men are lustful, so are women. "The value of beauty is justice", which may be more suitable for women.
So, even though he was married and didn’t want to be aggressive and brought a baby, she still fought for love... Hello! My friend Wang Jinjin and I are both your fans. We pinch a bit to read your articles almost every day. She said more than once that she wanted to tell you her story, but after all she didn't have the courage.
However, I know everything about her. Under her oral instruction, let me tell you today... She is slightly fat and average-looking, but she was born in a Kochi family and has a house, a car and savings. Her parents are both graduates of prestigious universities, both engaged in scientific research; her younger sister is tall and beautiful, and she studied in the United States in high school.
Compared with his sister who has a successful career and a happy family, Wang Jinjin is too inferior. She had poor grades since she was a child, and she was admitted to a second college after repeating her third year of high school.
After graduation,The parent-care relationship allowed Wang Jinjin to enter a public institution (no establishment). She has kissed many times, but they all ended up without problems. Some were cheated of money by the man, and some were voluntarily proposed to break up.
Seeing that her younger sister, who is two years younger than her, has a second child, Wang Jinjin’s marriage has not yet settled, and her parents are too anxious. Wang Jinjin hates to marry, but no one lets her. Put on a wedding dress.
In a blink of an eye, he is over 30 years old. The parents said that as long as the man can get married, as long as the man has a stable job and treats his daughter well, even if he is divorced and has no house.
At the age of 32, Wang Jinjin finally met the true emperor. The man's name is Zou Hao, two years older than her, he is strong and looks exactly like the actor Zhang Lunshuo .
Zou Hao graduated from an art academy in the south and wanted to be an actor, but so far he's just running a superstar, and there are few opportunities to say lines.
Zou Hao had a marriage and lived alone with his 3-year-old daughter after divorce. The two met through a friend's introduction, and Wang Jinjin was moved when he first saw Zou Hao.
Zou Hao’s first impression of Wang Jinjin is also good, praise her as special,Also took the initiative to invite her to dinner.
Zou Hao is unemployed, living as a wedding host, singer, no house or car, all these are okay, but Wang Jinjin’s family thinks that Zou Hao is tall and handsome, and his ex-wife is an 18th-line actor, it’s impossible. Fancy Wang Jinjin, he is looking for a long-term meal ticket.
Wang Jinjin has three suites under the name of Wang Jinjin (the parents gave one set, and the other two were given by his grandfather after the demolition), with a deposit of more than 2 million, and the conditions are really good. However, no matter how her parents persuaded her, Wang Jinjin was determined. She fell in love with Zou Hao at first sight, and she fell completely into it. He didn't marry him.
The two got married for less than 3 months. Due to family opposition, Zou Hao also wanted to keep a low profile, and the two did not hold the wedding. After the marriage, Wang Jinjin invested and took her husband and his daughter to Xinmatai for more than half a month.
In order to let his stepdaughter go to the affiliated kindergarten of the parent's unit, Wang Jinjin returned to her mother's house every day and threatened her by acting coquettishly. Finally, as she wished, she let the child go to that kindergarten.
Although he was not seen by his parents-in-law, Zou Hao followed his wife back to her mother's house at every turn, chatting with his father-in-law on various topics, and cooking for the family.
his parents-in-law suggested that he go to work,Wang Jinjin always finds reasons to stop. She thinks that such a handsome husband is still safe at home. Anyway, she is not short of money at all.
During the first year of marriage, Zou Hao occasionally worked part-time. But the income from these jobs is not high, and sometimes he has to travel to other cities. Wang Jinjin is worried that he will be favored by other women, so he will not be allowed to do it later.
Picking up my daughter to the kindergarten, picking up my wife to and from get off work, and all the housework, Zou Hao has taken care of it.
"He looks like a noble son, and he can do all kinds of work, in the kitchen, living room, and bedroom. He is comfortable everywhere in the kitchen, living room, and bedroom!" Wang Jinjin has never been stingy to praise Zou Hao in front of his friends.
Wang Jinjin’s clothes are bought online, and she chooses her sister for cosmetics and bags, but she is very generous to her husband. Tens of thousands of suits, five to six thousand yuan a pair of leather shoes, as long as Zou Hao takes a look, she will buy it immediately. When her girlfriends or family members go abroad, she always asks them to bring things for her husband and stepdaughter.
