I am Brother Hui, and I meet you in the emotional world every day. I have a story, do you have wine?
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There is a good saying: "If you don't accompany the sunset, you can only see who you are when you rise again." strong p0 Human heart; only when a person falls down once, can he understand who is really helping you and who is blindly stepping on you.
The same is true for friends, and the same is true for lovers.
People have an inferiority, that is, they tend to be too poor and love the rich. No matter how bad he treats the rich, some people applaud; no matter how well he treats the poor, some people accuse him.
In fact, this kind of inferiority stems from inner inferiority and hope to cling to the powerful, so as to realize the idea of getting something for nothing.
But this society is like this, there is no permanent wealth, nor infinite poverty, just like flowers blooming, cloudy and sunny, they will be constantly changing and changing.
The author recently interviewed Mr. Tang, 48,The following is to organize and bring his story for everyone.
Self-reporter: Mr. Tang, 48 years old, an employee of a public institution
1. My life has been hbr
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1, and my life has been more difficult since ancient times. Years old, working in the Transportation Bureau.
My hometown is on the outskirts of the city. My parents do not have a prominent position, and my family’s financial conditions are average. When my parents gave me this name, they hoped that I would be rich and safe in the future.
My academic performance is not good. I graduated from high school and went to a traffic school. After graduating, I entered my current unit. Since I am not a civil servant establishment , I can't get ahead in my work unit. I have moved around in several departments, but I haven't got a job.
When I was 25 years old, I was introduced to the 22-year-old Juanzi. Juanzi comes from the countryside, with a delicate appearance and avant-garde thinking. He is the village flower in the village.
Juanzi and I fell in love for half a year and got married. Although I didn't know her for a long time and didn't have deep feelings, I liked her fresh and refined temperament. She liked my stable job, and each got what she needed.
Juanzi gave birth to a son for me after marriage. After the birth of her son, the family began to struggle financially. For this reason Juanzi often blamed me, saying that I was useless and could not give her a happy life.
When my son was one year old, Juanzi and I had a showdown and said that she had found a rich man, who treated him well and said that he would divorce and be with her.So I begged me to agree to divorce her.
Since she was so frank and determined to be determined, I agreed to let it go.
She left happily with her free body, leaving me with a failed marriage and a young son.
2. Only by being strong can we get through
Juanzi’s departure taught me a lesson: the more beautiful a woman, the more restless in my heart. The failure of my marriage is not in Juanzi, but because I don't have a tough palm, but I want to pick the thorny rose .
I took my son to live a difficult life. Fortunately, my parents reached out in time to help me take care of my son so that I would not be in a hurry.
As time goes by, the son grows up slowly, and the parents begin to grow old and physical, taking care of the grandson has become unable to do so. Some well-meaning people told me that there was still a need for a hostess at home, and wanted to introduce me. I smiled and thanked and refused, because I knew that in a situation like mine, there is no woman willing to live with me sincerely. In that case, why harm others and yourself?
My son has been affected by the hardships of his father since he was young. He achieved top scores in the college entrance examination and was admitted to the top five universities in the country, which made me very gratified.
God closed my door, but opened a window for my son.
Fortunately, my son and I have never given up.
3. Life,I won't follow your script
After my son went to college, my days began to become more leisurely. In addition to going to work every day, I also have more personal time to exercise, socialize, and relax.
I joined a trekking group, and I hiked with a group of middle-aged trekking enthusiasts every night and weekend. We climb mountains, jog together, play loud music, have fun in exercise, and have fun in sweat.
In addition, our group of apprentices often gather for dinner and parties. Slowly, a woman named Huang Ying in the group broke into my life.
Huang Ying is 7 years younger than me. Due to long-term exercise, she maintains a good figure. In addition, he looks good, his skin is fair, and his temperament is also very good, so that every man can't help but watch.
After understanding, she is also divorced and single, and the reason for the divorce is unknown. Because we are single, we often make jokes with each other. Other apprentices followed suit and encouraged us to be together.
If it were placed in the past, I would not consider meeting women again. But now that my son has gone to college, he should have no worries about work in the future, and I don't have too many worries. In addition, I have been single for a long time, now I have time, and I want to find someone to spend the rest of my life with.
The love of middle-aged people is sometimes a layer of window paper, and it is easy to pierce it. We were both interested in each other, and with the help of our apprentices, Huang Ying and I soon got together.
4. It is a fox, always showing its tail
When Huang Ying first came to my house,I was surprised by the oldness of my apartment building, and said that I could not imagine that my housing was so simple and simple after working in a public institution for so many years. I explained to him that when my ex-wife left, my son and I were dependent on each other, and there was no spare money to buy a house.
Huang Ying used to go out alone, renting a house outside, and moved to my home after being with me. In order to meet the daily expenses of the family, she asked me to give her 4000 yuan a month as a household, but I reluctantly agreed.
Time flies quickly, Huang Ying and I have been together for two years in a blink of an eye.
one night she said to me: "We have been dating for two years, we can't stay with you in this way for a lifetime, right?"
I feel a little guilty and told her "That's right, I blamed me for ignoring this matter. It takes only two days for us to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get a marriage certificate, so that we can be together in a fair manner."
She thought about it and said, " Marriage is fine, but in order to guarantee the future, I hope you will give me a gift of 100,000, buy another house and write down the names of the two of us, so that we can live with you steadily."
I watched in surprise She said to her: "You also know my financial conditions. I do have a little deposit, but it is not enough to meet the conditions you said. And in the past two years, in addition to living expenses, you have all spent on clothes and cosmetics. I think this is a good life."
Hearing this, she thought for a long time.
5. Seeking reunification, is it true repentance or a trick
A few minutes later, Huang Ying opened the golden mouth.He said something that shocked me.
She said: "I thought you had worked in the Transportation Bureau for so many years, you should have saved a lot of money, you can give me a good life. Unexpectedly, you are just a dick, and I wasted two years of youth in vain. . I tell you that there are many people who want to pursue me outside. If you don’t agree to my terms, then I have to find someone else.”
I heard her say this, and said angrily: “Since my little boy The temple cannot accommodate your big Buddha, so you can find other places to enshrine it!"
I said with a "bang" and slammed the door out.
I found a few friends to borrow wine to soothe their sorrows. When I came back early in the morning, I found that Huang Ying had packed her things and left.
Half a year later, the government built a high-speed rail, and the old houses in our country needed to be demolished. The government compensated for the housing and a large sum of money for demolition. This is really thanks to God's favor.
A few days later, early in the morning, there was a knock on the door in my house. I went to open the door sleepily, and I suddenly found Huang Ying at the door.
she knelt down in front of me as soon as she entered the door, crying and said to me: " Baoan, after separating from you, I only know that you are good to me. I have been thinking about it for the past six months, In the end I decided not to have your bride price or your room. Just stay with you and be with you."
I looked at her crying red eyes, struggling in my heart, I don’t know if I want to. Get back with her.
Conclusion
"The cheapest man is invincible" It seems that this sentence is really good.
When a person gives up his face and dignity for his own benefit and benefit, he can really hide his ears and steal the bell and want to cover up.
However, they are all people who walk in society, and no one is a fool. I am not, and I believe Mr. Tang is not.
Of course, the so-called "bystanders are clear, the authorities are fans", for Mr. Tang, who is in an emotional whirlpool, We may not know whether you will be compassionate and choose to reunite with your ex-girlfriend.
Everyone, if you face your ex-girlfriend and beg for reunion, what would you do? The comment section tells me the answer.
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About the author: Hui Brother, a middle-aged uncle who has been running, hopes to use his clumsy words to wake up those who are sleepy.
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