There may be many people in this world who hope you are good, but there may only be two people who really hope you are better than yourself, and that is your parents. They are the people who love you most in this world.
We are already enthusiasm. Some of our parents may have passed away, and some may only be one of them, and of course there are also parents who are still alive. In any case, the surviving parents are already elders.
My mother is famous for "dancing to eat" (meaning to cook) in the village. If anyone in the village held ceremonial occasions back then, if she could invite my mother to "dancing to eat", the master's family would be relieved and felt that there was a face . In the 1960s and 1970s, the material was scarce and the ingredients were also scarce. My mother used the same ingredient to change different ways to satisfy our taste. Therefore, I was born in a poor country and I was never hungry since I remembered. I can always eat. Eat well.
Now my mother is approaching her birthday. In recent years, there has been an obvious change in her mother. Every time I called her before, the elderly always asked: "When will you go home?" Now I call her, she always It means: "I'm okay, don't worry, you are busy at work, don't come back."
I called my mother to say hello before the National Day, and I said: "I want to go outside and play on the National Day, so I won't go home." My mother said: "You are usually busy at work, the National Day holiday is long, it is good to go out and play, I am at home and do not come back."
Due to the new crown epidemic in the selected location, it is recommended not to go, and go out on National Day. The plan to play fell through. So I went back to my hometown without telling my mother. When I arrived in the village, my mother sat on the stone bench in the cultural square and watched the children playing. When she saw me, my mother said, "Didn't you say to go out to play? Why are you back again." I’m back.” Mom said, “I didn’t prepare anything at home. Go to the vegetable garden to pick some vegetables.” I said, “No, I bought some vegetables from the county town and brought them back. There are fish and meat, and you like them. I bought a lot of stewed vegetables and vegetables.”
When it was almost “dancing to eat”, I said to my mother: “Today I’m going to dance to eat, and you can set the fire under the stove.” Mom said, “Then. How can you do it? You came back to see me so far,You have to dance and eat by yourself. Then he said: "Somehow, maybe it's really old. I used to expect you to come back. Now when I hear that you are coming back, I am anxious. I can't dance and eat anymore. Dancing eating is either salty or light. Dancing and eating for yourself. Take your time, and you can deal with it. When you come to the house, you can’t dance and eat.
I said: "You used to cook for us, but now it's our turn to cook for you occasionally. A happy smile appeared on my mother's face.
Today's social mobility is accelerating and migration is frequent. Even if the elderly who have given birth to many children like my mother, there are usually very few children around, unaccompanied, and they are lonely. They said: "You are busy, don't come back if you have something. But they still want their children to go home and see.
I understand, why call me now and my mother doesn't tell me to go home. It turned out to be afraid of me coming home to entertain me. It’s not good, it’s not good to eat. Actually, I really don’t pay attention to eating and drinking in my life. No matter what my mother cooks, I think it’s the best. Different. When parents are alive, they give more care, love and dedication to their children. However, when parents are old, they need more care and companionship from their children.
The world is always young, and society does not need it. Old age, but the metabolism is irresistible. When the person who loves you the most is getting old and helpless like a baby, family affection is the sunshine of the elderly world, which will give them warmth, or the old saying: companionship is the longest love Confession.
The ancients said: "A husband's filial piety, the crown of a hundred actions, is the beginning of all goodness. "This world is ever-changing, and only one thing remains the same. That is the blood relationship between you and your parents. Blood is thicker than water. Facing the people who love you the most, they are getting old. As children, you should remember: filial piety is not ethical. Children’s play, children’s guides are often not forgotten; filial piety and diversification in time, regret if it is too late to regret. As long as the parents are there, there is still a place in life, if the parents go, there is only the way back in life.
Author: Chen Bangyuan
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