The stepdaughter is beautiful, and she calls her "mother" and "mother" sweetly all day long. Wang Jinjin also treats her as his own. Young girls always wear famous brands.
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When married,Wang Jinjin said that she would treat her stepdaughter as her own and did not want to have another child, but Zou Hao wanted to have another child.
Her parents and friends suggested that she have one, saying that the two have a common child and the marriage will last.
In the second year of marriage, Wang Jinjin was pregnant. When she was almost 3 months old, she secretly underwent abortion.
In the fifth year of marriage, Zou Hao asked Wang Jinjin to sell one of the houses that were not well-located, and replace the one with a better location. He emphasized that he should sell the old house and buy a new one and go for notarization. , Because in case of divorce one day, he will not fight for real estate.
Wang Jinjin said that she will not get a divorce, so she doesn't need to go to a notarization, and hers is his. After selling the old house, the school district house Zou Hao fancy needed to add 500,000 yuan, and Wang Jinjin bought it without hesitation.
Zou Hao does not go to work, but takes care of her home very well, and takes her to and from get off work every day. Seeing that Zou Hao didn't spend money indiscriminately, Wang Jinjin gave him the bank card for rent payment.
Zou Hao has many friends, and many of them are as unemployed as him. They come to the house at every turn, for a short period of two or three days, and a long period of time to eat and live. Wang Jinjin never complained and asked her husband to entertain them.
She said that she was ignored by her family since she was a child.He didn't have many friends when he was studying, so as long as they were friends or relatives of Zou Hao, Wang Jinjin never shy away from coming to live at home.
Zou Hao's parents are in a small county. In 2017, his brother married and occupied his parents' house.
Wang Jinjin asked his in-laws to come and live together, and if he wanted to live together, he would live together, but if he didn't, he would live in another house of hers. She took her in-laws over without discussing it with her parents, but her parents called her stupid when they found out.
Zou Hao proposed to buy a small house for his parents in his hometown, and Wang Jinjin did not hesitate to give out 200,000 yuan.
In 2019, 39-year-old Wang Jinjin became pregnant again, and Zou Hao insisted on her giving birth. But the initial pregnancy reaction was very serious. Wang Jinjin was a little depressed. After insomnia for many days, she secretly miscarried again.
After 10 years of marriage, Zou Hao has not gone to work, and all the family expenses are from Wang Jinjin. More than half of her 2 million deposit was spent, and her salary was also monthly.
Because of the daily expenses, a family of three travels twice a year, and the stepdaughter's various interest classes are all from Wang Jinjin. The house of Zou Hao's parents, his younger brother got married and had children, and people from his hometown came to see a doctor one after another, all of which were paid by Wang Jinjin.
My friend’s parents scolded Wang Jinjin for being too stupid and generous, and let her have a snack. You don’t need money and you should not spend it like that!
Wang Jinjin said, however, that it is worth paying for Zou Hao's life. Of course, the reason she said this is because after so many years of marriage, Zou Hao treats her well, whether it's her work or business trip, he greets her three times a day, and he always has a little romance on her birthday or holiday.
The stepdaughter is very close to Wang Jinjin and relies on her very much. Her mouth is as sweet as her father. So no matter what others say, Wang Jinjin feels that he did not make a mistake.
Someone also reminded Wang Jinjin that he should pay close attention to Zou Hao because he is good-looking and can speak well, plus he doesn't have to go to work and has a lot of time, and he may find someone behind her.
Wang Jinjin also has no sense of security in her heart, but she never checks her husband's post or looks through his mobile phone records.
From the initial opposition to the default, Zou Hao has done an impeccable job in face.
because they have no common children,One of Wang Jinjin's property is post-marital property, and the rent for her two suites is also controlled by Zou Hao, so her mother always reminds Wang Jinjin to be careful, but when it comes to money, Wang Jinjin will be unhappy.
In a hurry, she would say that she would be happy even if she was cheated, because Zou Hao is the best person to her in the world.
I was asked if I waited until my stepdaughter went to college and became independent, he would turn around to find his mother, or what if Zou Hao met a younger and beautiful woman and changed his mind? Wang Jinjin said: "If there is no'if', I will go to the end with Zou Hao! The child I brought up, I understand that I am the mother in her heart!"
Zou Hao failed, she would cry and make trouble but would not go to extremes. She said that she earned money by marrying Zou Hao, and being together for ten years has made her feel that she has made a profit...
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Many people may say that she is stupid, ignorant and stubborn.
