quarrels, but not cold wars.
I used to hear other people say that I am especially envious of the kind of couples who have never conflicted. In fact, I think it is inevitable that two people have various conflicts when they get up. Lovers who never quarrel always hold back what they want to say. So, if one day I save enough disappointment, I will never look back.
And those who often quarrel, any dissatisfaction will blur out, couples who don't know how to fight cold are enviable.
Because every time they quarrel, they will solve a problem. A smart girl, never lose her temper casually. Once posted, there must be a picture.
Three views are the same and understand each other.
Maybe you will fall in love with a person because of their good looks; and fall in love with him because of long-term contact.
But ultimately decides how long your relationship bred by the novelty can last, or whether his three views of the whole person are in line with you, whether his behavior is appropriate, and whether he is a suitable person to be with you People who have walked the rest of their lives together.
In love, you are each other's lovers, and in life you are each other's friends. He understands all your inexplicable points that others can't get. He laughs with you when he is happy, complains with you when he is angry, and comforts you when he is wronged.
Girls do not do, boys do not wave.
People are all the same, no one can be 100% right to the other. One-a second heart, the same is true for your boyfriend.
The matter of whether to love or not is actually the most clear in your heart. Don't just "work" just because he spoils you. People will be tired.
Similarly, a man who really likes you will not give you a sense of instability and make you feel fearful about your feelings. Fear will not make you feel that he is erratic, he will plan the future with you, and The protagonist must be you. He will make you believe that he can give you a home, and you are the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with.
Paying for each other
Two people are not paying unilaterally, but redeem and accompany each other.People who care too much are often unhappy.
Whether two people can go very far depends on whether they will actually plan each other into their future lives and are willing to work hard for each other.
will really go far are those who silently put each other into their lives and work hard for each other’s better lives
boys show affection
because the love of men is usually summarized as Three points, possession, protection, and care. The first is the former. -If a person loves you, the first reaction must be possession. He will declare to the world his sovereignty over you, and he can't wait to show off to everyone that you are his girlfriend.
Boy show affection is to admit the position of the girl next to him, and it is also the possibility of breaking himself and other girls. If one day your boyfriend shows affection, then he must really like you very much.
I don't often show affection in the circle of friends, but it is a big wave of dog food.
Like some couples, they need to constantly show their love and show off the little things in life to pursue the so-called sense of security; nor will they praise how good their partner is when they meet people; because the ups and downs are only known by themselves .
Real couples will not send screenshots to Moments just because he said a sweet word, because love is their daily life. Really showing affection is the same goal of two people on the anniversary of a few years, and this kind of relationship is the longest.
One pet, one worship.
The three core needs of men are to be admired, supported, and recognized. The three major needs of women are security, romance, and being favored.
So the best state of love is: one loves the other, and the other admires the other. Two people become better for each other, instead of killing their pursuit of a better life in trivial matters.
There are many loving details.
When eating, boys will take what they don’t like in girls’ bowls as they should, and put all the things she loves in their bowls into her bowls. Girls will get messed up when boys’ clothes are messed up. Let him tidy up his collar, and he will tidy up his hair when he gets messy.
Seeing whether a person loves you or not is actually in the details. The real good feeling is to have the love words of the mountain alliance and each other, and there are those details that are inadvertently revealed by others.
Short-term protection
Short-term protection is the most basic principle for two people to stay together for a long time. If one party does something wrong, we will go home and close the door to privately run the education. In front of the slightest grievance.
He knows that every sentence of dislike from your mouth is due to your liking for him. You often dislike him, but you will not let others tease him. Even if someone else says it---everything is bad, as long as you think it's good, it's worth it.
.
