Is there a pure friendship between men and women? , as a married woman, should have taken the initiative to keep a distance from men other than her husband to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings and conflicts.
The so-called distinction between men and women is to tell everyone that men and women should keep a certain distance. After all, men and women are different individuals and are prone to intimacy.
But Aunt Zhang chose to go to her male colleague’s house for a lunch break. Faced with her husband’s doubts, Aunt Zhang vowed to say that she had made her own reputation as a : "My male colleague and I are innocent, and I chose him. The lunch break at home was just because it was quiet enough, air-conditioned, and not far from the factory. He and I didn’t do anything excessive." I know whether I should believe what my wife said about . Faced with a fashionable and beautiful wife, was helpless and helpless when he went to the male colleague’s house for lunch break.
What is the whole story? Let’s take a look.
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Wang Gang is 47 years old this year, and his wife Aunt Zhang is 45 years old this year. They have been married for 25 years and have a daughter who is also married to . Wang Gang is a carpenter, and his family depends on Wang Gang's craftsmanship to support the family. Wang Gang has been working very hard to make money. These years he has been alone and has worked very hard, and he has not let his wife go out to work to make money. Although the life is not very good, but it is more than enough.
Aunt Zhang has watched Wang Gang earning money alone and feels sorry for her husband over the years. She plans to go out to work and earn money to relieve her husband's burden. Aunt Zhang is very beautiful and tall, but she hasn't found a job for a long time without any skill.
On this day, Sister Lan from the same community told Aunt Zhang that the factory of a certain group was recruiting workers.There are no special conditions and requirements, and the treatment is pretty good. Aunt Zhang was eager and decided to give it a try.
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Aunt Zhang went to the factory to fill out the form, and within two days she received a message telling her to go to work.
Aunt Zhang went happily, but after a few days of work, Aunt Zhang came back and complained to her husband : I am really tired in this class. It is very tired to stand and process parts every day. The salary is not high, only 70 yuan. Qian Qian, she didn't want to go anymore.
Wang Gang smiled and said: "If you don't go, don't go, I am not unable to support you."
The next day, Aunt Zhang planned to go to the factory and resign, but she went home to tell Wang Gang in the evening: "The factory tried its best to keep her and agreed to change her job. From now on, she will help in the factory cafeteria, and her salary has increased, with a monthly salary of 3,500 yuan." Good luck, just in time to catch up with the messenger in the cafeteria.
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After the change of guard, Aunt Zhang goes out early every day and returns late every day. She is very active at work . Every time I go out, I dress up carefully, and sometimes it is really pleasing to wear a cheongsam outfit.
Wang Gang asked strangely: "Why do you dress so beautifully when you go to work? It is necessary to be like this?"
Aunt Zhang said seriously: "I cherish this job . Besides, it is necessary to be dressed up for cafeteria work. It’s clean. There are often factory leaders who want to give people a good impression."
Aunt Zhang has a regular time after work. Generally, she goes to work at 7 in the morning and leaves work at 5:30 in the afternoon. If she does not go home at noon, she says she is resting at the unit.
The weather has been relatively hot recently. One night, Wang Gang asked his wife: "You still have a lunch break in your factory. Do you have air conditioning? How do you take a break?" Busy working,Usually there is no time for lunch break.
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One day two months later, the blue sister of the community found Wang Gang and asked: "How can I not find Aunt Zhang in the factory dormitory at noon, and want to ask her to accompany her to buy clothes at noon." Can't find anyone, did she go home at noon.
Wang Gang said: "Xiao Zhang usually doesn't go home at noon, but rests in the factory.
Wang Gang felt a little strange. When his wife came home at night, he tentatively asked : "Is your dormitory hot at noon?
Aunt Zhang replied: "It's okay. "
Wang Gang did not continue to ask. He felt very strange why his wife was no longer in the dormitory and did not directly indicate it. He decided to find out.
The next day with questions, Wang Gang came to Wang early. Auntie waited outside the factory. saw his wife and a man walk out and laughed and went straight to the neighbouring community at about one noon.
Wang Gang followed all the way and discovered that the security of the community greeted the man and gave him a direct greeting. They opened the door, and he must be the owner inside.
Wang Gang found a reason and immediately followed into the community to , and found that his wife and the man were on the 3rd floor, so he closed the door directly. Wanggang I was very angry, and hovered at the door for 10 minutes, and finally got the courage to knock on the door.
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Wanggang knocked on the door in a frantic moment and someone came to open the door. It was the man who opened the door. Wanggang directly I went into the room to find my wife , and saw that my wife was lying on the sofa during lunch break, and the clothes were decent.
The quilt in the other room has been moved by .It should be the bedroom where the man slept, and the sofa in the living room where his wife slept. Wang Gang questioned his wife: Why are you not in the factory and not going home for a lunch break? You came here at noon.
Aunt Zhang was very angry and said : "What are you doing, follow me, I didn't do anything awkward, I just took a lunch break at the male colleague's house, and there is air conditioning here."
The man also followed Explanation: "I am a colleague with Xiao Zhang, and I can talk to each other as good friends. There are many people in the factory dormitory who are not quiet and hot at noon, so I invited Xiao Zhang to the house for a lunch break. I hope not to misunderstand."
Aunt Zhang was also angry. said: "Thanks to this male colleague, I was able to go to work in the cafeteria. The salary was much better and it was not that hard."
Wang Gang was still agitated. He wanted to make a fuss but he did not find anything unusual. .
Looking at the man and wife in front of me, is she really just going to a colleague’s house for a pure lunch break? Is it my husband’s prudent, narrow sense, thinking too much? Should I believe them?
Conclusion
I never believed in pure friendship between men and women. In view of Wang Gang’s story, I can only say that her wife did something very wrong . Even if it is a normal friendship now, it can’t tell the future. This is like walking a tightrope and should be stopped in time.
Husband and wife should stick to each other's bottom line so that they can trust each other.
And if she is already a woman with a changed heart, no matter how a man coaxes and treats her well, in her opinion, you are all superfluous. You can't guard against it, so I advise you to let it go. No matter how hard you struggle, you are just a clown, very embarrassed.
Everyone thinks Wang Gang can still trust her wife,Can you look forward to the future with her wife?
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