What is the process of chasing girls?
When boys can understand the essence of it, chasing girls will become easier, because the most correct path is the easiest way to reach the end of success.
The essence of chasing girls is: boys practice self-cultivation first, amplify their charm, and then meet the emotional needs of girls.
Why do you say that this approach is the essence of chasing girls? Let's try our thoughts.
The purpose of boys' "self-cultivation": is to enhance their own value and let girls have an initial interest in you. This is the beginning of your love story.
The purpose of "connecting emotional needs": is to add emotional factors to this relationship, so that the relationship will have a qualitative change, and the girl will become "love" from the initial "interest" to you .
To put it bluntly, the process of chasing girls is a bit like a "sale". Both parties are looking for people who suit their needs. When the needs of two people are matched, they will come together.
Next, we will explain the specific operation method.
How should boys do "self-cultivation"?
"Self-practice" is actually to enhance one's own value. The "value" mentioned here includes two aspects.
External value refers to the value that can attract girls from the surface level.
For example, appearance, financial ability, attitude towards others, personal character, etc.
The "external value" of boys is easy to be seen by girls. It is especially important at the stage when two people have just met. These values can help you attract the attention of girls.
The core value refers to the value that can cause emotional changes in girls.
For example, the ability to soothe emotions, the ability to understand emotions, the ability to express love, the ability to guide, and so on.
The "core value" of boys needs to meet the emotional needs of girls in the process of getting along between two people, and then produce emotional changes.
The "core value" of a boy is the focus of chasing girls. You can learn systematically through my column "Men with 99 Points".
In the process of chasing girls, how should boys use "core values" to match girls' "emotional needs"?
First of all, boys need to find the "docking point", and there can be multiple "docking points".
Boys looking for "dock points" can start from two aspects.
The first aspect: take "girls' emotional weakness" as the docking point.
For example, a girl is influenced by her native family and lacks love since she was a child. Therefore, she especially hopes that someone can understand her feelings and take care of her emotions.
Then, boys can focus on "understanding girls' emotions". When a girl "lack of love" feels this kind of "attention" feeling, she will start to be excited.
The second aspect: take "boys' advantage" as the docking point.
You can think like this: What are your strengths and what value can you bring to girls?
For example, boys are very careful and always take good care of others. For example, every time they date a girl, boys will make arrangements for the entire itinerary and bring together all the things that may be used during the date. .
Or, girls’ habits, boys will remember, for example,Girls don't like to eat green onions, so when eating together, boys always remember not to put green onions in the dishes.
For girls, the value of boys' "attentiveness" has brought her a lot of warm feeling, which is a kind of "emotional connection".
Actually, chasing girls is not difficult, as long as you have a correct thinking, it will lead you to success.
After many boys fell in love with a girl, they didn't even have a general idea of pursuing them, so they started chasing them, and finally realized that they had been doing thankless things.
If you like someone, don't chase them around. When you have the right method, the result will be completely different.
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