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Everyone says that a pregnant woman is a ten-month-old queen and she wants to eat and eat.
Not only did I not enjoy this treatment, when I was seven months pregnant, my mother-in-law also asked me to knock the baby out and forced me to divorce her son.
That morning, I just vomited from the bathroom and wanted to sit down and drink some water, so I received a call from my husband Zhang Hao.
Before I could speak, he snapped and scolded me on the phone, saying how good his mother was to me and why I was at the door of my house and didn’t see his mother. , How does this make neighbors look at their home? His mother had no face, so she hung up the phone after speaking.
At that time, I was so angry that my head was buzzing, and the kid in my stomach kicked me by accident, and the kick made my chest uncomfortable.
The more I thought about it, the more I felt aggrieved. I just wanted to ask a clear question, and Zhang Hao directly hung up after making two calls.
Thinking back carefully,I guessed that when I went to my cousin's house a few days ago, I was seen by my mother-in-law's neighbor.
The mother-in-law and cousin's home are very close, both live in the suburbs.
It was nothing to worry about my mother. I didn't want to tell her. I told her to go out and took a taxi and went to her mother-in-law's house.
The mother-in-law looked at me with an angry face and a big smile. I sneered, thinking I could really pretend.
Sitting on the sofa, I directly asked my mother-in-law, Mom, if you are not satisfied, just tell me, and talk to Zhang Hao about everything. You let him know that nothing can be solved, you can only make him worry.
After hearing what I said, the mother-in-law was also taken aback. She is used to being strong at home, and she's always talking. No one has ever spoken to her in such a tone.
She stood up with a whirr, flushed with anger, and pulled me out to drive me out. She yelled while pushing me. She didn't want Zhang Hao to marry me. I don’t want to go and kill the child... I also said that she has never lived in the house she bought, but others have lived first... I love divorce and divorce.
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Not long after I went to work, my cousin introduced me to Zhang Hao. He was afraid that I would be bullied by others in the future, so he asked about his family situation and dared to tell me when he felt safe.
Through getting along, I gradually discovered that Zhang Hao is an honest man and can endure hardship at work.
Although he is not my favorite type, but I have known since childhood that husbands and wives live together in partnership, and a real family background is the basis of marriage.
Moreover, Zhang Hao’s parents are still formal workers, and they will retire in the future, which can relieve us a lot of burden. Because of this one son, his family bought a house early in the city.
In general, my family is in a rural area and there is no formal job. My father has passed away a long time ago, and there is an older brother in the family who is in college. At that time, I felt that I was climbing high.
At that time, I was afraid that his parents would disagree and would despise me. Unexpectedly, our relationship went well, Zhang Hao’s parents often let me go to his house for dinner.
After talking for half a year,Before Zhang Hao went to work, my cousin had a meal with their family and discussed the marriage. We were married only when he came back at the end of the year.
At that time, I was very content, and I felt very lucky to meet such a good husband’s family. I thought that I would manage my life well in the future and be filial to the elderly.
But I always feel a little unreliable in my heart, because all of this is so beautiful.
If women’s sixth sense is really accurate, my guess was confirmed not long after marriage.
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and I will talk to my mother for a few days after marriage. I thought it was a matter of course, but Zhang Hao hesitated, seeing that I was angry, he agreed.
As soon as we arrived at my mother's house, my mother-in-law called and urged us to go back. I said we wanted to stay in my mother's house for a few days. But the mother-in-law still made the phone call reluctantly, Zhang Hao was so crushed that she had no choice but to discuss with me and go back if she said otherwise. ‘
when ready to go,Zhang Hao secretly put 1,000 yuan in the cabinet, and he didn't let me say it, for fear that my mother would not want it. I was moved in my heart, and the complaints against him just disappeared immediately.
When I got home that night, my mother-in-law and father-in-law’s faces were drawn to the elders. They didn’t even cook for us, so they sat on the sofa and stared at the TV.
I played the drums in my heart, and there was a premonition in my heart, I felt that it had something to do with our return to my mother's house.
Although I felt a little uncomfortable, my in-laws didn’t say it, and I didn’t have to show my face. So put down the special products my mother had brought, and silently went to the kitchen and ordered a bowl of noodles for both of us.
