(Original) Tonight, I was making dinner with my daughter-in-law, Du Na, when she was happily and suddenly said, "Mom, I think those who have a bad relationship between husband and wife or who don’t love each other will directly call each other’s name. Loving couples or relatives and friends will not call each other by their daimyo (the daimyo is the name on the official ID that we often say). Look at my eldest brother-in-law (her cousin’s husband) is 50 years old, and my son graduated from college. My eldest sister’s name is Xiaoyan, and her relationship is better. My brother-in-law is a lovely eldest sister. From this point, we can tell whether there is any affection between the husband and wife." I disagree with her statement. She went on to say: "When you look at my father and mother, you never call me by your name. This is the manifestation of love. When you look at your son, you always call me Duna directly. It means that he never loved me in his heart! When I first got married, I called your son's husband, and then I stopped calling me and called him by his name. This shows that your son and I don't love each other deeply. "My daughter-in-law. Without a nickname, her parents call her Nana and they think this is her nickname. To be honest, my son loves his daughter-in-law very much, and his daughter-in-law loves his son very much. I also like this daughter-in-law very much. Sometimes I call her name, sometimes I call her a silly girl or Nana. But I really can’t agree with her thinking. I said, “I don’t agree with your statement. It’s true that a person’s niche is the parent’s nickname for the child, but when the child grows up, he should be called the child’s name. This is also the respect of the elders for children and adults. Your eldest sister is 50 and will soon be a mother-in-law, even your aunt should not call her nickname anymore. Your eldest brother-in-law shouldn’t call your eldest sister’s nickname anymore. This is not only a manifestation of love And it's still a kind of disrespectful behavior. After marrying a daughter-in-law and having a grandson, will you still call your wife's name? This will be laughed off if the husband calls the daughter-in-law's name in our hometown." The daughter-in-law continued: "Mom, you are too thinking You’ve been in the city for 40 years, so why can’t you change the silly thinking of your hometown?” I don’t like to listen to her words. I say you are talking about these nondescripts. Since ancient times, the younger generation can’t mention the elders. Name taboo, that is disrespectful, and it is also the minimum politeness to call each other's names when they were not children. We are just like this. You and I argued for a long time and there was no result. Friends, what do you think of the address between husband and wife, between the elders and the young? Who on earth is making sense of our mother-in-law? Welcome to comment.
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