of about two to three hundred yuan, and it didn’t take three to five years. The problem is that the functions and styles are not so trendy.
02. When the new pot became the old pot
A Hui ate a bowl of rice and went to serve the rice again. The button of the rice cooker was not working well. He pressed it several times before turning it on.
A-Lian said: The rice cooker has been used for a long time, and it is not easy to use. When I was cooking just now, I pressed it several times before I pressed it.
Ahui said: If is not easy to use, throw it away and replace it with a new one. Now there are many new models coming out. The in our house will be eliminated.
When A-Lian was washing the dishes, she carefully washed the rice cooker she had used for several years. The buttons did not work well, the outer shell was also aging and peeling, and some dirt and grease were deposited in the corners. Not clean anymore. But A-Lian has been using it all the time, and didn't mean to change it. After all, after using it for many years, she is reluctant to throw it away, and it can still be used.
Ahui came in and saw A-Lian washing the rice cooker, and said impatiently: didn’t mean it’s not easy to use,Why do you wash it? Throw it away .
03. The old one is never as good as the new one
A-Lian's heart suddenly shook, and she stopped her work. I stared blankly at the old, faded, old-fashioned rice cooker in front of me.
As a woman, she is concerned that although it is not easy to use now, but after so many years, it seems to be emotional, but if it can still be used, she is not willing to throw it away.
But the attitude of my husband, Ahui, is completely different. Although it was the rice cooker that Ahui suggested to buy back, once it was found that it was not easy to use and the style was old, all kinds of dislikes, and even immediately thought of it. : threw it away and buy a new .
It seems to him that this item has lost the value of use, and there is no need to keep it.
is the so-called, old is never as good as new .
04. When the "bride" becomes the "old lady"
A-Lian thinks of the different attitudes of men and women towards rice cookers, and the same is true of marriage. She thinks of her cousin's misfortune marriage.
Cousin Axiang got married that year, because in the countryside, she was married at a relatively young age. Axiang was only 20 years old at the time and her brother-in-law was 22 years old.
The two young people are in free love. At that time, it was also because love was inseparable. They were going to get married in less than a year. So the two families saw that the two young people got along well, so they held a wedding. .
At that time, Axiang was 21 years old. In the eyes of many people, it was the best time for a girl. She was young and young. After marriage, Axiang quickly took on the work of the family.
After marrying, the housework in the family is all done by Axiang alone.Father-in-law and mother-in-law have to work in the fields, cooking at home, doing laundry, taking care of the chickens and ducks at home, and the vegetable garden in front of and behind the house.
In just one year, I honed myself into a housewife, and at the same time, gave birth to a lovely son.
05. The bride’s shelf life is very short
As for Axiang’s husband, after marriage, he left home to work. Because he had to support his family, he often returned for the first year or two. At home, leave some living expenses for the family. After three years, there will be less time to go home. I often don't answer calls and refuse to send videos.
Stupid Axiang is just like that, still holding in their home, takes care of their son and shares the farm work of her parents-in-law. I didn't care about dressing up, just thinking about how to live a good life at home.
But waiting for Axiang is not a good result. During the Chinese New Year, Axiang's husband came back. When Axiang greeted her with joy, she did not expect that her husband told her that he fell in love with others outside and wanted to divorce her.
06. Be yourself and live for yourself
Axiang did not think that what she had spent three years of youth and dedication was the betrayal of her husband, but for her, It is impossible to keep a person whose heart is gone.
Axiang agreed to divorce, but she also requested that she must take the child with her. Although her parents-in-law did not agree, her husband did not object.
What Aixiang didn't know was that the woman outside his husband had already been pregnant with his child, so she was anxious to enter.
Axiang took the child away,Because she knew that only the child would not be wronged if he followed her, but it would be hard to say if he stayed behind.
07. A man’s nature, see clearly, so you won’t be entangled
Axiang was 25 years old when she got divorced, with a three-year-old child, many people have just entered society At that time, Axiang was already the mother of a child.
After the divorce, she did not have time to grieve, because the survival problem that she will face next is her first consideration, not grief.
Because of the low level of education, she can only do basic work. She works as a waiter in a restaurant, chopping and garnishing vegetables in the back kitchen. After the child is sent to kindergarten during the day, she goes to work, and before picking up the child in the afternoon , She wants to do all the work in the kitchen well, and then take care of the children at night, repeating the cycle.
Three years later, Axiang made some money and set up a food stall by herself so that she can control her time and make money while taking care of her children.
08. Women stand on their own feet and men stand aside
Now Axiang, with his own craftsmanship, bought a house in the county town, and his son is also in junior high school.
When I saw Axiang again, apart from the traces of time, her face was confident and independent.
When I persuaded her to find another one, she smiled and said that she used to be afraid of others looking down on herself, but now she is looking down on others.
Yes, a woman who has really experienced wind and rain, walks through wind and rain alone, how can ordinary men get into her eyes.
09. Women who have seen the world only love themselves
Once,I have seen many women cry and hang themselves when they experienced the betrayal of their husbands. I really sympathize with them.
Because they regard marriage life, family life, children and husband as their own lives, they circle around them every day, until one day, when a man is about to divorce, their sky also collapses.
Seeing women like this now, I will laugh at them as stupid.
A good woman must first love herself before she has the ability to love others.
If one day your husband also tells you, I like someone else, divorce, don’t cry, end everything happily, let him go as far as he can go, the old lady who should be taken away is not rare , Don't take away any points that should be left, the old lady won't wait.
Welcome your new life happily, live beautifully, don't cry, don't let that man think you can't live without him.
I want to live better and more exciting than when I was with him!
Because no matter how new the style of the rice cooker is, in the end, everyone will find that firewood rice is delicious.
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