said: there are more brothers and sisters, if you have any difficulties, you can have a care, but in real life there are too many brothers and sisters because of "money" unhappy. On weekdays, if you don't mention money, it's okay to say that the big guys are all family members who love each other, but when money is involved, they become a little snobbish.
Aunt Wang is 60 years old this year, and has given birth to 3 daughters with his wife, and now she is living a comfortable old-age life early. Regardless of how the aunt is enjoying the blessing now, she suffered a lot when she was young, not to mention that her family was poor, and she was even ridiculed as "extreme account". It's fine for outsiders to say some gossip, and my brothers and sisters also look down on her, and the aunt shed tears for this.
Speaking of the past, the aunt put away the smile on her face. She said that there was no boy in her family back then. First of all, she was looked down upon by her husband's brothers and sisters, for fear that when we were old, no one would take care of them and eventually drag them down. I and my wife also know in their hearts, and don’t spend too much time with them. Although I live a poor life, my old couple also have self-esteem. Why bother to stick to the cold ass? The brothers and sisters of my natal family are also lukewarm to me. Speaking of which, the brothers and sisters on both sides are not close, nor do they talk to each other.
In the past, when my parents were there, I often went back to have a look. Later, when my parents were away, I occasionally went back. My brother and sister-in-law didn’t wait to see me. They sounded very sad with cynicism, and slowly I didn’t. Why are you going back to your family's home? My wife and I raised three girls with their own hands. Although there is a lot of gossip from outsiders, my old couple have never had the old idea of patriarchy. There is only one thought in my mind. As long as I educate my children carefully, my daughters will be no worse than my sons.
The three girls are also very upbeat. The boss and the second child are all university students who have stayed in school and become teachers, and the third child opened his own shop to do business. Although they are not rich and wealthy, the girls have counted it pretty well. My wife and I looked at them and felt at ease. The eldest girl hired a door-to-door son-in-law to stay at home, which was considered half a son. Now that my family's life is getting better, the brothers and sisters on both sides are slowly getting in touch with each other. Although I am a little mindful of their coldness in previous years, but at this age, I don't want to worry about so much anymore.
Listening to the aunt talking about the past,I can also deeply understand her sadness: it feels uncomfortable to have no money, and she doesn't have a son in the countryside, and she invites outsiders to gossiping. I said that the aunt is fortunate that your three daughters are promising, and it can be regarded as a sigh of relief! The family is rich and has a good life, and relatives are coming and going again. It's really ridiculous to think about it, people are really realistic!
Madam heard me say this, she sighed and said, who said no? When you have no money, don’t go to the crowds to join in the fun. If you are despised, you have to laugh at you. How can there be relatives when the family is poor? Whoever sees you has to hide, I'm afraid you will borrow money. Now I think about 20 years ago when I cheekily asked my brothers and sisters to borrow some money to build a house. I was very resentful at the time, wondering why a brother and sister born to a mother were so cold-blooded?
When I got married with my wife, my family clinked poorly and there was nothing. I lived in the old house that I had left behind. When it rained heavily, I had to hold a bucket and a basin. The room where my old couple lives is a little better. The room where the girls live is not leaky, but I want to save money for the girls to study, so I will stay in the room to make up for the leakage.
Until 20 years ago, the old house became a dilapidated house and it was really impossible to live in. My old couple wanted to have some money at hand, and almost went to the brothers and sisters on both sides to borrow some money. Although we don't get along well on weekdays, it's not that there will be no one to help. Thinking about this, my old couple went to their brothers and sisters to borrow money. Who knows that they all seemed to have negotiated and didn't borrow any money at the end.
Auntie still couldn't help but blush when she said this. I persuaded her not to think about these unhappy things. Now she is having a good life! The aunt said that she couldn't let go of the knot in her heart, and that it was fine for outsiders to say something awkward. What her brothers and sisters said was really hurtful. The two natal sisters-in-laws said that I gave birth to 3 money-losing goods, and they didn’t have the strength to give them to the natal emissary. Don't say you have no money, even if you have money, don't borrow, you don't have a boy in your family, so why do you build a house?
I was angry and argued with my sister-in-law at that time. When I returned home, my wife didn’t borrow any money.My old couple hugged their heads and started crying. Who makes their family poor and looks down upon them? Later, my wife went to the village chief to say something nice and borrowed some money. This was the barely built two houses. Now I look at the two houses again, and my heart is really mixed. The yard that used to be deserted and desolate is now lively and lively every New Year's Day, and now it seems that it is better to have money!
I laughed and said auntie, how can I understand it at this age? Of course it is better to have money in this world! The aunt laughed as soon as she heard it. She said that she had understood it a long time ago, but she just didn't want to believe it. Those who are rich are all relatives, not to mention their own brothers and sisters, even those cousins and cousins also have contacts, and I asked my two daughters who are teachers to help them entrust their children to a good school.
Now both myself and my wife are looking down. They are guests when they come home. They are served with delicious and delicious food. If you borrow money, my old couple must also think about it. It's not that I hold grudges, but that these brothers and sisters were too unfeeling before, and what they said stuck in my heart like a knife.
Although the girls are prosperous, they also have a family of their own. My and my wife are now in good health. They plant a few acres of land, grow some vegetables, and raise a few chickens. On weekdays, I can save. My old couple have tasted the taste of not having money. Even if they are not worried about food and clothing, they are reluctant to spend a penny. I also want to save more pension money, not to drag down the girls!
Listening to the aunt's simple words, mentioning the brothers and sisters is also full of sadness and helplessness. In fact, it is not the aunt's grievance in her heart. No one can accept the ridicule of her brothers and sisters. Fortunately, the aunt has all the hardships, and the three girls are also an inexhaustible blessing! Here, the editor also hopes that the world can live in harmony with each other, with less snobs and more warmth! What do you think about this matter, please leave a message to discuss!
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