First of all, what kind of person to get married often projects inner desire.
Wang Jinjin’s marriage and love look wonderful,In fact, it is inseparable from her native family and growing up environment.
She was born in a Kochi family, her parents and younger sisters are very good, but she is an exception to this family: she looks ugly, has poor academic performance, and relies on her family to find a job. The parents felt that she was unworthy and couldn't compare with her sister.
It can be imagined that living in such a family, Wang Jinjin lacks love and low self-esteem, she is eager to seek affirmation from the outside world.
Even if Zou Hao is the husband of the family, she doesn't care if she doesn't make money. On the contrary, she thinks that such a marriage will last. Because if Zou Hao had a job, a house and money, it would be impossible to marry her and would not treat her kindly.
The parents knew that Wang Jinjin’s ability was limited, so they bought a house for her early. Grandpa gave her two suites, plus the demolition money from her grandfather, even if the property under her name was placed in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou. , Not bad.
A woman who lacks money wants to marry a rich man, but Wang Jinjin has money and capital willful. Of course, he wants to find a man who can bring him. This is the same as a man who wants to find a beautiful woman when he is rich.
Secondly, if there is a chance to eat soft rice, will men let it go?
you know,Zou Hao's dream of being an actor is basically broken. He has no house and no deposits with a baby when he is over 30, which shows that he has an empty skin, average ability, and can't afford hardship.
In this case, it is better to find a wife who can make him and his daughter worry-free. Both Wang Jinjin's parents are kosher, and his family education won't be too bad, and his character shouldn't be too much of a problem. In addition, he doesn't lack money, so whoever marries takes advantage.
While Zou Hao is willing to take on housework, he also pays attention to Wang Jinjin. It can be regarded as his deliberate care. After all, his daughter is not an adult and needs help from someone else, and can also be regarded as someone else’s product. Not bad, I think Wang Jinjin is pretty good.
Zou Hao was used to seeing beautiful girls in the entertainment industry before, and may even have been deceived by beautiful girls. Therefore, facing the fair-looking Wang Jinjin, there is no imbalance in his heart.
Besides, Wang Jinjin, who owns tens of millions of fortunes, is willing to entrust all of his wealth to him, and treat his daughter as her own. As long as the daughter does not turn against her stepmother, she will inherit her inheritance. In this way, what else is he dissatisfied with?
Perhaps, he wants to have a child with Wang Jinjin, because he wants to bind her more firmly. After all, the heart of a woman, the cloud in the sky, if two people don't have a child in common, if one day Wang Jinjin changes his heart, wouldn't he be frightened?
Zou Hao of course may have two faces,With an average IQ and EQ, Wang Jinjin has an affair and uses her money to fill a hero. But if Wang Jinjin can't see it or doesn't care at all, it's nothing.
Two people who really love each other don't care who pays more. The so-called one willing to fight and the other to endure, everything is reasonable.
Thirdly, those marriages that do not get the right way can be interpreted from another angle, and they are love hymns.
So why does Wang Jinjin’s marriage cause other people’s discomfort? There are probably three reasons-
A. She unconditionally helped Zou Hao’s parents. First, she gave her own house to her in-laws, and then she simply paid for her in-laws to buy a house. Responsibility, this kind of thing, many women can't do it.
B, Wang Jinjin makes money to support his family, and Zou Hao is responsible for the beauty and beauty. It stands to reason that whoever makes money is the master of the house, but Zou Hao obviously has the final say in this family. He takes the rent, and his relatives and friends just eat and live. His daughter goes to kindergarten and Wang Jinjin is in charge. Operation, I can see that Zou Hao is not a good stubble...
C, treat the stepdaughter as her own, nothing wrong, but for the sake of her stepdaughter, Wang Jinjin insists on not having a child, and loves too tragic. .If this marriage does not go to the end, she will be alone for life; even if it goes to the end, once the stepdaughter takes away the property but does not sincerely support her, she will cry without tears.
However, Wang Jinjin is clearly ready for the shortage of people and wealth. So, why should outsiders say anything?
Looking at it from another angle, Wang Jinjin’s love for Zou Hao and his daughter is the love that touches the world, and is a rare good wife and stepmother in the world. If written sensational, it is enough to make countless people Love-loving men and women shed tears...
Wang Jinjin’s approach is understandable, but bags will not promote or sing praises. After all, most people are mortals, and they don’t have wealthy parents like her to chew or cheat!
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