Wang Xiaobo said: "A lifetime is very long, just find someone interesting to be with."
In this era of pragmatism, even if you are making friends, A thick layer of use color. Just like people who exchanged business cards, people who are useless to them, turn around and walk to the corner, throw the business cards unceremoniously into the trash can; if they are useful, keep the business cards and cherish them.
Xu Wen is an affordable person. No matter what you do, you have to weigh it and see if you can get some benefits. Take making friends as an example. Xu Wen has a colloquial saying: "Make useful friends." He often opens the address book on his mobile phone and shows off in front of everyone: "I know Director XX, Director XX..." These words of his, some people talked about him behind his back: "I am a grassroots, and I always look down on the flat-headed people."
Once, Zhang Cheng's car was detained and he was as anxious as an ant on a hot pot. . Someone had an idea, why not ask Xu Wen for help. Didn't he say that he was friends with the traffic police captain, so Zhang Chengcheng asked Xu Wen for help. Xu Wen grinned and said: "I made a call and it was settled." However, he dialed for a long time, some of which were empty numbers, and some of them were unanswered. Xu Wen was extremely embarrassed. Zhang Cheng sighed and said, "It's normal for you to be unable to make a call." Xu Wen asked wonderingly: "Why is it normal?" Zhang Cheng said, "Those people, like you, only make useful friends."
Wang Ming is also a person who likes to make "useful friends". Among his friends, only Su San has no money and no power, because he was once a classmate, he can only be regarded as the last friend. However, in the great earthquake, Wang Ming was buried in the rubble, and it was Su San who saved him from the rubble and saved his life. His last friend,At the critical moment, he became the most useful friend.
If you are so snob and practical, life like that should be so boring and boring. Life is not only work, but also life. Real life occupies most of life, and friends occupy an important part of life. Our current life should be more fun and less fame and fortune.
I still remember that when WeChat first appeared, the circle of friends was very pure and clean, and it was basically filled with familiar people. Back then, there was a lot of joy and sentiment in the circle of friends, but now? Now the circle of friends is occupied by a large part of WeChat public articles, and then by a group of microshops , and some advertising messages pop up from time to time. The current circle of friends is contaminated with practical standards, so there is less purity and less fun.
Modern society is full of smoke without war. Strangers are the most important interests. If friends are the same, then our life will be so utilitarian. Every day we consider interests and values. This way It is inevitable that his life is boring.
Friend refers to the kind who can see the truth in adversity, rather than the kind of people who share blessings and share difficulties. If there are only naked money and material relationships left in life, where will the emotions flow? Perhaps that kind of life is full of intrigue, hypocrisy and cunning. A true friend has nothing to do with interests, nothing to do with practicality.
A true friend is a friend of a gentleman face to face, not a measure of each other's value.
We should make some interesting friends, not just useful friends,Of course there are useful friends, but not all useful friends. You know, in life, not only benefits and fame, but also poetry and distant places are waiting for us to find together.
So, what kind of person is an interesting friend? For example, in the masterpiece "A Dream of Red Mansions", the most interesting ones are recognized as Lin Daiyu , Shi Xiangyun , and Jia Tanchun and Wang Xifeng . In contrast, Jia Yingchun and Xue Baochai are not so interesting. Lin Daiyu is interesting because she likes to bury flowers, and most people would not come up with this kind of gameplay. Shi Xiangyun's interesting lies in her heroism. She fell asleep on a big rock when she was drunk, and she also ate a large piece of barbecue on the iron rack. Jia Tanchun has a hobby of collecting gadgets, and she has repeatedly asked Baoyu to give her some fun. On the other hand, Wang Xifeng is very good at telling jokes, with a quick mouth and a straightforward person.
On February 6, 2017, a girl named Wu Yishu in the second season of the "Conference of Chinese Poetry" surprised the national audience. She regarded and Lu You as a male god because she thought This ancient poet who is considered depressed and frustrated by everyone is actually a very interesting person. For example, Lu You wrote in "November 4th Storm and Rain": "I and the raccoon slaves are not allowed to go out." It means: "Ah, the weather is bad, such a heavy wind and rain, I will not go out, and I will touch the cat at home. "It can be seen, what a lovely person this is!
An interesting person, he does not necessarily have to have much knowledge, but his heart must be rich; he may not have traveled a lot,But his life is always full of interesting things. In summary, interesting people have a sense of humor, personality, and true temperament, and the most important thing is that they live a lively life. With them, you will never feel dull and boring.
This article comes from: "If you can afford to lose, you can win"
Author: Zhang Xiaoheng. Infringement must be deleted.
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