When buying a house, the father-in-law does not pay, and the daughter-in-law does not say anything. After the daughter-in-law’s house was renovated and moved in, the father-in-law wanted to take care of the elderly, but he was scolded by the daughter-in-law with a bloody spray, causing a loss of face. What happened?
Ms. Wang
I am 33 years old. My husband and I have been married for 7 years. In these 7 years, our feelings are okay. When we are together, my parents hate it because my parents don't like my husband's poor family. After marrying, they didn't have a house or a car, so they couldn't live a good life. But I don't care about these. I think two people fall in love is more important than money, so I didn't care about money at all.
My family is in very good condition. My parents want me to find a suitable one, but I don't want to. Later, my parents couldn't help it. agreed.
When I first met my husband’s parents, the father-in-law was very satisfied with the daughter-in-law because there was no money at home. At that time, my father-in-law told me that there was no bride price when we got married because his family was too poor to give it. I also know that my father-in-law only wants to covet our family's things, but I never cared.
My mother-in-law passed away early, so my husband was brought up by father-in-law. My husband is very grateful to his dad, and every month he earns money will be sent to his dad. I did not say anything. After all, it is normal to honor your parents.
Later when we got married, the father-in-law did not give a dime gift, and I had no complaints. But then we learned that after we got married, we heard that the father-in-law had 200,000 yuan, and that the money had to be reserved for the husband and brother to get married later. I was furious at the time. I don't care about money. I just care that my father-in-law can't do this, it's too partial. Obviously, they are all his own sons. Why does he only favor his younger brother and consider everything for his younger brother?
After marriage, because my husband has no money to buy a house, I plan to pay a small amount of money for the down payment first. I hope my father-in-law can help me. In the end, not only did my father-in-law not give it, he also said that he had no responsibilities or obligations. To be honest, I was very angry at the time, but I didn't say anything because the whole family that I didn't want to engage in was not harmonious. If it doesn’t work, I ask my parents to pay, but I also swear in my heart,I will never support my father-in-law again, because
When my parents saw that I had such a father-in-law, they were very distressed and felt that I was married to the wrong family, but I felt that I just had a bad father-in-law.
Later, my parents gave me 900,000 yuan in order to have no pressure in the future, and asked me to buy a house with full money. After I bought it, I started to renovate. Soon, our house was also renovated. After the house was renovated, I had no money in my hands and couldn't afford furniture. In addition, I don't want to ask my family for help because I have taken too many things from my family. I'm very sorry.
Then I went to my father-in-law, hoping that he would give me 60,000 yuan to buy furniture. In the end, the father-in-law said, "It’s none of my business. Have you worked for so many years without saving money? You have to come to me to ask for it. It’s really unlucky to have a daughter-in-law like you. I thought you were rich before letting the two of you stay there. Together. No money from your parents. Don’t ask me. I don’t have any."
Father-in-law's words make me very angry. At that time, my husband did not speak, nor did he help me or his dad. Seeing her husband's behavior, I became even more angry. I think my husband is useless. His wife was bullied and chose to remain silent. This really disappoints me, but when I think that I love him so much, I don't bother to care about these things.
Later, I had to ask my parents for money to buy furniture. Soon, we both moved in. I thought the two of us could live this life forever. Unexpectedly, just two months later, my father-in-law came to my house with everything and said that he would come here to provide for the elderly. In addition, he also brought his brother with him. Both of them are what I hate the most. When I saw them at home, I immediately became angry.
The most annoying thing is that after the father-in-law came, he immediately went to my room to sleep and said that he would live in my room and let me live in the study. For the sake of family harmony, I chose patience and gave him the master bedroom. After he came, he was very long-winded every day. Scolding me all day, sometimes I suspect that he was a female in his previous life. Otherwise, how could he be so nosy. Live with him,
I am annoying. Later when my parents came to see me, my father-in-law actually ordered my parents to cook. My parents were very angry at the time, but they didn't care.
After the parents lived for a week,The father-in-law said directly to his parents: "You are really shameless. If you don't come back to your own house, you are really a thick-skinned. Leave my son's house quickly. You are not qualified to live here. This is my son's house, and I am also If you want to live longer, you can pay me a rent of 10,000 yuan a month, otherwise I will not let you live.
At that time, the father-in-law was very arrogant and self-righteous, completely forgot who bought the house. Then My parents couldn't help it anymore and responded directly to him: "My father-in-law, we paid for this apartment. When did it become your house? Don't be shameless. Don't pull us in. You took over my daughter's house uninvited. You also live in my daughter's master bedroom. Are you afraid of others laughing when you say it? You are the most brazen person I have ever met. You still want me to pay the rent. I won't let you pay. So when do you plan to live? Now do you want to go out by yourself or do I kick you out? If you don't leave, then I can only ask your son to divorce and take nothing away, and then ask the security to drive you all out and let you go back to your hometown.
At that time, my father-in-law was speechless by my mother's words, and instantly lost face, because my father-in-law also realized that my parents bought the house. Originally, I wanted to throw my father-in-law out. The result was lost by father-in-law and younger brother. He immediately ran away from my home, and since then, he has never been to my home again, because he was afraid of being humiliated and that my parents would let his son go out clean, so he had to live in his hometown in peace.
Concluding remarks
It is said that only mother-in-law is not easy to get along with. In fact, sometimes father-in-law and daughter-in-law are also difficult to get along with, because some father-in-laws are particularly harsh. When encountering such father-in-law, you must refute and don't let him succeed. Otherwise, you will suffer a big loss. Only to refute When he is, he will be afraid, not arrogant, and life will be peaceful.
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