If we female compatriots want to protect ourselves, our love and family, we must pay attention to the following points.
During a relationship, don’t just pay attention to the man’s appearance. Material
Now is the materialistic era. Some girls often only pay attention to the man’s appearance and material when choosing a spouse. Appearance and material are important, but inner quality is also an important part that cannot be ignored. If you only look at the appearance and material and ignore their inner qualities, you may be harmed later in life.
Don't listen to the absurdity of sitting in a BMW car and crying instead of sitting on a bicycle laughing. Would you really be happy then?
You may become a vent tool for men, a fertility machine, a doll, a slave girl, you may have a lot of scenery outside, and you are a worthless parasite at home.
Don't be too strong in front of a man after marriage
I don't know one day, you suddenly become a married woman, a young woman from an innocent girl.
After marriage, as a woman, if you want to maintain your love and maintain a healthy and harmonious family, you must be careful not to be too strong. You can be a strong woman outside, and you can choose to be a gentle and considerate wife at home.
If a woman is too strong in her family and in front of her husband, then your love and family harmony will be greatly threatened. Your family will feel a lot of pressure to get along with you. Don't look at some men who behave meekly and submissively in front of you. In fact, they are very resistant and depressed in their hearts. After a long time, or their ability to withstand pressure reaches the limit, they will burst out the anger that accumulates every day. That would be too dangerous. When they are angry, they will do anything about Lu Yu, any disagreement, or cheating will happen, leading to the breakdown of the relationship between the husband and the wife, and the hard-working family will be scattered and broken, and the children Will also be implicated.
To grasp a man’s heart, you must first grasp a man’s soul
Someone once said that if you want to grasp a man’s heart, you must first grasp a man’s stomach. This The sentence is wrong, not every woman is a chef, and not every family has all the ingredients. Even if there are both, it's not grabbing a man's heart, it's petting and getting used to it.
To grasp a man's heart, you must first grasp the man's soul. How to catch a man's soul is actually very simple, just one word, coax.
Coaxing is the best way. Of course, coaxing is not a material exchange. That is called petting. Coaxing is actually using your language. For example, is it the food you cook is delicious, or the thoughtfulness of your work, etc. What men want is not material rewards, what they want is your praise and affirmation. Don't pour cold water on them, sneer, laugh, ridicule them, and even if they do something wrong, they must calmly point it out.
must have the ability of independent economy, not the idea of independent economy
Our female compatriots are also half the sky, and indeed should have the ability of independent economy, but there should be no independent economy. Both spouses are equal, mutual, not independent. No matter what you want to merge into one, don't divide yours and mine, it's actually a family. When our female compatriots have the ability to be independent financially, it will provide an extra guarantee for this family. A person’s life is not all smooth sailing, and it is inevitable that there will be some pitfalls, and there will be some troubles and frustrations when being a lover. Our female compatriots must stand up their spine and do their best to support their lover, children, and this family.
There is no absolute belief among people, only choose to believe
There is suspicion among people,Couples are no exception. If two people truly love each other, don't talk about their privacy. Everyone has the right to doubt others, and should be allowed to be doubted by others. The right to privacy should be thrown away between husband and wife, and they should face each other. If your behavior or the content of the information on your phone makes your lover suspicious, don't be agitated or noisy. Explain the course of the matter clearly so that your lover can fully understand your state at that time. Tell your lover your mobile phone password so that your lover can be sincere to you. Never say that your privacy is infringed just because your lover looks at your mobile phone or computer. As long as it doesn't involve trade secrets or use your device to do anything illegal or illegal, you should let your lover watch it casually. In this way, he shows his own ostentation and his bosom.
Concluding remark: When dealing with love, the family must be open and selfish. Show the best to the one you love the most
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