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Quietly asked me how much did it cost me to return to my natal home this time?
Without waiting for my answer, she kept saying that you shouldn't spend this money. There will be too much money in the future. She was also very proud to say that the house we bought for us was saved in this way.In order to save money, she does not need to buy a piece of clothing for ten years.
My mother-in-law insisted that it was for our own good, so I told me not to mind.
I felt very uncomfortable. When I returned home, Zhang Hao didn't buy anything for the family. When I left for relatives, my mother bought things in advance, so I just let me go through the scene.
When I returned to my mother's house, I went empty-handed.
I always felt very awkward when my mother-in-law said it was for our own good, but I didn't want to argue with her, so I only agreed with a few words perfunctorily.
One month later, I checked out that I was pregnant, my husband was so happy, and my mother-in-law changed the way to make me what I like.
Seeing my mother-in-law doing her best to me, I not only felt a little ashamed, but also felt that I was a little cautious and maliciously speculating about her.
But I thought too simple, my mother-in-law was kind to me, just doing a scene in front of her son.
After Zhang Hao left,She didn't want to bear it anymore. She said that in order to avoid conflicts, let me go back to live in a new house in the city. She's fine, find a reason, just push me out like this.
Although I was angry, I thought that if I had been separated, I would not be talked about by her, so I felt relieved.
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. I don’t think there will be so many conflicts. But my mother-in-law had a big prejudice against me for a long time, and then my mother's arrival became the fuse of all contradictions.
When I first moved into the new house, I had severe morning sickness and couldn't eat all day. Not only did I lose weight, but I also lost a few catties. My mother was very worried, so she rushed over from my hometown to take care of me.
My mother-in-law came here to see me. As soon as I walked in, I began to say that the table should not be moved, otherwise the floor would be scratched. Don't move this one, that one will break easily. They looked like it was like my mother robbed them of their chassis, and they came to declare their sovereignty.
also said that I don’t go to work now,You have to learn how to steam buns yourself, and save a little if you can save money, otherwise Zhang Hao will be too hard to make money outside.
My mother stayed for half a month. Seeing that I feel better, I hurried back to my hometown.
My mother-in-law was very comfortable, and when I was seven months pregnant, she didn't even want to take care of me. My mother saw that I was heavy, so she bit the bullet and came to see me.
I have been competing with my mother-in-law in my heart. This time I went to my cousin's house, but also deliberately didn't visit her.
She did not expect that she had such a big prejudice against our family, so she took the opportunity to file a complaint with her son to vent her grievances.
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My mother-in-law is pregnant with me,She didn’t dare to divorce, she had a tough attitude, and she stubbornly said that her son had fallen for eight lifetimes before marrying me. How can there be such a powerful daughter-in-law, dare to talk about her mother-in-law, but if she doesn’t know her husband, she knows how to spend his money, no Divorce if you are willing to live.
The cousin did not expect her mother-in-law to be so powerful, so he scolded Zhang Hao on the phone when he returned and asked him to come back. I could faintly hear that Zhang Hao mumbled a few words on the other side of the phone, and then he would be back a few days after he finally said something.
Before I went to bed, I didn't wait for Zhang Hao's call, and my heart was so cold.
Lying in bed at night, thinking about the sadness of the year, tears can't stop streaming.
Although I didn't go to work, I didn't spend much money on Zhang Hao.
When my mother-in-law didn't agree with us to get married, she didn't give money when she bought furniture, so Zhang Hao borrowed 10,000 yuan from her friend.
Not long after he moved, his friend said he wanted to buy a car and asked us to pay back.
Zhang Hao only pays a fixed salary every month,It took a few months to save money and save it.
At that time, in order to save money, I often calculated to eat meat only once a week. Due to malnutrition, I fainted at the door when I went to the supermarket and was later woken up.
At that time, I felt very uncomfortable, and it was fake to say that I didn't regret it. But at the time I thought of him working outside, the wind and rain, what was the difficulty, the relatives were not around, more distressed. Thinking about it this way, the bit of resentment in my heart disappeared. Don't let Zhang Hao know about the bad things at home, lest he worry about it.
