Xie Jiajia's Three Musketeers
The three Musketeers
1 started in the same year of 2012. After getting along, we became friends. Until the graduation season in June 2013, I accidentally saw the graduation message you wrote to me and unknowingly became the "men" in your eyes. Then you stepped into the camp in September, and I also started a colorful college life.
01
2013 - September December 2015
because life there is no intersection between the past two years our only friend Between the festive blessings, occasionally chatting about each other's current situation. I still remember a call in December 2015. Just after I got connected and heard his hoarse voice, I realized that this guy must have just cried.
In order to take care of the big man's face, I didn't ask too much about the reasons, but listened to him quietly. It turns out that the friendship between comrades really makes people burst into tears for a moment. After the call, I realized that this boy was really interesting, he really regarded me as a "man", and he didn't shy away from crying.
02
2016 - present
experienced a freak,Our connection seemed to have become more overnight, and then we often chatted one after another. Until one day he shared with me a photo of the setting sun in the camp. I looked in a trance, as if I could imagine him running and training in the sunset. It really confirmed the sentence that dawn looks at the sky at dusk and looks at the clouds. Sit and think about you. Unknowingly, our friendship seemed to have warmed up, but each did not say anything, and the military love long-distance race started naturally.
In December 2017, in Shenyang, which is 20 degrees below zero, we met for the first time four years later. We looked at each other and laughed for a long time, then he gave me a solid hug and put it in my ear. : Let's be cold! Let you not come, just wait for me at home obediently! I want to say that although it is cold, my heart is warm.
03
day after day
waiting day after day, The summer of 2018 finally came, and he fulfilled his promise to accompany me on vacation. The mountain city of Chongqing is our first destination. In Jiefangbei, Zhazidong ... I talk about the red history while strolling. I listened carefully, and it was much more interesting than shopping. The vacation time is always short. Before leaving, he said: I will be discharged from the army in September, and it will be the last four months. We will not cry.
September arrived as scheduled, but he broke his promise.
He transferred the second phase. Upon hearing the news, I was disappointed and hesitated whether to wait or not.I also suspected that he didn't consider me in my future life. In the end, all these doubts were dispelled during the video with him. It turned out that he had been training on the mountain and finally had the Internet.
Seeing his gray-headed face made me feel soft again. After listening to his shared " beautiful in white ", I looked at each other's eyes red, and I persuaded myself to wait another three years.
04
The first time to celebrate the new year together 5 During the Chinese New Year, we saw each other’s family be engaged and put it on the agenda. Probably the satisfaction and blessings of both parents are the best affirmation of our love.
We went to Xi'an, the ancient capital of the thirteen dynasties, just before the end of our vacation. He said when we parted at the airport: "Look, I will take my wedding leave next year and maternity leave the following year. I will stay with you. This is actually not three years fast." After listening to the sadness of parting, it disappeared. This time I smiled and sent him away.
Things are far from going as smoothly as expected. As soon as he returned to the unit, he received an order to go up the mountain as an advance squad. I also received a notice to support education in southern Xinjiang. This time we finally saw The sky in the same area.
The first night after going up the mountain, I received a message from him. When I opened the dialog box "I can't make it anymore", the words were really dazzling, and my eyes were blurred by tears. I shook my hands back to him to hold on, otherwise I I will not forgive you if I die. I didn't receive the video or the information for the next two days, which made me panic and even planned for the worst. The video finally got through on the third day,He had a smile on his face, but I could see that he was doing his best. He also said that he was walking as a soldier in Ali . He lacked oxygen and did not lack energy. If he didn't answer the phone, he was afraid that his uncomfortable appearance would scare me.
The stay on the mountain lasts for 17 months. I thought that the vacation and marriage would be put on hold, but the good luck came at the end of September 2020. It is possible to take a vacation and the vacation time is not short. It is truly joyful, we I got my marriage certificate on October 10th as I wish.
The military love long-distance race is over, and the military marriage life officially begins.
Sometimes I will ask him with a smile, is it all arranged by him, step by step, I am locked up, without giving me any chance to regret, he said: Graduation message Now that you have written it, you have to realize it, and you will be responsible for it to the end.
The only regret is that the agreed wedding march was not played at the ceremony. He saw my unhappiness and told me that it’s okay to wait for the child to grow up. Let’s hold another one, let him feel the love of his parents.
05
love crystal
time came June 17, 2021, I was on time with prenatal final After a major checkup, the result was always unexpected. I was kept by the hospital. So I contacted my family immediately. The child might be born early. Calls to him are always unanswered,Anxiously, several comrades-in-arms finally found him on the training ground. When I heard his voice, I suddenly choked up. He said: Don't cry, don't be afraid, I will go home immediately.
At three o'clock in the morning of the next day, I felt that there was an extra person in the hospital bed. It was the boy's father who came back, and the hanging heart finally let go. Until Father's Day on June 20, I gave him a big gift. At 16:21 in the afternoon, his leather jacket fell to the ground, and his daughter's dream was broken. The arrival of our son added a lot of joy to our peaceful little days.
By the end of the maternity leave in mid-July, facing the little guy who is waiting to be fed, I feel an unprecedented rush. Maybe it is to appease me. He said: I will go home completely in September, and I will pack you and the baby.
But this time this guy broke his promise again, and I had to be considerate of him when I was angry. It is his responsibility to support the family. At the same time, he also loves the army. In order not to make him regret, I choose Support him for another four years. Life is always mixed. We will be happy because of our son’s practice today. We will also worry about not being able to give his son full paternity because of not being able to meet. But it doesn’t matter. We just need to rest assured and boldly love the present life.
A few simple photos carry the ten years of acquaintance with Brother Bing. We are at the same table, friends, lovers, lovers, parents, what has changed is our identity, and what has changed is us. The first wedding anniversary is coming soon, and I hope our family of three will get better and better.
waiting for the next ten years.
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