British writer Samuel said: "The success of marriage depends on two people, and one person can make it fail."
Love is romantic and sweet; marriage is sweet. Live, live in reality. No matter how good the tongue and teeth are, there are always some bumps.
A happy marriage is not a request, but a mutual contribution. Intimate feelings depend on the joint operation and maintenance and care of both parties.
The two parties in the marriage want to live a moist and warm life. It must be loyal from beginning to end. Don't miss the scenery outside the siege.
Either party quietly transfers the relationship, "We are in Cao Ying, but our heart is in Han". This family will lose its original sweetness and may gradually face cracking.
A few days before the National Day, my wife, who works outside all the year round, called: "You come back, let's go see your mother together. I haven't been there for several years."
She didn't return during the day. At night, she replied to WeChat: "Whatever you do, I work overtime and I don't have time to come back."
We have been in the cold war for more than a year. Marriage has long existed in name only. Arguments occur as soon as they meet. It's tiring to get along with each other. Feeling fate is over.
I don't want the elderly to worry, we have been keeping secrets about our affairs. Pretend to be affectionate.
This is a love story of a memory that a friend chatted with me.
Later, this friend told me on WeChat chat that if a woman treats you like this, 80% of them are signaling to break up.
The chat changed from "hot" to "cold", waiting to be ignored
During the chat,If your lover makes a big turn for you, turning from enthusiasm to indifference and ruthlessness, replying to WeChat is ironic and cynic, and 80% has changed his mind.
As the saying goes: “It’s easy to fall in love, but it’s hard to stay together for a lifetime”.
In today's society, the temptation outside is great. Desire is a bottomless pit. The most beautiful scenery in my heart is always at the next stop.
It is very easy to change your mind. For a while, the sea will be dry and the rocks will be broken, and for a while, you will have a good night with others. Wife is always the good of others, and the flowers are always the fragrance of wild flowers.
The two people need to be separated for a period of time due to work relations. When they meet again, some people say "a little better than a newlywed", and some people empathize with each other, and the chat changes from enthusiasm to indifference. Ignore it.
If the latter situation occurs, the signs of a breakup have been revealed. You have to be mentally prepared. Find a way to stop the loss in time and save her heart.
Silent and nonchalant, indifferent at meeting
For girls, they prefer boys with ideas and opinions, rather than boys who only agree with her opinions.
When a woman meets silently, she doesn't talk to you, sometimes chats a few words, and her attitude is cold, indicating that she has lost confidence in you and is beginning to get tired of you, and your position in his mind gradually disappears.
At this time, you don't want to break up with her. You tend to be obedient to her, work hard for her everywhere, and prove that you love her. Try to save a relationship as much as possible.
This approach will only make her hate you even more. Thinking that you are a person who has no opinion, is a person who agrees with the voice, not only did not restore the original feelings, but widened the rift in the feelings, and felt that you are not the person she entrusted for life. Therefore, methods should be emphasized. Otherwise it would be counterproductive.
Modern women pursue freedom and openness in marriage. In addition, women are financially independent and do not depend on anyone. If you have a good life, stay together, if you have a bad life, you will separate. Treat breakup and divorce as a common thing. Anyway, I live with everyone.
If the relationship develops to the point that the meeting is irresponsible, occasionally perfuse a few words, or ask the head to say "something" and want to leave. It can only show that your relationship has reached the edge of collapse, and women have changed their hearts. About to part ways.
Don't want to go to the same banquet, deliberately avoid it
Marriage is a matter for both parties, and they can come together by attracting each other's charm. Love and marriage will not last long if there is no feeling of heartbeat between the two parties.
There are more and more divorced people around. Some young people, less than three winters and summers, have begun to seek new relationships. And the beautiful name is "married ignorantly."
As long as there is a rift in the marriage, they lose their attraction to each other. Under the influence of the real life of firewood, rice, oil and salt, quarrels will occur and embark on the road of "divorce".
If a couple and a lover do not want to go to a banquet with you, and try to avoid you, it means that she and you are exhausted and give a signal to break up.
Friends, can't treat happiness as a child's play, take it seriously. Don't let your life be smeared.
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Friends, whether we are lovers or couples, if the above three situations occur, it has already hinted the signal to break up.
At this time, the only thing we have to do is to keep our heads calm, analyze the reasons carefully, and find ways to recover.
In the book "33 Lessons to Salvage a Marriage", there is a passage:
You don’t know exactly what to do at each step to attract him again and get him back to you. In fact, from the time you decide to redeem it until you recombine,Every step is crucial, and it is related to the final success or failure, and you have to understand these.
From this passage, we see that if we want to save a relationship, we must analyze the reason, find the right direction, prescribe the right medicine, and cure the disease.
Don't give up on yourself, threaten each other with death, or please each other everywhere, and be willing to do something for her. Win his mercy.
The best way is to let her see that you are different and still have a strong "attractiveness." Pull back her heart.
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