When you see this topic, some people will certainly sneer, of course, to live for themselves, and for whom else; but some people will definitely say that being busy for a lifetime is not just for the children? how about you? For whom do you live?
In ancient times, a woman could be married to someone at the age of thirteen or four. Before getting married, she didn’t even know what the marriage partner looked like. It was a true blind marriage. After marriage, there were restrictions on the three virtues, female ring, etc., and the status of women was low. Everything seems to have been arranged since they were born. They live to be filial to their parents-in-law and to take care of their husbands, so that they can have an heir. The child is their hope and everything.
But with the development of the times, the status of women has improved, and now women can also hold up half of the sky. Under such an environment, women's concepts have changed. They have their own income and can basically be real Economic independence, but a new problem has emerged. Older leftover women. Yes, According to reliable statistics, the number of leftover women in Beijing has exceeded 800,000. In big cities, there are more and more old leftover women. Why?
Some people say that it is because of the influence of the poisonous chicken soup and Korean dramas on the Internet. Watching a Korean drama changes a husband. This is what my roommate told me at the time. The hero of the Korean drama is undoubtedly a perfect romantic. One action can hit the heart directly, and instantly stun, remember the popular " you from the stars" Professor Du Minjun is simply the dream lover of all girls. Later, "Descendants of the Sun" appeared. Every time I see the emotional place, there are tears and tears, and when I see the sweet doting hostess, I can't wait to get into the phone to replace the hostess.
TV series are beautiful. He holds the girls' psychology very tightly, but this is the situation that makes many girls question their objects, why can't you do it, etc., when you bring this emotion After that, and there is no ideal type in reality, blind dates again and again,The disappointment again and again makes them physically and mentally exhausted. They would rather be alone. They will think that men are troublesome and cumbersome. It is better to be at ease alone. They may be happy for themselves, and the most important thing is that they are happy.
There is also a kind of women whose education level is limited. Just like my mother, they have hardly gone to school. Every day is for tea, rice, oil and salt. Although my mother is not well-educated, even sometimes There will be some unreasonable troubles, and some minor problems. It is a typical rural woman, but she can save money for her children and leave the best for us. Wear a piece of clothing for several years without throwing it away, even if there is a hole. I still say that I can still wear it. Even if I buy her new clothes, I still put it away. When the baby is hidden, the mother lives for us, and everything we do is for us to live better.
What a woman lives for depends on the environment in which she grows, her level of education, and her life experience, but no matter what, a woman must strive to live out herself and live out her own wonderful life.
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