This era is the era of family fighting, and the height of the parents is the starting point. To put it bluntly a person's relationship background, it almost determines how far a person can go and how high they can climb. These days, there is no family background, no background relationship, and no network. It is really too difficult to get mixed up.
Even if you want to start a small business, if you don't even have the capital, you won't even have the chance of failure! Compared with those who have connections, backgrounds, and sufficient funds, their biggest advantage is that they can have a chance of failure! It can fail once, it can be a second time, and it can be a third time!
Failure is an important process of accumulating experience, failure is more important than success! But most people can't afford to lose at all, even once! There is no failure, no chance to start again, the less you can't lose, the less you dare to lose, it will create infinite pressure on yourself! Even if you know that many things are wrong, you can't look back, you can only make one mistake to the end! Because there is no chance to start again, and there is no chance to make mistakes!
Some people say that life is a gambling game, just like many gamblers, most of them are some families who are not very rich, have a weak foundation, and have few opportunities. The less money you have, the less reconciled you lose and the less willing to look back! It's not that they don't want to look back, but that they have no chance to look back! They can't afford to lose, they can only struggle one by one in the quagmire of gambling to the dark!
In fact, people are afraid of failure for a reason. Not everyone can afford to lose, and not everyone can face failure calmly.... I haven't thought about it before, but I understand their madness and obsession from the perspective of human mind and human nature...
Many obsessive people are flesh and blood people with normal thinking and the ability to distinguish right from wrong! But they are not willing to turn back, but can't afford to lose!
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