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Days do not cross people, people need to cross themselves.
No matter how many people love you, they cannot make you better. Only by transforming love into the power to move forward and letting oneself have the ability to cross others and oneself can truly become better.
As the saying goes: "Success and failure are also failures." The person who gives you money is the person who loves you and is also the person who harms you; the person who does not give you the money is the person who harms you and loves you.
The person who really flies to you is not always being nice to you, but treating you in the following ways.
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is forcing you to desperate.
"The road to heaven is endless", you have to believe it.
Even if you get to the edge of the cliff, you still have a way to go. Either there is a path full of thorns around, or "restricting the horse from the cliff" is also the way.
The water flows on the cliff and becomes a waterfall; when people reach the cliff, it is a "high mountain and man-made peak".
How can there be no way in the world?
Every mountain opens a road, meets water to build a bridge, this is the road.
" Shiji·Xiang Yu Benji" wrote: " Xiang Yu learned that soldiers crossed the river, all shipwrecked, destroyed the cauldron, burned the cottage, and held three days of food to show that the soldiers must die, and none of them will be returned. Heart."
Xiang Yu broke into the cauldron and sank the boat and broke his own way.
The morale of the Chu army was greatly boosted,After nine fierce battles, he defeated the Qin army and solved the siege of the giant deer.
It takes a lot of courage to break the road. You will most likely hesitate. If someone helps you, it's different.
A friend of mine has been opening a restaurant. In recent years, several similar restaurants have sprung up next to his shop.
In order to survive, friends continue to improve the restaurant’s recipes and improve the quality of the restaurant.
My friend said: "I wanted to reinstall the store a few years ago, but I have not made up my mind. This time, in order to grab business with others, I have to do the same."
It seems that someone is competing and stealing yours. A job is not a bad thing, but a sign that forces you to succeed.
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help you secretly.
I have read an elementary school student’s composition.
In March, the school arranged for students to find good people. The classmates went to the street and searched for a long time, but they didn't find a good person.
The teacher took the students to the railway station square, and gently pointed with his hand: "Look at everyone."
Following the teacher's hand, the students found: a middle-aged man stepped on a car with his foot The stroller prevents the stroller from sliding backwards.
Under the suggestion of the teacher, the students discovered good people one after another.
Some are helping people with luggage; some are standing behind the elderly to prevent them from falling; some are helping people to collect tickets...
"True concern is very quiet", all fanfare The help is all catwalks.
There are still many people in the world, but we lack the eyes of discovery and the heart of understanding.
the road of life,You are not destined to be alone. Many people don't help you all the time, but occasionally they will have a hand to help you.
For example, on a strange street, you see a smiling face, which makes you feel warm; when you are unemployed, you see someone sending out a recruitment notice; when it rains, you hide in a strange shop Under the eaves...
People who help you secretly moisturize things silently. You need to keep in mind for your whole life, and give back to the society the kindness of others to you.
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ignores you.
has such a question: "Why the older the parents are, the less affectionate they are."
Actually, it's not that your parents don't love you anymore, but that your parents can't protect themselves. If you want to help you, they can't do anything.
Parents will one day go first. Parents are old and sick, how can you have the energy to take care of you?
When you grow up, your parents watch you go far away. On the separate days, your parents care about you every day, worrying that you will not mix well outside, and you will not be used to eating.
However, parents treat you well, less and less. Until one day, you were in tears when you received a notice from your parents that they were critically ill.
There is a cycle of life. After all, your parents are sensible people, and they have cultivated your independent ability early, and hope you will get married and start a business.
If your parents spoil you, they actually hurt you. You rely on your parents for anything, and you never use your own brains; a little setback can make you break down and become helpless.
To be a human, one should live like weeds. The more indifferent your parents are to you, the more they love you, don’t understand.
In addition to your parents, there are many people around you who are "indifferent" to you.
For example, if you go to a foreign country to find a job, you have no money, and you want someone to treat you to a meal. Everyone looks at you with strange eyes, but they don’t help you; when you are alone with your luggage,You are so tired that you can't straighten your waist, but no one can help you pull things. Everyone hurried on the road.
Actually, even if you are injured and become poor, you will not necessarily get sympathy from others.
Especially those friends who eat and drink, avoid it when you are down.
The indifference of human feelings will make you truly see the society and know how to make friends and get to know people. In this way, you can really adapt to society, learn to be alone and rely on yourself.
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Give you cold water.
Jack Ma said: "Always keep others' criticisms of you in mind, and forget others' praises."
Those unpleasant words are actually to help you. On the surface it is indifferent, but in fact it is sincere. Sincere criticism can make you go the right way and let you see yourself clearly.
There are also some people who deliberately slander you, beat you, and even irritate you with words.
Nothing, you have to learn to "know good and bad" and discover positive things from other people's words. You have to work harder and let those who hit you have nothing to say.
Psychologist Carnegie said: "If you are criticized, it is because criticism can give him a sense of satisfaction. This also shows that you are accomplished and attract attention."
The malice of others towards you is actually jealous of you and envy you.
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A general said: "The sky and the earth are wide in the belly, and there are often ferries."
You have accepted the imperfections of this world, tolerated all people, and thanked all the help.In your life, there will be many people who cross you.
Crossing people and oneself is crossing the heart.
Author: Commoner Coarse Food.
The picture in the article comes from the Internet.
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