Late at night, I swiped a post on Zhihu that caught my attention.
The question is: 24 years old did nothing, how can I get out of this failed life?
The subject is a 24-year-old girl who has changed countless jobs and can’t find her own life position.
has moderate depression and social phobia, and credit card debts of tens of thousands of dollars. She said that she felt so confused, that she was so useless, and she was really tired of life.
I don’t know when, anxiety and mourning have become younger and younger, and more and more young people no longer believe that tomorrow will be better. They seem to have lost The goals and hopes of life have fallen into the quagmire of decadence and despair and can hardly extricate themselves.
I am often asked, what should I do if I am 25 years old and have achieved nothing?
Seeing that half of the best prime time has passed,I was terribly panicked.
Peers of the same age are in love and marry, but they have no partners; job prospects are average, peers have already bought cars and houses; Moonlight has no deposits, and most of the salary is contributed to Huabei and rent.
I want to tell the story of another friend.
He is a boy, 29 years old this year, and his parents are in poor health. He has to go to the hospital several times a year, which also costs a lot of money.
As for him, when he was young, he was out of business and did not save any money. Already nearly 30 years old, without skills, can only work for others. Last year I finally talked about a girlfriend, but I was deceived.
That's it, he still has a debt of 80,000. I will be 30 years old soon. I have no savings, no objects, debts, and parents with poor health to take care of.
This year, he said that he wanted to change his future to earn money, and then save money.
People will understand some truths only after experiencing it, and then they will know how to do the right thing.
24 years old,It is just a line, a point in your long life, frustration at this time does not mean that it will continue to be the same in the future.
Remember, what is the use of complaining in place, if you don’t work hard, no one can move forward for you.
Before, a video hit the circle of friends.
This is an experiment conducted by the Taiwan 104 Foundation. They found the big bosses in Taiwan’s business circles and handed them some anonymous resumes...
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faced the anonymous resumes in their hands, they were very picky, and the resumes were beaten into the cold palace without exception; but when the name of the resume owner was revealed, all interviewers were shocked...
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However, the owner of the resume is the famous director of Lee An _span.
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The owner of the resume is Wu Baochun . This name may not be familiar to everyone, but he is the world champion baker.
Today’s video may have given you the answer.
The 25-year-old is not so good, who has never lived?
In fact, whether you are 25 or 30, you are still very young and it is not the end of all interesting things.
After all, some things take time to accumulate and discover. We may need to spend more time to understand ourselves better, so that you can discover what is better and more enjoyable.
When Huawei was founded, Ren Zhengfei was 43 years old. At that time, he had just been expelled from the company, divorced from his wife, and had a debt of 2 million.
The Internet bubble burst in 2002 and Huawei almost collapsed.He didn't know the way out, every day it was like being grilled in the sun.
When he finds himself powerless, the company will die, and the employees will lose their jobs. Ren Zhengfei has half a year and has nightmares every day, often crying when he wakes up.
After crying, he continued to wear yesterday's wrinkled clothes like a okay person, and worked overtime for more than ten hours.
What kind of success is not a day-to-day effort?
What I want to say is:
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_p14 Be ahead of you, maybe a little behind you. But everything has its own rhythm, they have their rhythm, you have your own.
Be patient and don't let anyone disrupt the rhythm of your life.
Life is not a gamble, but a journey. If life is regarded as gambling, chasing, and comparison, such a life is destined to be with anxiety forever.
Different lives have different excitement,We all want to live out our own splendor, because every life is different.
I once read a poem called "New York is 3 hours earlier than California time", and I am very impressed:
California time three hours earlier
But California time has not slowed down.
Some people graduated at the age of 22,
but it took five years to find a good job!
Someone became CEO at the age of 25,
died at the age of 50.
There are also people who become CEOs until they are 50 years old,
and then live to be 90 years old.
Someone is still single,
Someone is also married.
Obama retired at the age of 55,
Trump only became president at the age of 70.
Every person in the world has his own development time zone.
Some people around seem to be walking in front of you,
Some people seem to be walking behind you.
But in fact, everyone has their own pace in their own time zone.
Don’t be jealous or laugh at them.
They are all in their own time zone, so are you!
life is to wait for the right time to act.
So, take it easy.
You are not behind.
You have no lead.
In your own time zone that fate has arranged for you, everything is on time.
So don’t worry, just relax.
Please remember that your life in your 20s has just begun, and everybody has lived through the different years. It’s not too late to start now.
encourage!
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