From falling to the ground, to gray-haired, a person's life is a process of transition from childishness to maturity.
This process will definitely include these 4 stages. Where are you now?
first maturity: learn to let go of obsessions
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Only by letting go of obsession, can we embrace life.
Eastern Jin Dynasty Tao Yuanming, has been an official three times and resigned three times.
Every time, Tao Yuanming is full of enthusiasm and wants to serve the court. But the emperor's mediocrity, the corruption of ministers, and the erosion of officialdom all made Tao Yuanming disappointed.
Tao Yuanming was very painful and entangled, not knowing where to go.
In this way, three in and three out in officialdom, Tao Yuanming finally let go of his obsession with being an official and returned to his pastoral life.
In the pastoral life, Tao Yuanmingle is at ease, living a poetic life of "morning and filth, bringing moon and lotus to return".
It is in such a comfortable life that Tao Yuanming wrote many masterpieces, including "Return to the Garden".
He was also called "the originator of idyllic school " by later world deities.
Jay Chou 's " daoxiang " sings well: can't catch the dream, and you can get if you change your dream.
People are most afraid of being trapped in a certain obsession, losing themselves in this obsession, unable to find the joy of life, and suffering every day.
As long as you let go of your obsession and walk out, you will find that the world is still great, there are still many opportunities, and life will be better.
Second maturity: learn to appreciate imperfections
perfect things,Too little, so little that we will never encounter one or two in our lifetime.
There are always unsatisfactory things in life.
Instead of staring at the unsatisfactory things and frowning, it is better to learn to accept it and even appreciate it .
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One of the four beauties, Yang Guifei , was originally beautiful and flawless in appearance.
But she was injured by accident and left a scar on her forehead.
At first, she was very distressed.
Later, in order to conceal the scar, she made a small flower on the scar, but the effect was surprisingly good.
This makeup was even imitated, and finally led the fashion trend of the entire Datang.
Appreciate every imperfection, so that imperfect things will also give birth to a lot of beauty and fun, adding to the brilliance of our lives .
The third maturity: learn to accept the ordinary
Each of us is an ordinary person, living in this ordinary world.
When we were young, we also thought that we were chosen by God, and sooner or later we would do a big business and become famous all over the world.
But gradually, we realize that we are actually limited. Let alone doing a big business, it is to maintain a normal life, and we have exhausted our energy.
As a result, some people start to feel distressed, even negatively tired of the world.
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In fact, this world is made up of thousands of ordinary people, and history is also created by thousands of ordinary people .
Every ordinary person,Living seriously and working hard can make the whole society run smoothly.
Each of us seems ordinary, but this ordinary contains extraordinary.
Fourth maturity: learn to respect life
The greatest perception of life is to respect it .
Whether we are born rich or poor, we must take life seriously.
Qing Dynasty Cao Xueqin was born in a family of officials and officials. He was originally worried about food and clothing, and lived the life of a superior young master.
Suddenly, Cao's family fell into trouble, the family was copied, and Cao Xueqin's life fell from the sky to hell.
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After being ransacked, Cao Xueqin's life was very difficult, and the whole person was also decadent, unable to survive for a while.
Later, under the comfort of her friends, Cao Xueqin realized that it was impossible to continue wasting her life, and that she had to live a good life.
So Cao Xueqin used her knowledge to help people cure diseases and sell paper kites, and gradually began to make a living.
More importantly, Cao Xueqin felt it, and combined her life experience to write "A Dream of Red Mansions". After reviewing for ten years, adding and deleting five times, she finally wrote the pinnacle of this Chinese classical novel.
No matter what kind of situation, we must respect life and live a good life.
Only when a person respects life, life will respect him .
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