Whether the shoes fit or not, only the person who wears them will always know

I was shocked: Why do you want to be a princess who can't wear crystal shoes?

So, what about you?

01. Shoes that are not suitable will bleed

I don't understand why some people buy some band-aids at the same time when they buy new shoes. In my stereotype, band-aids are used to stop bleeding. How can "new shoes match the band-aids better"?

Later, I finally knew why.

It was one morning, because I was not feeling well, I needed to go to the hospital in town to check it. That would be a happy age, and I had to wear new shoes when I went out to see a doctor.

That is a pair of black sponge cake sandals that I like. The appearance is completely on the aesthetic point of my obsession. I can't bear to wear it on weekdays. It happened to be hit by an evil spirit that day, so I took it out and put it on.

The road to the hospital is actually not far. But my foot hurts very quickly, and the first reaction to the shoes that don’t fit my feet is also very quick. But because I like it, I comforted myself: "This is not an accurate conclusion."

After working in the hospital for a whole morning, I returned to the dormitory and felt relieved! Taking off the shoes, the pain also disappeared a lot. Look at the still tingling heel, a small piece of bloody, skinless skin has been polished out.

Now,I just learned that the new shoes will "cannibalize". Therefore, it is necessary to prepare some band-aids.

Shoes look good or look good, and I really like them. However, it doesn't fit, and it really doesn't fit.

Friend A said: "These shoes are really good-looking. It’s a shame not to wear them, otherwise you can put a band-aid on your feet and continue to wear them." Say: "Otherwise you put some beeswax on your shoes and try."

Friend C said: "It's really not good, you just wear thicker socks, it's better than 4span4span ."

It turns out that everyone wears shoes that don't fit to the feet, and the first thing to do is to try to protect the back heel to avoid being bruised.

However, the shoes don’t fit well, so why wear them?

02. People who don’t fit will collapse

br19 p1pThe philosophy of “it’s not appropriate for you to know” can actually cover all aspects of life, such as blind dates.

Blind date is not terrible, but the terrible thing is to go on blind date with the will of the family! Once one's own will is not firm enough, it's really a bad thing- on the surface is that the family has fulfilled their marriage, but in fact they fulfilled their "good" marriage.

No, my friend Ahua almost loses her will.

Ahua's age is indeed the "marriage age" that the public defaults to, but she herself is not anxious and anxious. It's her family. For A Hua's life-long event, the old father and mother really broke their heart.

Once, the old mother introduced A Hua to a "good boy" found in the relationship of nursery friends. ", I was excited to arrange for Ah Hua to meet with each other. Ah Hua was awkward, so she had to reluctantly agree.

The old mother said: " , that boy is pretty good. what,I have a room at home, work well, and people look good, so why don’t you? "A Hua is bitterly unable to tell, but only replied: "It is not suitable, I will figure it out by myself. "

The old mother was anxious, and angrily accused:" people are so good, why don't you! I think he is very good! "A Hua continued to remain silent and resisted the most hurtful words.

Afterwards, she asked her, and she said: "That talent is not a good man, you have ever seen Lian Chi Is the man who hits the report home without a word from him? Don't tell me anything, just talk to the elders in the family. Please, I'm the one you are talking about!

"Then why don't you tell your mother clearly?" "I asked.

" There is nothing to say. Only you know where the shoes are. "Ahua has recovered his calmness again.

This reminds me of another sentence: is the right shoe, only the foot knows; the right person, only the heartspan knows.

03. If your shoes don’t fit your feet, take it off

.Some people don't seem so sober.

Previously about Crazy English Li Yang The news about the violent wife and daughter has attracted a lot of attention. I don’t know how you feel about it.

I am a little puzzled: Li Yang's wife had disclosed the experience of domestic violence before this, but later chose to forgive. After forgiving, domestic violence broke out again, and I felt scared thinking about it.

But because we didn’t put the “shoes” on our feet, we couldn’t simply talk about the incident and the parties. Really want to talk, I think friends may have more say.

Silver is also a person who has experienced domestic violence. Her husband is very drunk, and when he is drunk, he will spread his anger towards life on his silver. Reluctantly, the people around Yinzi are very traditional. Knowing this situation, they will only persuade Yinzi to " will pass ".

It seems that they don't know that there are only 0 and countless times of domestic violence, and it seems that they all know it, just because it didn't happen to them, so it was easy to say.

Silver seemed to be brainwashed at the time,So when her family asked her about the bruise on the corner of her eye, she could only dodge and replied: "I accidentally bumped into it." , Said to Yinzi: " On the way of life, shoes must fit and people must be in good time. "

Yinzi is silent.

Later, after a swollen mouth corner, Yin Zi decided to divorce. She said: " , you are right, the shoes must fit your feet, because the days are still long and there is still a long way to go.

, we cheer as friends, "Our money is back!"

At this point, I really want to say to those who always like to persuade others to "bear it and pass" in domestic violence incidents: is not necessarily tolerant It's over, maybe forbearance and death.

Oh, you can take off shoes that don’t fit your feet. It’s really uncomfortable. Go

Finally,Let me tell you a thought-provoking story: In the animal kingdom, the mother bear family is the envy of all animals, because they have a strong body and are very majestic. Parents in every family yearn for their children to be friends with Cubs, and Mama Monkey’s is no exception.

The monkey mother always teaches the little monkey to approach the little bear more actively, get to know him, and make friends with him. But the little monkey has always been less interested in this, and even later became very repulsive.

The monkey mother was very angry at the little monkey's behavior, and one day she couldn't help but curse a few words. The little monkey walked back to his room very lost. The monkey father felt that something was wrong and knocked on the little monkey's door, trying to talk to the little monkey.

" son, can you tell me why everyone wants to make friends with the bear, but you don't? asked the monkey father.

" Dad, why do everyone want to make friends with the little bear? " the little monkey asked back.

Monkey dad was stunned for a moment and didn't know how to answer. The little monkey said again: "It's so bad.

"Why is it broken?" Asked the monkey father.

"I saw the little bear bullying the ponies and lambs, and even threatened to eat them." "The little monkey has a melancholy face.

At this point, the monkey father finally knows why his child rejects approaching the bear, because he has seen the truth that no one has seen.

After the monkey father told the monkey mother about this, the little monkey never heard the monkey mother’s nagging and accusations. , And you don't want to? "

" Why do everyone want to make friends with bears? ”

Why do you want to listen to other people’s shoes if you lose them?Only the person who wears it will always know.

There are too many voices in this world, the reality is in the past, people are talking, in the past. You can listen, but you can't be overwhelmed. You should let the world hear your voice, and let yourself hear your inner voice.

Take off your shoes if you don’t fit your feet, throw away the bad wine, throw away spoiled food if you can’t eat it, return your clothes if they don’t fit, sell if you don’t use a cardboard box, and you’re boring to socialize Throw it away, break it if your lover is not suitable, and clear away the filth if you are unhappy...

All the feelings of being alive in this world, only you know.

Zhang Ailing said: " to experience, and then regret it, do what you want to do, choose what you love, not what you think is right in your life Live for yourself. ”

So, even if you look good and like it again, will you continue to wear it even if you like it again?

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