It turns out that all of this is my wishful thinking. I understand Zhang Hao, he did not consider me.
Can touch the child in the belly, he will soon come to this world and meet us.
thinks of my happiness and satisfaction every time he kicks me, and my heart feels as uncomfortable as a knife. Those days have been tangled and painful torment.
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I don’t know what my cousin said to Zhang Hao,He came back, and when he was leaving, he asked his mother-in-law to come and see me more in front of me.
Although reluctant, for Zhang Hao, my mother-in-law called me a few days later, but I didn't care, as long as she didn't do that.
Because the baby was too big, I had a C-section. A few hours after the baby was born, Zhang Hao got off the plane and rushed to the hospital.
We discussed it before. Zhang Hao only has one month of maternity leave. He wants to wait for the day I was born before taking a leave of absence so that he can take care of me for a few more days.
Zhang Hao looked at his sleeping son. The joy of being a father at first made him very excited. With tears in his eyes, he kept telling me how hard he was. Although I didn't want to talk for a moment in pain, I really felt very happy at that time.
When Zhang Hao came to deliver the meal the next day, his face was very ugly, and he took a spoon to feed me egg custard. At that time, why was there so little money in it?
I said that on the day of hospitalization, I took five thousand and paid the hospital fee. At that time, I left you three thousand in the passbook. I forgot to tell you when I was busy these days.
I thought I explained it to him and it was all right.
After a few days, who knows, he has been drooping his face and never talking to my mother, and talking to me is also a spear and stick. I concluded that my mother-in-law didn't know what she said to him.
On the day I was discharged from the hospital, my mother wanted to let my mother-in-law wait for me to confine my confinement and go back the next day. At night, my mother came to my room with an ugly face, her expression stopped. I shook my heart and asked what's wrong with my mother?
It turned out that my mother was worried about me and wanted to get some money from the bag. When the money was taken, she obviously felt that the contents of the bag had been turned over. clear.
My mom sees my eyes flushed with anger, and is afraid that I can’t feed my baby back to , so I am comforted with a smile, not to be angry, and blame myself for making a mistake. Ho.
In my heart, I hate my mother-in-law and my family for not looking at me, and hate myself. Since I have been married for more than a year, my mother has always been wronged for me, and dare not eat more delicious ones. I'm afraid that I will be embarrassed by my in-laws.
She was so strong all her life,I have never taken advantage of others, but I never expected to be insulted like this in my place.
My husband’s family is too bullying, and I don’t want to bear it anymore.
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In front of everyone, I figured out how much Zhang Hao made this year. Apart from the 10,000 yuan and hospitalization expenses, my living expenses were only that little money. Not counting the cost of going to the hospital every month.
I asked Zhang Hao, how much money did you earn? I know enough, right? Are you talking about, how much money did our family take from you? Let your family make such insults over and over again, and even go to my mother's bag.
And the mother-in-law became angry and felt ashamed. But she was desperate to save face, still quibbling that, when Zhang Hao had chosen so many women with good conditions, he didn't want me to be so poor and so powerful.
She kept pointing at Zhang Hao and cursing,Talk about how you gave birth to such a hopeless son.
But Zhang Hao has no attitude, just sitting on the sofa without saying a word, bowing his head and not talking, as if he was the one who was forced to be helpless and wronged.
Seeing his wacky look, I felt very bored. I couldn't say a word, and I went out holding the baby. The cousin said when he went out, he was really not a man!
Through the doors and windows, I can still hear my mother-in-law yelling: Let’s leave, what are you afraid of, let her raise the child, will she be able to find it in the future?
We were divorced by agreement, because there is no property to divide. The house was bought by Zhang Hao’s parents and there was no deposit. It is estimated that Zhang Hao felt guilty and rented a house for our wife. From now on, he will give the children two thousand yuan each month, and the school expenses will be paid separately.
I am still very young, and when my child is young, I can learn a skill to gain a foothold in society. As long as I work hard, it will never be too late.
After a failed marriage, I also understand that what you don’t pay will only make you live in the fear of losing without knowing which day.
Have a good life,The best shortcut is to rely on yourself and work hard.
The steering wheel of life must be held firmly in your own hands.
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